Your philosophy on glamor, body adornment, and magnetic self-devotion.

What if your beauty rituals weren’t shallow, but sacred? In this episode, Andi reclaims beauty from the projections, shame, and limitations so often wrapped around it—and calls bullshit on the idea that you have to choose between being hot, smart, or deep—and shares why your beauty is never just about aesthetics. It’s a spell. It’s energetic. It’s a mirror for your inner state. Whether you’re a trendsetter, a chameleon, or somewhere in between, this episode reminds you that when you align your outside with your insides, the magic becomes magnetic.

In this episode, you’ll explore:

- Why beauty isn’t shallow—it’s sacred

- How patriarchal conditioning has made us afraid of our own magnetism

- Body adornment as a spiritual practice

- The power of being hot and deep and funny and wise

** A journaling invitation: If beauty is a spell, what kind of magic does your presence cast?

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Real talk on self-sabotage, avoidance, and sacred rebellion.

What if that voice calling you lazy isn’t wisdom—it’s misalignment in disguise?

In this episode, Andi gets real about the space between burnout and avoidance, and what it actually takes to crawl out of an energetic crash without self-betrayal. With her signature mix of softness, honesty, and sass, she explores the difference between sacred rest and unconscious retreat, and how to reclaim your energy with compassion and curiosity—not shame.

This isn’t about pushing harder. It’s about recognizing when your soul is asking for something different—and learning to trust the signals in your body over the noise in your mind. Because misalignment doesn’t mean you’re broken. It might just mean you're ready to shift.

In this episode, you’ll explore:

- The difference between rest, avoidance, and energetic shutdown

- How internal criticism fuels the burnout spiral

- Why rigid routines often backfire when you’re already in the pit

- How to build structure that actually supports your nervous system

- The creative and relational lifelines that can pull you back into yourself

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This episode is a continuation of last week’s conversation on self-concept. Andi unpacks the quiet self-sabotage that happens when we say we want more, but don’t yet see ourselves as the person who gets to have it. 

What if the only thing standing between you and what you want is the way you see yourself? This episode is for the woman who keeps waiting to feel ready, worthy, credentialed, or "less much"—and is ready to move anyway. Because the version of you who already has it? She’s already inside you. You just have to start acting like her.

This one’s both fire and softness. Andi walks us through imposter syndrome, self-concept rewiring, and how to lead with messy audacity instead of perfection.

In this episode, you’ll explore:

- Why your self-concept is the gatekeeper of what you allow yourself to receive

- How to stop holding yourself hostage to old beliefs and start choosing consistency

- What it really means to act like the version of you who already has it

- A journaling challenge to help you shift into your next-level identity—this week

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If you wouldn’t trust their advice, why are you still carrying their criticism?

In this episode, Andi unpacks the quiet (and sometimes sneaky) ways other people’s perceptions shape our self-concept—and how to take that power back. What starts with a dad-and-nails story quickly spirals into something deeper: how we shrink, how we silence our weirdness, and how fear of being “kicked out of the tribe” can still be running the show.

This one is part personal story, part cultural reckoning, and part loving wake-up call to anyone who’s dimmed their light to feel safe, accepted, or un-judged. Andi invites you to reclaim the self you buried—not by becoming someone new, but by finally letting go of who the world told you to be.

In this episode, you’ll explore:

- Why judgment from others sticks—and how to question its power

- The tribal fear that drives self-censorship (and why it's time to retire it)

- How to identify beliefs about yourself that were never yours to begin with

- A journaling prompt to help you reclaim your power, your bigness, and your voice

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There’s a version of you—real, weird, unedited—that you’ve spent years trying to quiet. Maybe it felt too much. Too soft. Too loud. Too awkward. Too different. And somewhere along the way, you mistook that version of you for the problem… when really, she’s the source of your magic.

In this episode, Andi invites you to stop fixing and start remembering. To shift from self-improvement into self-return. Because your magnetism? It’s not something you build—it’s something you activate when you stop shrinking, editing, or performing and start showing up as all of you.

This one’s part pep talk, part truth bomb, and part love letter to the pieces of you that have been waiting to breathe again.

