It's the Discussion For Me

In this episode, I’m taking youdeep into what God has been revealing to me lately—through scripture, reflection, and even a near-death moment.

💌 "You haven't even met everyone who's going to love you yet" — That hit me. As someone who loves love, this shifted me from focusing on lack to expectancy and divine timing.

💔 Love is freedom—but that freedom can be heartbreaking. God held a mirror up to me and reminded me: sometimes the offense we feel isn't about others. It’s about what He’s trying to heal in us.

🚨 A recent accident reminded me: life is fragile, God is sovereign. It’s not about my goodness, it's about His grace. I was spared, but that doesn't mean I’m perfect. I’m just clear that I need Jesus every single day.

📖 We’re also diving into Ruth & Naomi and what they teach us about loyalty, love, and divinealignment.

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This episode is layered—andnecessary. From celebrating Black excellence to confronting the uncomfortabletruths about our society and even ourselves, we’re going all the way in.

🎓 Village Babies DoingBig Things!
We’re starting with a celebration! One is headed to her dream school ANDanother rocked the Black Girls Film Camp. These young ladies are killing itand making us proud.

⚖️ When Justice Fails BlackWomen — The Case of Adriana Smith
Adriana Smith was kept alive against her family’s wishes just to bring her babyto term. And once again, a Black woman’s body was used as an experiment. Let’stalk about being pro-life and pro-agency. I’m not here to argue—justoffer perspective, compassion, and truth.

🧊 ICE and necessaryconversations :We go deep on resistance, identity, and the conversations noone wants to have—but needs to.

📖 God Came for Me(Again!):
After months of stalling, the Bible reading group launches July 1st. Let’s getin the Word together. 👏🏾

💥 Mini Topic: MeanGirls in Ministry (And in Life)
This part? Whew. The Holy Spirit read me for filth. What started as a convoabout church drama became a full life check:

✨ Ministry isn't just onSundays—it's how you drive, parent, work, and respond to the petty neighbor.
✨Are you willing to go against the group to walk in love?
✨Stop stewing in offense. Love doesn't mean agreement—itmeans compassion.
✨Don't burden others with your calling. Challenge? Yes. Condemn? No.
✨Obedience may disappoint people, but love must still lead.

At the end of the day, I just wantto be sure I’m not the mean girl in life. Everybody may not like me, butthey’ll see the love of God through me. 💛

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Drop your thoughts in the comments—this one’s deep.👇🏾

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Tap in, Tap in!
Spring is springing and everything—from relationships to ideas—is blooming! In this heartfelt episode, we talk about how to watch things bloom without always needing to pluck them.  Sometimes love means letting things grow at a distance… and that’s okay.

We also get into:
 Netflix’s Forever — A beautiful coming-of-age story based on Judy Blume’s novel. Shoutout to Wood Harris as Eric Edwards. His fathering style brought back memories of how my dad raised me with conversation over control.
 The 12-Foot Statue of a Black Woman in Times Square — A powerful moment of visibility that sparked deep conversation. What does it mean to feel worthy in your rawest form? Let’s challenge beauty standards and redefine “soft girl era” on our own terms.
 Communication ≠ Expression — Let’s talk about the difference between emoting and effectively communicating, especially in our relationships with emotionally intelligent men. Sis, iron sharpens iron. 
 Creating Safe Spaces for Black Women AND the Men We Love — Learn how to listen without repackaging, and respond without weaponizing.

 Plus, a gentle wrap-up of our current book journey and a heads-up for next month’s spicy topic: Mean Girls in Ministry.

 Homework? Yup! Start with self-evaluation before pointing outward. What have YOU contributed to the culture of ministry? We’re going deeper next time, so start reflecting now.

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This week, we’re diving DEEP into some real talk that Blackwomen (and honestly, everybody) need to hear:

✅ The Power of “No” — Inspired byMichelle Obama, we’re reclaiming our peace by setting boundaries without guilt.

✅ Faith Without Cancellation —Disagreements in the church? They should lead to real dialogue, not division.

✅ Purpose Reimagined — Yourpurpose isn’t about meeting society’s standards; it’s about personal growth andauthentic living.

✅ Trusting God, Even When YouQuestion Him — Faith and questions can coexist. Trust the journey.

✅ Media & Faith — How what wewatch and listen to shapes our views of God, community, and even ourselves.

