Intimate With Asti

The most common reason I see women not getting the love they want = THEY DON'T FEEL WORTHY. 

And this shows up as either a) settling or b) blocking out love. 

Tune in to see which one you most resonate with!!???

I also cover how a low sense of worth may be limiting you in other areas of your life, think: money, lifestyle, friendships, career (basically everything!)

And then go on to share with you the correlation between the high number of women carrying shame, trauma and conditioning around their bodies and sexuality and the high number of women not feeling, worthy, enough or whole. 

This ep is a spicy one and sure to light a little fire in your heart!

It's time to remember who you are queen!!!

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Hmm my loves. I'm so excited for this episode. It's basically a free workshop / coaching session where I break down for you the 5 steps to speaking your needs and boundaries.

Boundaries is a theme that has been so alive for me at the moment, but I know it has been for you too!

With so many of you DMing me questions like, 'how to I tell me partner XYZ'...

I'll let you in on a little secret, it's not so much about the HOW (you know how), it's about the what (what's stopping you). 

So in this episode I'm going to guide you though gaining clarity on what those unspoken needs and boundaries are and what inside of you is holding back from expressing your truth. 

It's going to look something like this:

1. CLARITY - what are those unspoken needs / boundaries. 

2. ADDRESSING THE BLOCK. What inside of you is afraid of speaking up, why?

3. ACKNOWLEDGING THE CONDITIONING. What were you taught you needed to do/ be in order to be loved, accepted and safe when you were a child? How is that impacting your ability to speak your needs / boundaries today?

4. YOUR WHY. What does your dream life / relationship look like? What are you doing today that isn't supportive of this (big clue to needs / boundaries  that need to be expressed)

5. HOW. A process to practice boundary setting that will make it so god damn easy to do in real life. 

Hellllllloooo queen of not settling and getting everything that she wants - are you ready??????

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It's one of those 'the girls who get it, get it' things.. 

But since you're here listening, I figure you GET that..

Sexual reclamation/ embodiment/ healing.. whatever you want to call it, is key to finding a sense of wholeness, enoughness, worthiness, contentment, fulfilment.. all of the yummy things. 

Aaaaaaaand, it's so much more than just sex. Reclaiming your body allows you to reclaim you life! Reclaiming your power allows you to reclaim your pleasure! Reclaiming your turn on allows you to reclaim your zest for life!

It's time to spice up your life baby! 

(This ep is full of spicy inspiration!)

Asti shares how her journey of sexual reclamation allowed her to:

She then had a beautiful listener, Emily come on to share how her journey of sexual reclamation allowed her to reclaim her psychic abilities (meow, yes you read the right). 

Let's dive in baby... press play! (and don't forget to leave a review)

xx

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Alright something a little different for you today babes..

We’re going to drop IN!

Into the present.

Into our bodies.

Into pleasure.

Into our most sexual, desirable and worthy selves..

I’m going to guide you through a little mini embodiment practice. Meow!!!

It's time to take a moment for YOU!

I wanted to talk all things embodiment to inspire you to reclaim your sexual self..

Buuuuuttt..

I could talk and talk and talk and get you to think and think and think..

But the thing is.. we don’t ‘think’ sexy.. we FEEL sexy..

You’re not going to think your way into FEELING sexy.

Yah just got to feel it, feel me?

So it’s time to FEEL!

To wrap up this episode we have another incredible share from my podcast listener Miss Cass. You can follow her HERE. Go give her some love!

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Alright, so last week I held an epic free live Q+A. 

Many of you signed up and missed out.. but that's ok, you can still get some of the juicy and yummy inspirational nuggets from this replay. 

This is a bit of a mumble jumble mix up of all of the thangs.. But here's an idea of what you're in for:

- Embodiment and getting out of your head during sex. 

- Pleasure, orgasm, desire. 

- Self-pleasure. 

- Knowing your needs. 

- Emotional maturity. 

- Intentional celibacy. 

- Getting over an ex / healing from betrayal. 

Offft it's a goodie!

Be sure to keep an eye out for when I'm hosting the next live Q+A and hot seat coaching. I would love to meet you all!!

Enjoy!!

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Buckle up bitches and prepare for the convo you didn't know you needed today. 

Ok so men and money (or cock and cash as I prefer) are two things we all want and desire, am I right? 

(And let's be real, probably two things that bring us the most stress and worry)

No wonder so many coaches are now creating one stop stop offers where you can work on both you love life and your bank account, but do they really correlate? Is it really that simple?

Is your relationship with money really a reflection of your relationship with men (and vice versa)???

That's the question we be diving into in this ep. 

Pluuuuuuussssss

- Are you limiting your abundance and money making potential in fear of what he might think?

- Are you throwing yourself into your business to avoid issues that may be coming up in your relationship?

- Do you believe men are emasculated by a women who makes 'too much' money?

- Do you feel you need to hide your big wins (and sexy purchases) from him? (oh hell no girl)

- Are you unconsciously taking on his shitting money stories and limiting beliefs?

- Are your values around money aligned?

Enjoy queens!!!!

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Mixing it up with something a little different this week. 

I answer your burning questions about sex, love, relationships (and myself).. 

But before all of that, I had a listener on sharing with you her inspirational love story and what it took to go from situationship after situationship to dreamy, out of this world relationship. 

HINT: Doing 'the work' works!

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We're in an age of sexual empowerment.. but WHAT IS sexual empowerment exactly?

Is it really all about showing a lot of skin and having a lot of sex?

Well, it could be.. or it could NOT be.. 

That's the thing, sexual empowerment doesn't look a certain way. It's not one size fits all. 

It's not about WHAT you are doing but more so about the energy and the intention behind it, the WHY...

It's about knowing what YOU want and what serves YOU and following that unique desire, expression or flavour. 

In this ep I share my seasons of sexual empowerment from stripping + one night stands > celibacy > monogamy. 

I also share listeners thoughts and what YOU ALL consider 'sexual empowerment', as well as a little riff on what being sexual empowered gets to feel like. Remember: someones expression of 'empowerment' on instagram is just a small glimpse but the REAL MAGIC of working on your sexuality is often found bts or felt in private... it's a FEELING of wholeness and enoughness, it's deep connection to self, others and the divine, it's a certain type of magic and aliveness. 

MEeeeeeeeeow to that!!!

Ohhh and I also had a special guest on!!! One Intimate With Asti listener came on to share her beautiful love story with a reminder that love doesn't take LUCK it takes WERRRK!

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Asti finally shares her own love story. And how she went from breakup (and heartbroken) - celibate - in a new dreamy relationship in a year and a half. 

Not much more to share here. Press play to hear the juicy details ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

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Hey my loves. 

I'm back and I'm diving back into that conversation we had last week about 'bare minimum' behaviours. 

>>> Giving you more clarity on behaviour that SHOULD and SHOULDN'T be celebrated.

Behaviours that are a sign that you're onto something good vs letting said good behaviour convince you you should lock him in.. like now!

I then share a big fat list of red flags + one of green flags.. (bring a note pad and pen)

..and carried on to explain why relationships, love, dating, sex, human psychology isn't black and white and how finding a dreamy man and landing a dreamy relationship is so much more than avoiding red flags and ticking boxes. It helps as a guideline YES, but we've got to leave room for him to be human, baby!

What this means is leave room for him to grow and to learn how to be a better lover for you. 

Nobody is perfect! (but in the same breath, be mindful of what you choose to settle on). 

Compromise is important, but make sure you're not turning a blind eye to things you know are going to get on your nerves later down the track. 

This isn't going to be fun for you or for him. 

Ohhh juicy, juicy stuff!

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