It's Happening For Me

okay this episode is with one of my favorite human beings, amazing friend + literally the QUEEN OF CONFIDENCE, madi maple ♡

and we went EVERYWHERE lol.

madi shares what confidence actually looked like before she became the person we see today — growing up feeling like there was something inherently wrong with her, constantly filtering herself, dimming herself + feeling guilty for the things she genuinely liked.

we talk about how confidence is NOT something that just naturally came to her. it’s something she had to build. and how the same work that helped her stop hating herself is the work that eventually helped her build a 7 figure business.

we get into how she started her business before she even really knew what the coaching industry was, recording her first podcast like 15 TIMES, listening back while she was doing DoorDash + absolutely ripping herself apart 😭 until she finally said fuck it and PUT IT OUT.

and instead of obsessing over funnels, positioning + trying to look like an authority… she started helping people.

“how can i serve people?”

free coaching. free masterclasses. free ebooks. talking to people. actually CARING about people.

which turns into a whole conversation about something i think the online business world desperately needs to hear: sometimes you actually have to put in the fucking WORK and build something brick by brick.

we also talk about why being fully yourself is one of the best things you can do for your brand — even the weird, silly, spiritual, partying, festival-going parts of you.

because how are you supposed to attract SOULMATE CLIENTS if the version of you they’re meeting online isn’t even really you???

and then somehow we end up in one of my favorite stories of the entire episode LOL — madi breaking off her engagement, selling everything she owned, packing a suitcase + booking a ONE-WAY FLIGHT TO COSTA RICA because she knew she needed to go experience a completely different life.

we talk about relationships where nothing is technically “wrong” but you still can’t ignore the pull inside of you… her digital nomad era, finding her way back to herself + eventually finding her way back to henry.

ANDDD we get into the side of entrepreneurship nobody really shows you.

yes, madi has built an incredible life. retreats. travel. freedom. friends. her soulmate. a 7 figure business.

and she also works her fucking ass off 😂

we talk about focus management, balancing feminine intuition with actual STRUCTURE, doing the needle-moving things in your business + why “$50k in 7 days while barely working” marketing can completely distort what building a business actually looks like.

finally, we get into the deeper work of confidence — comparison, overthinking, people pleasing, perfectionism, boundaries, nervous system regulation, identity + becoming the version of yourself who actually believes she is worthy of the BIG SHIT she wants.

this conversation is honestly business, relationships, confidence, identity, sisterhood, authenticity + becoming MORE of who you actually are all rolled into one.

i love madi so much and i am so excited for you guys to hear this one ♡

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find Madi:
Instagram — @madimaple
podcast — breaking butterfly

work with Madi- https://www.madimaple.com

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Instagram- @iamellisamae

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this episode is JUICY.

i sat down with Cyn, spiritual guide + creator of cycle breakers, for a conversation about what it actually looks like to BREAK the cycles you were raised in + have the courage to choose yourself.

cynthia shares her story of being with someone for almost half of her life, building an entire life together, having children, moving across the country + eventually realizing that even though everything looked “good” from the outside… she wasn't happy.

we talk about those tiny intuitive hits that tell you something isn't right, what happens when you keep ignoring them, and how fucking HARD it can be to leave something you still have love for.

we also get into motherhood + trying to parent differently than you were parented, family wounds, anger + the shame we can carry around our shadowy reactions, and why healing doesn't mean you suddenly become a perfect person who never gets triggered again.

PLUS we get into cynthia's spiritual gifts + her ability to pick up on when something in someone's life needs to END — whether that's a relationship, a job or an entire chapter.

we talk about:

♡ leaving relationships + choosing yourself
♡ learning to actually TRUST your intuition
♡ breaking generational cycles as a mother
♡ why healing doesn't mean never getting triggered again
♡ spiritual gifts + recognizing endings
♡ using your voice + throat chakra work
♡ turning the shit you've actually lived through into the work you're here to do
♡ why sometimes the thing you're most equipped to help someone through is the exact thing you've had to overcome yourself
♡ cynthia's new cycle breakers membership + creating a space for REAL, vulnerable conversations

this conversation is raw, funny, vulnerable + VERY real.

because sometimes cycle breaking isn't about fixing what already exists.

sometimes it's finally admitting...

this chapter is DONE.

