Why does childhood feel endless, but the last five years feel like they disappeared?
In this episode, I break down something I call The Novelty Rule — the idea that intentionally introducing new experiences into your life can actually make your life feel longer.
Your brain is a prediction machine. When experiences are repetitive, it compresses them. When something is new, it creates a prediction error, activates dopamine, and strengthens memory encoding in the hippocampus. Novel moments take up more “mental space” in hindsight, which is why routine makes time blur, and novelty stretches it.
We’ll talk about:
Why your brain compresses familiar experiences
How dopamine signals importance (not just pleasure)
Why childhood feels long and adulthood feels fast
The connection between novelty, neuroplasticity, and cognitive health
My simple framework: 1 small disruption daily, 1 new experience weekly, 1 new skill quarterly, and 1 big event annually
If you’re tired of life feeling like it’s on autopilot, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to add years to your life to expand it.
Try the Novelty Rule this week and see what happens.
Study referenced:Rutledge, R. B., Skandali, N., Dayan, P., & Dolan, R. J. (2014). A computational and neural model of momentary subjective well-being. Psychological Science, 25(3), 780–790. https://doi.org/10.1177/0956797613504966
Intro and outro music by Pecan Pie.