I hate to say this but I use to date only for looks back in high school. Like it was the only thing that matter. Somehow I was blinded and never got to see people for what they had on the inside. Instead I was worried of how they looked and knowing that I had that "beautiful" person next to me in my arms that people can be jealous of like they were some kind of trophy. within itself love or the heart is a trophy but yet I seem to not see the inside and that within itself made me fall for the wrong people bc that is all i ever saw. Now a days a heart means so much more to me than looks. Someone who challenges me in every way possible. For what they have on the inside and for the kindness and good they do and put out not for what they put on.
I feel like now a days in society guys and girls have to try to look their best to live up to some standards that are shown on tv to look a certain way. don't get me wrong if u look good to yourself you feel good and nothing is wrong with that. but the pressure of trying to look good for someone else bc u think its the norm is when it can become stressful.
you're trying to impress someone bc u feel u need to when it should be that you should be able to just be yourself and look as how you want to look and what makes you feel good.
you do you at the end of the day. but i do see how stressful it can be for many people trying to live up to some expectations and hating your body or your looks for something you wish you had. getting surgery to fix some imperfections that we all have and that we all wish we could change about our self. yet I feel like we go further away from whats on the inside. Someones mind is a beautiful thing that a lot of us over look. we focus on height or looks or size way more than I feel we should. I get it we are all attracted to certain looks and nothing is wrong with that to a certain extend. it's truly complicated though. But your heart to me has more to offer than your looks ever could.
your beauty ages, and not well. but your mind ages... sometimes not well lol. but for the most past it ages well with more knowledge and wiser. I try to be funny this is why I don't do jokes.
