“I never really quite knew what the definition of love is… I think it comes down to tests like this.” - Jay Leno on Hope for the Caregiver

That matter-of-fact statement from Jay Leno to me on my radio program stayed with me long after the conversation ended.

In a deeply personal and unexpectedly poignant conversation, Jay opened up about caring for his beloved wife, Mavis, whose health challenges have brought him into the caregiving world. Their 45-year marriage—marked by shared laughter, mutual admiration, and now, caregiving—has entered a new chapter, and Jay is showing up daily with humor, humility, and tenderness.

 

From finding the absurd in shoe shopping to using flashcards of old photos to spark memories, Jay shares the little victories that keep him grounded. “Maybe it’s my imagination,” he said, “but she’s remembering things she didn’t three or four months ago.”

He spoke candidly about what caregiving has taught him about love, sacrifice, and what it means to be a man. This wasn’t late-night monologue material. This was a man facing the hard part of the vow—“for worse”—and decided to stay in the room.

And through it all, he’s still telling jokes, still hitting the road on weekends, and still looking for ways to bring joy to others—whether in a packed auditorium or caring for the woman he loves.

Jay Leno made millions laugh. But in this conversation, he’ll make you think—about love, commitment, and what it means to keep showing up.

PeterRosenberger.com

Available wherever books are sold 08/20/2025