We live in a world more divided than ever. From politics to family to friendships, the need to be right has become what James Twyman calls a “pandemic.” But what if the way forward isn’t winning the argument, but choosing love instead?

In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, I sit down with James Twyman, bestselling author of I Don’t Know, Maybe I Love You, a peace troubadour who has sung in war-torn countries, and a man on a mission to depolarize our world.

James shares:
 ✨ The story of how “I don’t know, maybe I love you” started with his brother and became a movement
 ✨ What it means to become a “depolarizing agent” in your family and community
 ✨ How listening—without preparing your rebuttal—can heal divisions
 ✨ Why fear drives polarization and how love is the only antidote
 ✨ Practical steps to bridge divides, even when you deeply disagree

This episode will challenge you, encourage you, and remind you that change starts small—with a willingness to listen and love.

📖 Get James’ book: I Don’t Know, Maybe I Love You
🌐 Join the movement: de-polarize.com

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