Janda Becanda - The Widow Jokes

Psikolog klinis & Sexolog Zoya Amirin kembali ke untuk ke-4 kali nya di podcast Janda Becanda untuk menjawab pertanyaan pendengar tentang ciri khas karakter yang paling mungkin jadi korban KDRT. Zoya menjelaskan melalui pengalaman pribadi maupun keahlian profesionalnya bahwa kondisi sebuah relationship yang melanggar boundaries individu dalam relationship yang sering berakhir dengan KDRT.

Frances Bowden Affandy is an anthropologist by academic training and is a marketing specialist in the hospitality industry by professional experience who now teaches Service Marketing courses in Institut Teknologi of Bandung.  She has been in Indonesia since the 80s after having moved here from the US with her Indonesian husband. Her husband passed away nearly a decade ago and Frances continues to live in Bandung. She learned that Janda is a loaded terminology and carries many meaning, predominantly negative in context. Her suggestion is to do away from the term Janda, whether widows or divorcees, young or old. A Janda is no more than a single woman. Is it time to retire a term from the Indonesian lexicon? Should widows and divorcees reject the labeling?  And advance apologies for Frances' video lag and blue glow. :)

Yunita Dewiana yang terlucu dan pandai juga seorang Podcaster dan blogger datang ke Podcast Janda Becanda untuk nanya-nanya mitos pernikahan sama yang sepuh.   

Ketika sahabat dan mtira kerja Daisy Rina bersemangat belajar segala sesuatu yang berhubungan dengan kopi Daisy punya ide untuk sekalian aja dijadikan usaha. Daisy dan sahabatnya memulai Coffeeseeds.ID yang membedakan diri dari usaha kopi lainnya hanya dengan jualan melalui events.  Dalam episode ini kita mendengarkan ketabahan Daisy bercerita untuk melanjutkan Coffeeseeds.ID setelah sahabat dan mitra nya meninggal dunia.   Semoga para pendengar jadi ikut bersemangat untuk selalu mengejar ambisi dan penuh asa.

Airin Efferin may as well be the poster Janda for the Janda Becanda channel. She thrives as a Janda in that she is an independent woman with many interests and occupations, all the while keeping the memory of her late Husband in full respect.   

Penulis buku "Life as Divorcee" dan Beauty Blogger Virly KA di episode ini bicara tentang pengalamannya menikah dini dan shock yang dialami dengan KDRT. Secara terbuka baik dalam tulisan maupun wawancara nya, Virly, berbagi tentang hal ini dan proses perceraiannya.  Dalam bukunya "Life as Divorcee" juga dibahas tentang panggilan "Janda" yang awalnya membuat Virly risih, tapi lama kelamaan terbiasa dan stigma yang awalnya mengganggu luntur akhirnya.  Follow #lifeasdivorcee di Instagram untuk informasi lanjut karya tulis Virly KA.  Dan jangan lupa ya support channel @jandabecanda dengan follow, like, share, subscribe, comment.

This episode is part of the Janda Becanda Women on Money to help our listeners understand how we can invest our money in stocks with stockbroker Jane Tjie of PT Nilai Inti Sekuritas. 

Clinical Psychologist Rahajeng Ika with specialty in dealing with trauma joins the Janda Becanda show to discuss the after effects of divorce on children. How do you know if your child is ok after the divorce?

As a trained Biologist with a passion pursuit in neuroscience and how it can shape our thinking and behavior, Geibby Meyrith, lays out in her new book "A Better Me" the practical action steps we can do each day to change our lives for the better. :)

Nuranggraini, or Reeny to her friends, is a reseller for an online platform based out of Jakarta, Indonesia, called Disko.Online. She shares the experience of her earlier years as a Single Mom on how she got started with a home-based catering business and then became a reseller for a butcher shop a few years ago. Today that side hustle has remained an essential part of her household even after she has remarried. The reseller network is now a big industry in Indonesia and with online platforms like Disko.Online has made Reeny's work as a reseller even easier.