Every mother knows the deep impact her words can leave on her child’s heart. A single phrase spoken in anger — “You make my life so difficult” or “You’re the most terrible child” — can echo for years, carving doubt and pain into a child’s sense of self. And the truth is, no mother wants to pass on shame, trauma, or harshness to her children. We want to nurture them, raise them with love, and model patience and compassion. But in the heat of the moment, anger can feel uncontrollable.

So where do we even begin? What’s the very first step to breaking this cycle and showing up with the calm, gentle presence we long to embody?

In this episode, I share a simple but powerful reminder: every emotion first shows up in your body. Stress, anger, even joy — they all leave physical traces, whether it’s tense shoulders, clenched jaws, shallow breathing, or that racing heartbeat you know so well. Learning to listen to these whispers of your body before they turn into screams of exhaustion, burnout, or regret is the doorway to emotional regulation.

We’ll explore:

✨ Want to go deeper?

Check out my Peaceful Mother Masterclass — a powerful, bite-sized training that shows you how to recognize stress in your body before it spills out onto your kids.

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🌿✨ May Allah put barakah in your health, your energy, and your role as a mother.

Homeschool or Not? How to Make the Right Choice for Your Family!

If you’re expecting a pros-and-cons list for homeschooling vs. traditional schooling… this episode isn’t that.
Instead, I’m inviting you to step away from the noise of other people’s opinions and go inward — to reflect on what you truly want for your child’s education.
I share how I see homeschooling as an extension of tarbiyah, the two key areas you must get clear on before making this decision, and why “socialisation” is not even on my list of deciding factors.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have a set of intentional questions to guide a meaningful discussion with your husband so you can choose an educational path that aligns with your Islamic values and prepares your children for the future.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
-Why homeschooling is more than just an academic choice.
-Two questions that will bring clarity to your decision.
-How one mom transitioned from school to homeschooling with confidence.
-Why “socialisation” is not the deciding factor you think it is.
-A mindset shift that will help you make the best choice for your family.

📌 Join my 4-month private mentorship, Lead with Love — for the mother who’s ready to parent and home-educate with clarity and confidence.

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“But what about socialization?”
If you’ve ever mentioned homeschooling to someone, you’ve probably been hit with this question before — and maybe even found yourself wondering the same.
In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the real story behind socialization:
• Why the school system isn’t the gold standard for social growth
• How homeschoolers actually thrive socially in real-world environments
• And what you can do to raise confident, emotionally intelligent kids — without sending them to school
Mama, you can homeschool without sacrificing your child’s social development. In fact, with the right mindset and intentional parenting, you can do even better.
If today’s episode gave you clarity and confidence — and you want support to homeschool your little ones in a way that nurtures both their Deen and dunya…
👉🏽 Explore my mentorship programs where I help Muslim moms like you parent with purpose, teach Islam at home, and raise thriving children in a calm, connected home.
Let’s raise a generation of resilient, heart-centered Muslims — starting at home.
🎧 Press play & share this with a fellow homeschooling mama!
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Welcome to Jannah Beneath Her Feet — a podcast for Muslim mothers who want to lay strong foundations of Islamic tarbiyah for their young children, right from the start. Hosted by Sana, this space is dedicated to supporting you through the ups and downs of motherhood with heart-centered conversations and real tools.

In this episode, Sana is joined by Marwa Abdussalam — a psychologist, parenting coach, and toddler mom — who has walked the same path many mothers are on. Known for her expertise in taming tantrums and emotional development, Marwa opens up about her personal journey through toddlerhood, the struggles she faced, and the strategies that helped her stay grounded and connected.

From understanding the “why” behind tantrums to building consistent routines and prioritizing self-care, this conversation is full of insights to help you navigate the toddler years with more calm and confidence.

Connect with Marwa:

📲 Instagram: [@marwa_parentingcoach]

📞 WhatsApp: [+91 9633424150]

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🎙️ Episode 34: Discipline Doesn’t Mean Punishment — Let’s Relearn It Through the Prophetic Lens

Do you flinch when you hear the word “discipline”?
You’re not alone. Many of us grew up with fear-based discipline — yelling, threats, punishments — all in the name of “teaching us a lesson.”
So it’s no surprise that the word discipline feels heavy… even shameful.
But what if I told you that real discipline in Islam isn’t about punishments at all?
🌿 In this episode, we dive deep into the true, Prophetic meaning of discipline — through one of the most powerful stories in the Seerah: when a Bedouin urinated in the masjid of the Prophet ﷺ.
Instead of reacting with anger or shame, the Prophet ﷺ modeled something radically different.
And through that story, we explore:
- Why most of us parent on autopilot from fear, not faith.
- The difference between punishment and problem-solving.
- How to gently lead your child through defiance and big emotions.
- What your child is really learning from your response — beyond words.

