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Anna from It Starts With Yoo talks with podcaster Kash Hovey (On Air with Kash) about mindful dating and wellness in LA’s dating culture. Kash reflects on how LA changed from the pre-reality TV era, where ambition, name-dropping, and hidden agendas shaped relationships, and discusses how meaningful connections often endure even when people drift apart. They explore how social media and constant access to information affect communication, risk-taking, and the ability to connect, along with concerns about performance, privacy, and fear of being posted online. The conversation touches on cancel culture, Me Too, hypocrisy in entertainment power structures, and examples like Terry Crews and Bill Cosby, emphasizing how narratives shift with podcasts and public scrutiny. Anna shares that her podcast began as personal journaling about commitment issues and trust in big-city dating, and Kash describes the traits he values in a partner. They close with Kash’s social links and Anna’s support and Instagram info.
00:00 Meet The Hosts
00:40 LA Dating Then And Now
01:45 Meaningful Connections
02:55 Social Media And Touch Grass
04:16 Dating Gurus Vs Real Life
05:24 Agendas And Name Dropping
06:39 Male Performance Culture
08:33 Millennial Media Shifts
11:09 Fear Of Being Recorded
15:13 Cancel Culture And MeToo
18:08 Hollywood Hypocrisy Stories
20:39 Power And Hidden Abuse
20:53 Growing Up Fast In LA
21:58 Swingers And Dating Lessons
22:18 Big Shot Dating Fails
23:34 Social Media Anxiety Shift
24:48 LA Dating Effort Problem
25:25 Generations And Marriage Scripts
28:07 Music Then Vs Streaming
29:43 Aging Memory And Tech
31:17 Podcast Origins And Dating Questions
33:28 Options Apps And Ambition
37:02 Settling Down Expectations
40:14 News Narratives And Trust
42:24 Wrap Up And Plugs
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