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CONNECT WITH CYN: Instagram & tiktok @healwithcynthia 

Podcast: RandomSpirit 

website: www.randomspirithealing.com

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CONNECT WITH ELLISA:

Instagram & tiktok: @iamellisamae

Book your Gene Keys Reading, join the Healing Bubble membership: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

xx, love you!

there are people out there RIGHT NOW that have had their lives CHANGED by you just being you... and you have NO IDEA!!!! even outside of your paid offers people are inspired by you just you BEING YOU. 

i experienced a really synchronistic moment when I went to get my oil changed today and it's something that happens all the time... and we don't even know. 

YOUR PURPOSE is so much bigger than just your business, and WHO YOU ARE inspires change in everyone around you.

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xx, love youuu!

in this episode, i’m sitting down with the beautiful Holly Ransom — somatics + authentic expression coach, countercultural yoga witch, nervous system whisperer, and one of the most genuinely EMBODIED humans i know.

and honestly… this conversation went EVERYWHERE in the best possible way lol.

we talk about our experiences with sobriety + how much of drinking for both of us was really about disconnecting from ourselves, our bodies, our emotions, and even intimacy.

we get into holly’s journey with yoga + spirituality, how she found her way back to her purpose, and what it actually looks like to stop trying to follow the external template of what your life or business is “supposed” to look like.

we also talk about heartbreak — and the really fucking painful seasons where you can’t possibly see what exists on the other side yet.

because sometimes the thing you’re desperately trying to hold onto is ALSO the thing taking up all the space for what wants to come next.

holly shares how the ending of a relationship she thought was her future opened up SO much energy in her life — for her business, friendships, travel, love, healing, and ultimately a version of herself she hadn’t met yet.

we also get into:

✨ gene keys + learning to recognize when you’re operating from force vs. FLOW

✨ why you don’t have to exhaust yourself to be successful

✨ nervous system work + actually allowing emotions to MOVE through the body

✨ purpose + following the little threads of what keeps lighting you up

✨ bringing the mystical AND the practical together in business

✨ authentic expression, movement, pleasure + literally shaking your ass lol

✨ why your path doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s

✨ and what can happen when you stop looking outside of yourself for all the answers and start LISTENING to what wants to move through YOU

this conversation is really about trusting your path.

trusting the endings.

trusting the weird little breadcrumbs.

trusting what lights you up.

and realizing that maybe you don’t have to fucking try so hard.

maybe there’s a version of your life that feels more spacious, more alive, more YOU — and you get to follow the thread that takes you there. 🦋

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follow Holly + join her Path or Purpose Group Program or catch the next Twerk Shop!!! at www.instagram.com/cyclesandshadowshealing @cyclesandshadowspod  cyclesandshadowshealing.com

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In today's episode, I'm joined by the incredible Torny Wigum, stage manager, mentor, and founder of The Dancing Heart. Together we explore what it really means to prepare yourself for the spotlight—not by becoming someone else, but by healing the parts of yourself that have been afraid to fully express who you are.

We dive into rejection wounds, somatic healing, intuition, prosperity, following joy, and why saying "yes" to your heart often leads to opportunities you could never have planned.

Whether you're an entrepreneur, creative, healer, or simply someone who knows they're meant for more, this conversation will give you permission to stop hiding and start trusting yourself.

✨ Why visibility feels so scary (and what it's really about)

✨ How rejection wounds quietly shape your life and business

✨ The somatic practice that transformed Torny's confidence

✨ Why preparing your nervous system matters more than perfect strategy

✨ The difference between chasing wealth and living in prosperity

✨ Following your intuition when it doesn't make logical sense

✨ Why joy is one of the most powerful guides you'll ever have

✨ Trusting the unknown and allowing life to surprise you

Instagram: www.instagram.com/tornywigum

Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3rutTqa1rkG60tEDgtip6f?si=da052b3c998f4659

I think we've been thinking about money all wrong.