💡 Whether your child talks back, ignores you, or keeps repeating the same mistake — this episode will help you reframe those moments through the lens of mercy and learning, not control.
✨ Ready to Parent with Prophetic Wisdom?
If today’s message hit home — and you’re ready to stop reacting from anger and start responding from love and clarity — I invite you into my private mentorship.
This is for the mother who is:
- Tired of guilt and yelling
- Longing for connection and calm
- Ready to raise her children and herself with ihsaan

This is not a parenting course. It’s a sacred, 1:1 transformational space where we unpack your triggers, rebuild your tools, and root your parenting in love, mercy, and tarbiyah.

📩 DM me on Instagram [@toddlertarbiyah] or apply from the link above to explore if it’s the right fit for you.
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It feels so good to be back behind the mic! After a whirlwind of Eid, moving homes, and adjusting to the Saudi summer rhythm (where bedtime is closer to midnight!), I’m finally back—and today’s episode is a deep one.

In this episode, we’re talking about something that has the power to change how you see every parenting challenge:
👉🏽 The Inner Child.

-What the inner child really is (and how she shows up in motherhood)?
-How past wounds can hijack your present-day parenting?
-Why you yell, threaten, or shut down even when you know better?
-How to break the autopilot loop and parent with awareness instead of reactivity?

💡 I’ll walk you through a powerful story that so many mothers relate to—and give you the very first step to shifting from triggered reactions to intentional, conscious parenting.

Because here's the truth:
You’re not failing.
You’re healing.
And healing is where true Tarbiyah begins.

✨ Ready to go deeper?

If this episode hit home—and you’re ready to finally understand and transform your parenting triggers—then my private mentorship is for you.

It’s a 1:1 sacred container for Muslim mothers who want to:
- Heal their inner child
- Break generational patterns
- Discipline with compassion
- Parent in alignment with Prophetic wisdom and psychology

🎯 This is a 4-figure investment. It’s deep work. But if you’re ready… I’ll walk with you every step of the way.
📩 DM me on Instagram [@toddlertarbiyah]

💌 Want to learn more about homeschooling and creating a meaningful connection with your children while managing home & biz?

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In this episode, we dive deep into the struggle of balancing work, homeschooling, and home responsibilities—while feeling mentally absent from our children's lives. As moms, we often juggle multiple roles, but how can we truly be present with our kids, even amidst the never-ending to-do lists?
I share how I started working from home to be more present with my children, only to find myself physically there but emotionally and mentally distracted. Learn how to shift from feeling overwhelmed and disconnected to feeling truly fulfilled in both your work and your motherhood.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
☘️The importance of communicating your work and intentions with your children.
☘️How to allocate quality time each day with your kids to strengthen your bond.
☘️Why quality time matters more than quantity when connecting with your children.
☘️A sneak peek into how I incorporate Game Schooling Thursdays to blend play and learning.
If you’re a mom balancing home and business and looking for ways to homeschool while nurturing deep connection with your children, this episode is for you!
💌 Want to learn more about homeschooling and creating a meaningful connection with your children while managing home & biz? Check out my private Mentorship https://www.toddlertarbiyah.com/private-coaching-e5b078da-2b5a-4700-ac9c-c77407f95298

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Do you need certifications to become a coach? How did I transition from engineering to Islamic parenting mentorship? What did I study? I get these questions all the time in my DMs, so in this episode, I’m sitting down with a cup of tea to chat about my journey!
I’m sharing not just how I became a coach but why—because that’s the heart of my story.
In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
✨My background in engineering and why I chose to be a homemaker
✨How my journey into motherhood led me to Islamic parenting education
✨The struggles that pushed me to keep learning—meltdowns, sibling conflict, and time management
✨How I started coaching moms (without certifications!) and built Holistic Tarbiyah Academy (HTA)
✨The reality of starting a coaching business—no “quick money,” but deep fulfillment
✨Why passion and commitment to serving the Ummah matter more than credentials
Coaching has been a journey of learning, serving, and growing, and after 3+ years, HTA continues to fill up every batch, Alhamdulillah!
But balancing a coaching business and motherhood isn’t always easy. If you’re a mom building a business while raising young kids and want to thrive in both, my private mentorship Lead with Love is for you.
Join Lead with Love:https://www.toddlertarbiyah.com/private-coaching-e5b078da-2b5a-4700-ac9c-c77407f95298

Let’s connect again next Friday, InshaAllah! 💛

As parents, we encourage our children to make dua when they wish for something. But what happens when their heartfelt prayers aren’t answered right away? How do we nurture their faith and help them understand that Allah’s timing is always perfect?

In today’s storytime episode, we’ll dive into a heartwarming tale that teaches patience, trust, and the beauty of dua.

Tune in for an engaging and faith-filled discussion that will leave both you and your children inspired! 🌟🎙️

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How often do we put our dreams and well-being on hold, thinking we’ll have time “later”?

In this episode, we dive into the sacrifice mindset that keeps us waiting for the perfect moment. Let’s shift our perspective and explore how to make space for personal growth and self-care, even in the midst of life’s busyness. It’s time to prioritize yourself, starting now, InshaAllah!

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