✅ Identity Check — We are morethan our church roles. We are multifaceted, complex, and fully known by God.

We’re also breaking down lessons from the film 'Sinners' —navigating community dynamics, holding everyone accountable (without idolizingthem), and staying grounded in who you are.

🛑 Protect your peace. 🙏🏾Honor your journey. 💬 Start the conversation.

🎧 Listen now on[Spotify/Apple Podcasts/YouTube] and share your thoughts in the comments! 👇🏾

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📢 New Episode Alert:"His Presence is Loud!" 🎙️🔥

👀 Tap in! This month,we’re getting real about grief, joy, and God's undeniable presence in ourlives.

💔 Ending My GrievingSeason: The controversy around Marvin Sapp video encourages us to find aspace where you feel safe in faith. Also, can we talk about how Black folks areline dancing through the chaos of the world? 😂 The joy is unmatched!

🙏🏾 God Camefor Me This Month (Per Usual, lol): Don't mistake His silence for absence.His presence is LOUD! Growing up, my dad’s and brother’s presence alone kept mecovered—just like God’s does for us today. Sometimes, we’re looking for a wordwhen His presence is the word. Period.

📖 Back to Basics withProvision: Ever felt like what God provided wasn’t enough? Maybe it justdidn’t meet your expectations. Trust that He’s working—His timing ispurposeful. Stop comparing your provision to someone else’s and embrace howHe’s showing up for you.

💡 Key Takeaways:
✨Joy and grief can coexist—give yourself permission to feelboth.
✨God’s silence isn’tabsence; His presence is your protection.
✨Provision may not look how you expect, but it’salways enough.
✨Pleasure alone won’t sustain you—live for what is eternal.

🎧 Listen now on[Spotify/Apple Podcasts/YouTube] and let’s discuss! Drop your thoughts in thecomments. 👇🏾

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In this episode, we’re diving deep into February, love, and the language of grief—because healing starts with understanding. We’re also sharing a must-follow IG page @wegoontour that’s doing incredible work! Plus, I reflect on a childhood story that the Holy Spirit used to teach me a powerful lesson (this one hit deep). And we’re breaking down Chapters 2 & 3 of When Faith Disappoints by Lisa Victoria Fields, exploring identity and peace when faith doesn’t align with our experiences. Let’s keep the convo going! Connect with me on IG and TikToK @evolution_of _beSpotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itdfm  

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 ITDFM podcast is back to start year 4 and we have added visuals!!! In this episode your host taps into the new year with a few hot topics, discusses how God checked her, and ends with some highlights from the new read When Faith Disappoints: The Gap Between What We Believe And What We Experience by Lisa Victoria Fields. Please consider sharing this video with 2 people if this episode added any value to you or could potentially help someone in your life.  Connect with us on IG and TikToK @evolution_of_be 

Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/itdfm Apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-the-discussion-for-me/id1603061810 ️Utilize our Google form to send anonymous letters, book questions, general questions, and/topic ideas. We welcome all input and feedback. https://forms.gle/muPH4H2K88AuvZSE8 

Lastly, please excuse the glare from the glasses. We can only get better.

We want to thank God and our amazing audience for rocking with us for 3 years! Time is precious, so anytime you spend with us, we don't take it for granted. During this episode, we have a few BIG announcements as we transition into the next season. We love you guys and hope you have an amazing holiday season. December, we are off and look forward to picking back up in 2025!!!

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We are adding a book club segment in 2025 on the ITDFM Podcast, and the book picked during the poll was "The Gap Between What We Believe and What We Experience" by Lisa Victoria Fields. We are also adding a visual component in 2025, so follow us on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ITDFMpodcast Leggggggoooo! 

Managing current events and spiritual reflection are topics covered in this episode. Christian urges listeners to turn to their faith for comfort during difficult times. Finally, she emphasizes the importance of worship during trying times.

Please consider sharing with two people if this episode added any value to you or could potentially help someone in your life.  Follow your hosts Brandi @evolution_of_be and Christian @ms.christianfcollins

This episode explores a subject that Christian is passionate about: what she refers to as manufactured fruit. Using examples from her own life, she offers self-evaluation questions to encourage introspection and research into becoming the best version of oneself.

Please consider sharing with 2 people if this episode added any value to you or could potentially help someone in your life.  Follow your hosts Brandi @evolution_of_be and Christian @ms.christianfcollins