Money isn't bad (I freaking love money 😂), but I think we've confused wealth with prosperity.

In this episode, we're diving into why someone can make millions and still never feel safe, how prosperity is rooted in relationships rather than accumulation, and why I believe money has so much more to do with purpose, service, and contribution than we've been taught.

We'll explore the Gene Keys Pearl Sequence, Human Design, the Hero's Journey, the three pathways to enlightenment (self, love & relationships, and service), the cycles of nature, and why prosperity isn't something we chase—it's something we become.

We'll talk about why money flows through people, why opening your heart might be the most practical business strategy no one talks about, and why I believe your prosperity grows in direct proportion to the courage you have to let people experience your gifts.

I also share some personal stories, mindset shifts, and the philosophies that have completely transformed the way I think about success, purpose, business, and what it really means to live a prosperous life.

If you're a spiritual entrepreneur, coach, healer, creative, or someone who wants to build a business that's deeply aligned with who you are—not just what you do—I think you're going to love this one. 🩷

If this episode sparked something in you, I have two ways we can explore your unique blueprint together...

🧬 The Prosperity Blueprint Gene Keys Reading (now live!)

This personalized reading is a deep dive into your Pearl Sequence—your Vocation, Culture, Brand, and Pearl Gene Keys—to uncover how you're uniquely designed to create value, build trust, attract aligned opportunities, and cultivate prosperity in a way that feels deeply authentic to you.

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If you're ready for a deeper transformation, The Portal of You is my private 1:1 six-month initiation through your entire Gene Keys Hologenetic Profile. Together we'll explore your Genius, Relationships, and Prosperity through personalized Gene Keys transmissions, Human Design, the Akashic Records, and deep integration—so you can stop trying to become someone else and start building a life and business that's an authentic expression of who you already are.

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Hi babes! I'm baaaack! This episode is a special sneak peek inside my private membership, The Healing Bubble. 💗

Every week inside the membership, I record a Cosmic Weather Forecast where we explore the Gene Keys transit we're moving through collectively, what lessons are being activated, and how to actually work with the energy instead of against it.

Normally these transmissions live exclusively inside The Healing Bubble, but this week's message felt way too important not to share publicly!!!!!!

So today, you're getting a behind-the-scenes look at one of the weekly activations my members receive.

🧬 This week's transit:
Gene Key 16

Indifference → Versatility → Mastery

And honestly? If you've been wondering why you're still not becoming known for your work, why you're constantly looking outside yourself for the next certification, modality, strategy, or mentor, or why your content isn't landing the way you know it could...

This one is for you.

Inside this transmission, we're exploring:

⚔ Why skills take time to develop and mastery can't be rushed.

⚔ The hidden trap of trying to build your business exactly like your coach, mentor, or favorite creator.

⚔ Why people don't hire you because of your modality—they hire YOU using the modality.

⚔ What actually makes someone magnetic, memorable, and impossible to compare.

⚔ Why enthusiasm is one of the most underrated clues pointing you toward your genius.

⚔ How the most iconic leaders become so present with their work that their gifts, wisdom, and skills start dancing together naturally.

This Gene Key lives in the energy of Gemini and the Throat Center, making it a powerful time to look at your voice, your message, your gifts, and what you're actually here to be known for.

Because the goal was never to become the next version of your mentor.

The goal was always to become more of YOU.

✨ If you loved this episode, you'll love The Healing Bubble.

Inside you'll get access to these exclusive weekly Cosmic Weather Forecasts, energetic activations, hypnosis tracks, meditations, subconscious reprogramming audios, and my entire library of tools designed to help coaches, healers, readers, and spiritual entrepreneurs become the most magnetic, confident, and booked-out version of themselves.

And keep your eyes peeled...

My signature private mentorship, The Portal of You, is opening soon.

A 90-day private activation for spiritual entrepreneurs who know they're exceptional at what they do—and are ready for the rest of the world to know it too.

I'll only be taking 5 private clients at a time. 🖤✨

In this episode, I’m talking about a moment that changed everything — a decision I made that led to one of the biggest identity shifts of my life.

