your purpose and my purpose on this wonderful planet are going to be different, and if not different at least during different times. What ever it is you will not understand your purpose or even know what it is until get up and get out of that comfort zone you have been in. 

OMG, men these type of women are not to be dealt with lightly but as well they are nothing to be scared of. So if you meet a strong independent woman then hold on to her tightly and never let go. 

Just some tips for blended family and a few things we struggled or still struggle with. 

There is no trick to being supportive or receiving support, you just do it. Get rid of toxic friendships that don't support you and your life will gradually change to the better.  

get up every day, go after what you want and then repeat. If you fail then try try again. It's not failing until you give up and stop trying. 

https://addicted2success.com/life/the-only-7-step-process-you-need-to-follow-to-go-after-what-you-want-in-life/ 

Listen it doesn't matter what you do on apps like tiktok, clapper or clubhouse. I suggest be yourself, do not worry about numbers and for god sake do not be that person who leaves negative comments. Be real, be you and just have fun. 

A lot of people look at social media and especially tik tok as a way to escape their real lives. Places like tik tok you can go on and act out dances, sing, be trendy and just out right be crazy and have fun. You can support other people and meet so many awesome people like I have this past year. Like any social media outlet, you need to be careful with the connections you make and the people you allow in your life. 

Lets face it. It's 2021 there are a lot more divorces and a lot more blended families, but it doesn't have to be a difficult thing. We live, learn and grow and together as a family it can make it easier. Remember a blended family is almost stronger than a so called regular family, because they have to work harder at things every day than a regular family. A family doesn't have to be all blood. 

https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/giving-men-permission-to-take-care-of-themselves

You have to take time for yourself, if you don't heal then you cant help others heal. If you bottle up everything you will one day burst out those emotions and someone you probably didn't want to and will regret it. 

We are all different and goal setting is not going to have the same results as some one else, so don't try to reach other peoples goals. 
https://www.petershallard.com/why-telling-people-your-goals-is-a-fatal-mistake/ 
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/09/05/why-sharing-goals-with-someone-helps-you-achieve-them.html