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Welcome back lovers!

For the first part of the poddy Asti shares some of your responses to the question 'what are some bare minimum efforts you have celebrated in the past?' I don't think you're ready for this! Get ready for some serious LOLS. 

Celebrating 'being nice', 'saying please', 'having a shower', why are we like this ladies?! Why is the bar set so fucking low? 

Is he really that amazing? Is he really 'the one'? Or is he just less of an asshole than your last BF was?

We break that down further.... AND THEN.. 

We dive into a conversation around what boundaries are NOT!

Boundaries are amazing for saying 'no' to what you don't want and 'yes' to what you do.

But is telling him.. 'I can't tonight, I'm tired', or giving a fake number really a boundary? Or is it just putting out the energy of 'not now, maybe try me later'? Leaving the door ajar, still making yourself available to that energy and still leaving an opportunity for him to weasel his way back in?

Asti shared how to strengthen your 'no' so you can build boundaries that WORK for you and support you closing the door on the past bare minimum bullshit forever so you can open the door to a bright new future (and sexy new men). 

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GHOSTING: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.

Let's talk about it!!!

In this episode Asti speaks on: (super quick recap)

- Reasons WHY men ghost. 

- What this says about you and your attachment style. 

- How letting someone know you're NOT interested is respectful for both you and for them. (And moves you closer to the love you DO want).

- How to protect yourself from this flaky, on again, off again energy. 

- How sex changes things and how men and women view sex differently early on in dating. 

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Hey lover!

Feeling stuck when it comes to love? Dating life a shambles? Your relationship in a funk? 

Asti shares the two types of women who may find themselves unlucky in love and what you may need to do to turn that luck around. (Which one are you?)

Then she dives deeper into the concept of men being mirrors, meaning that where we are being met is a reflection of our own inner world and web of conditioning, thoughts, beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves, our level of self-worth around love, our ability to surrender, be seen, be vulnerable, speak up and even offer ourselves yummy yummy orgasms. 

And we chat about the one thing you're doing that is giving your power away and causing your love life to come to a grinding (and not in a sexy way) halt. Hint: BLAMING MEN!

And the last little nugget, she shares with you the ONE solution to anything and everything you may be facing. Can YOU guess what it is? :)

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In todays episode Asti Shares a piece of her own story on how she overcame body insecurities, shame, self-doubt, feeling unworthy, unloved and undesirable to becoming a stripper, dancing naked on stages all over Australia, being crowned 'Miss Erotic Australia' and finally becoming a self-loving, self validating queen!!

She also shares.. 

- Why ANY BODY can have body insecurities and why it's important not to judge another woman's experience. 

- What true empowerment is and how it looks different to everyone. 

- How she ended up in an abusive toxic relationship. 

- Why she started stripping and how she became a showgirl.

- What supported her overcoming body shame.

- How basing all of your worth on looks alone can be deeply disempowering. 

- How leading with your sexuality isn't as empowering as it may look. 

- What makes a woman truly desirable. 

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Ok so more than half of you voted for this weeks ep to be on 'becoming magnetic and irresistible to men' so here it is..

Asti senses from her followers this deep, almost helpless longing to be chosen by a man, and although she's all about empowering you to choose yourself.. she fucking gets it!

She wants you to honour the longing, to own the longing.. As women we want to be wanted, we loved to feel loved, we desire to feel desired and that’s ok. It’s normal. It’s a part of our human experience and all of these things add richness, depth, fullness and magic to our lives.

The point she wants to make in this ep is that this is your super power. 

It’s not a mans desire for you that makes you desirable.. You are desirable. FULL STOP.

Want to feel this, embody this, believe this and live it as your reality? tune in to find out how.

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Right ladies, Asti is back with a powerful, powerful episode!

We all want love right, that's why you're dating, in a relationship or simply here listening to this podcast. 

A common theme is that many women are craving  M  O  R  E  love!

But have you ever thought about the possible ways you might be blocking yourself from receiving M  O  R  E  ?????

Asti shares 5 simple and straight forward tangle tips that you can take home and use today to begin opening yourself up and making yourself available to more love and the type of love you crave. 

A sneak peak:

We chat.. 

Self worth - When you feel unworthy of love it’s not that it isn’t there you just don’t allow yourself to receive it!!!!!!!!! (WhAAAAAT?!?)

Attachment styles - how your anxious attachment style may actually be causing him to pull away (and pull his love away).

Emotional maturity - How to turn triggers into an opportunity to build love rather than conflict. 

Understanding men - How acknowledging him when he does make you feel loved inspires him to do more of it.

Self pleasure - How a self-pleasure practice makes you more desirable to men and more open and able to receive. 

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Asti asked the question on her Instagram 'Do you find it hard to trust men?' and the wild thing is most of you said YES!

Not trusting men can become a huge block when it comes to love. How are you going to fully open, surrender and allow love in when your underlying belief is that men are untrustworthy?... That's the thing, you're not!!

Those walls you have up around your heart may be protecting you from being hurt again but they may also be keeping out the very love you crave. After all, to fall in love is to risk being hurt. 

After finding out how many of her followers have been betrayed by past lovers, Asti decided to open up about her own story of betrayal and share the steps she took to not only learn to trust men again but to land in a beautiful, new, loving relationship. 

Here's a glimpse at what she covers:

- How to stop questioning where you went wrong (you're not to blame)

- Self forgiveness. Stop judging yourself for not seeing 'the signs'.

- Forgiving him. Free yourself!

- How to ensure that this experience doesn't close you off from finding love in the future.

- Understanding your new needs and boundaries to ensure you feel safe in your next relationship. 

- Why you can only truly trust men once you trust yourself to speak up when things feel 'off'. 

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Too often as women we tend to push the blame on men and complain about everything they are doing wrong or what they could improve on. But it really is such a beautiful thing to take a look at yourself, question where you could improve and even better, work on it!

YOUR POWER LAYS IN WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE!!!! AKA YOU!

In this episode Asti asks the question 'What's one this you could change to become a better lover?' She shares why it’s important to take self responsibility and discusses the steps she took to become a better lover by learning emotional maturity. (The ability to sit with, regulate, understand and express emotions and emotional needs).

KEY: It’s about reflecting before reacting. Reflecting before projecting..

So that you can communicate effectively, while staying open to your partner instead of shutting down and pushing them away. After all this is not going to support you getting the love you want and desire. 

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Want to know how to get him to plan more fun, sexy dates?

(Or how to inspire him to step up and meet any of your needs for that matter)

Hello, hey, Hi.. Asti is here to help :) 

In this episode Asti shared 3 clear and simple steps when it comes to getting you needs met in your relationship. 

- Know your worth girl!

- Own your desires. 

- ASK to have them met. (The magic here is in how you ask, and that is exactly what Asti dives into in this episode). 

- Be vulnerable and get expressive!!

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Until next ep 

xx