I recently went on a hot girl shit retreat— and girl, I didn’t even see myself as someone who belonged in that room. I used to think I wasn’t “that girl.” I didn’t feel hot enough, successful enough, enough enough.

But something in me knew it was time to step into a new identity. And not just in theory — in my energy, my presence, my reality.

In this episode, I share:

• Why identity embodiment is the missing piece in your business and magnetism
• What happens when your outer world finally catches up with the inner work you’ve been doing
• How claiming your next level has nothing to do with waiting and everything to do with deciding
• The behind-the-scenes of what this retreat cracked open for me (and my brand)

This isn’t about changing who you are — it’s about becoming who you already are simply through DECIDING. 

If you’re ready to step into the version of you who owns her glow, claims her power, and becomes the living brand of her work — this one’s for you.

✧ FREE 5-DAY EXPERIENCE: Selling with Soul – Create your soul-aligned offer using the Gene Keys
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Hello my babes! In this deeply empowering episode I get to sit down with sacred flow guide and higher self mentor, Erin Carthew. Erin shares her powerful journey of remembering who she is—starting as a spiritually connected child, moving through grief and loss, and ultimately returning to her purpose as a divine creatrix and mentor for soul-led women.

Together, we explore:

• Erin’s spiritual awakening and the loss that cracked her open
• The wisdom behind her Kosha Method and upcoming Sacred Flow Blueprint
• What it means to live in divine flow, surrender, and frequency alignment
• How to actually manifest a life you love (without bypassing the real healing)
• Somatic healing, shadow work, and connecting with your higher self
• Practical tips to sustain a high frequency (even when life gets messy)
• Her story of rebuilding confidence and embodying her higher self through DANCE 💃

Whether you're navigating grief, stepping into your power, or calling in a divine partner, this episode will remind you: you are the co-creator of your reality.

🎁 Don’t miss Erin’s free 7-day Heart-Led Challenge, starting Monday! (today April 14th 2025!)
✨ Plus, grab her free Kosha Method eBook and check out all her magical offerings via @erinc.coaching

Connect with Erin
Instagram: @erinc.coaching
Free eBook + Challenge: Link in her bio

You can also can send Erin a dm to unlock her manifesting course - where she shares the 8 keys to make manifesting lasting and automatic- for $37

Work with Erin: https://stan.store/erinccoaching

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Connect with Ellisa; www.instagram.com/iamellisamae

Work with Ellisa: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

Hi babes! In this beautiful and deeply personal episode, I sit down with Fertility Doula + Spirit Baby Channel Carla Maldonado for an honest conversation about motherhood, healing, and reconnecting with your feminine power.

Carla opens up about her postpartum experience after the birth of her son, navigating physical challenges like mastitis, the emotional toll of feeling unsupported, and the unexpected identity shift that many women face after becoming mothers. She shares how this difficult time became the catalyst for a profound self-love journey that eventually transformed her marriage, her relationship with herself, and her purpose.

We talk about what shifted for her between her first and second pregnancies, including how energy healing, Akashic Records, and subconscious work supported her in conceiving her daughter Cleo. She walks us through how energetic blocks (like fears around breastfeeding or trauma from past birth experiences) can subtly prevent conception—and how clearing them can create space for your spirit baby to come through.

Carla also shares what it’s like parenting as a Projector with a Manifestor son and Reflector daughter, the importance of teaching children to listen to themselves, and how Human Design helps her nurture her kids' individuality and confidence. We even get into how she energetically supports her son Tiago with nightly energy healing—and the sweet way he asks for it!

We wrap up by diving into Carla’s signature 12-week group program The Conception Vortex, which helps women heal, reconnect with their bodies, communicate with their spirit babies, and manifest conscious conception from a place of deep alignment, joy, and trust.

Whether you’re a mom, soon-to-be mom, or healing your own feminine relationship—this episode will make you feel held, inspired, and reconnected to your power.

connect with Carla on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamcarlamaldonado/

work with Carla: https://stan.store/iamcarlamaldonado

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