In this episode, you’ll explore:

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There’s a version of you that’s been waiting for this moment. The one who’s not scared anymore. Who’s done hiding. Who’s ready—and not in the frantic, desperate way—but in that deep, grounded, magnetic way that says: "I’m here. Let’s go."

In this episode, Andi shares what it’s really like to feel yourself changing from the inside out. To feel the fear lose its grip. To feel your energy shift, not from pushing—but from letting yourself become who you already are.

She talks about what it feels like when your magic starts rising again—when you finally stop leaking energy into things that don’t fit, and start standing in your bigness.

If you’ve felt like something inside you is stirring, shifting, waking up… If you’re starting to feel braver, louder, softer, clearer… This episode will speak directly to that part of you.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

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Are you playing small when you’re meant to live big? 

In this episode of IYKYK, we explore the liberating concept of embracing your bigness—your full, authentic self that refuses to be confined by societal norms or self-imposed limits. Discover how to reconnect with your untapped potential through simple yet powerful strategies like physical movement and channeling deep emotions, including anger. Andi offers practical tips to help you stay present with your desires, trust your intuition, and step boldly into your expansive self. 

If you’ve been craving more freedom, creativity, and authenticity in your life, this episode will show you how to uncork your bigness and live unapologetically.

KEY MOMENTS:

00:14 - Understanding and Embracing Your Bigness

01:33 - The Importance of Uncorking Your Bigness

04:02 - Steps to Unleash Your Bigness

06:22 - The Power of Anger and Dark Feminine Energy

08:39 - Living Your Biggest, Most Authentic Self

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Have you ever felt like there are parts of yourself you’d rather hide? 

In this episode of IYKYK, we dive deep into the transformative concept of the shadow self—the hidden aspects of our personalities shaped by past experiences and societal judgments. Far from something to fear, your shadow holds incredible potential for growth and creativity. Learn how to destigmatize these parts of yourself, embrace them with compassion, and use them as a gateway to greater self-awareness and empowerment. With practical tips and relatable insights, this episode will inspire you to reconnect with your whole self and unlock the freedom that comes from true integration. 

If you’re ready to shine a light on your shadows, this conversation is your guide.

KEY MOMENTS:

00:07 - Understanding Shadows

00:35 - Destigmatizing the Shadow

00:55 - Identifying Your Shadow

02:42 - Parts Work and Empathy

03:24 - Personal Anecdotes and Examples

04:09 - Shadow Work Techniques

08:01 - Compassion and Integration

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Have you ever felt like you didn’t fit into the boxes society expects you to stay in? 

In this episode of IYKYK, we dive into the transformative journey of spiritual awakening and its power to shake up everything you thought you knew about yourself. Learn how questioning societal norms and self-imposed labels can lead to greater freedom, authenticity, and self-acceptance. Through relatable stories of confusion and discovery, you’ll explore what it means to break free from limiting beliefs and fully embrace your multifaceted spiritual identity. 

If you’ve been craving a deeper connection to your true self, this episode offers both inspiration and tools to help you live boldly and authentically.

KEY MOMENTS:

00:50 - Understanding Identity Crisis

02:10 - Breaking Down Societal Labels

04:52 - Embracing Spiritual Gifts

07:52 - Living Authentically

11:00 - Challenging Self-Imposed Rules

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What if I told you the intuitive gifts you’ve always admired in others are real, and they’re yours, waiting for you to claim them?

In this enlightening episode of IYKYK, we’re peeling back the layers of spiritual awakening to reveal the psychic and healing abilities that have always been within you. Through heartfelt personal stories—like a surprising connection with oracle cards and unexpected moments of mediumship—you’ll learn how to step into your magic with confidence and clarity.

This episode will teach you how to clear the emotional blocks holding you back and reconnect with your deepest desires. If you’ve ever felt a spark of something greater within, this is your invitation to explore it. This is your moment to reclaim your power and live fully aligned with your truth.

KEY MOMENTS:

00:12 - Discovering Hidden Psychic Gifts

00:55 -Reclaiming Your Spirituality

01:24 -Practical Application of Spiritual Gifts

02:48 -Personal Stories and Experiences

06:55 -Clearing Pathways for Psychic Abilities

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