Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

In episode twenty-nine of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches Ve’eino Machzik Tova L’Atzmo — “do not take credit for yourself” or “do not praise yourself.” Arrogance is claiming credit for gifts and achievements that truly belong to Hashem. The Mishnah warns us that taking pride in things we did not earn blocks further growth, closes us off to new ideas, and damages relationships. No one enjoys being around a show-off.

Rabbi Wolbe explains the critical difference: a humble person recognizes their talents as gifts from above, while an arrogant person sees them as self-made. True praise belongs to hard-earned character traits and fear of Heaven (yirat shamayim), not external gifts like beauty, voice, or success. King Solomon’s “Eishes Chayil” teaches that grace and beauty are false to praise (they are unearned), but a God-fearing person who works on their character is truly praiseworthy.

Key lessons include: everything ultimately comes from Hashem (“Hashem malach ge’us lavesh” — God wears the garment of pride); running after honor makes it flee, while fleeing honor draws it near; maintain constant awareness that we are only travelers in this world; and avoid self-praise so we remain open to growth and connection with others and with God. The episode reinforces humility as essential for maximizing life and true spiritual success.

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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio A on May 31,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on August 8, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

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In this short, uplifting episode, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe explains Pesach Sheni (14 Iyar), the "second Passover" opportunity for those who were ritually impure (e.g., contact with a corpse) or too far away to bring the Korban Pesach on 14 Nisan. He highlights the Torah's message of second chances — no one is ever "too late" to correct course, reconnect with Hashem, or fulfill a mitzvah. The story of Mishael and Eltzaphan (who became impure handling Nadav and Avihu's bodies) shows how passion for mitzvot, channeled correctly, leads to asking Hashem for solutions.

Rabbi Wolbe draws powerful lessons: (1) Always a new beginning — today is your chance to start over; (2) Bring passion and fire to mitzvot (learn from Nadav/Avihu's exuberance but do it right); (3) Personally declare "Hine Elokeinu Zeh" — make knowledge of Hashem your own, not just inherited. Customs include eating leftover matzah and omitting Tachanun. The episode ends with a call to live with clarity, passion, and personal connection to Hashem, especially as we count the Omer toward Shavuot.

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Recorded in the TORCH Centre - Studio B to a live audience on May 2, 2023, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on May 4, 2023
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Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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In episode twenty-eight of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches Ha’oseh Siyag L’Dvarav — “making a fence around your words” (and by extension, around your life). Just as we build protective fences around dangerous things (nuclear plants, guns, etc.), we must create intentional boundaries to safeguard our speech, eyes, time, family, and values from negative influences.

Rabbi Wolbe explains that boundaries are essential for maximizing pleasure and success in every area. Without them, we lose appreciation (going to the beach every day stops being special), fall into bad habits (foul language from coworkers, endless scrolling), or expose ourselves and our children to harm. He stresses protecting innocence like we protect valuables — limit apps, use screen-time controls, avoid certain environments (e.g., Las Vegas as “Sin City”), and be cautious with media and influences.

Additional teachings include: pre-marital counseling/therapy as a wise boundary for marriage (especially for those over 30); knowing good vs. evil clearly; learning from mistakes only to improve the future; and recognizing that “the second look costs.” The definition of insanity is repeating the same action while expecting different results. Children absorb what they hear and see at home — set the right example. Ultimately, boundaries are not restrictions but strategic tools that allow us to live with clarity, self-control, and true freedom.

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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio A on May 31,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on July 24, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! 

Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Support Our Mission:
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Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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In episode twenty-seven of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches HaSameach B’Chelko — “happy/content with one’s portion.” This is one of the most vital traits for our generation, where material abundance coexists with record levels of depression and anxiety. True happiness does not come from having more, but from appreciating and being grateful for what we already have.

Rabbi Wolbe explains that people today — even those on government assistance — live with more comforts than kings had centuries ago, yet they remain miserable because they focus on what they lack rather than what they possess. Consumerism, window shopping, and constant comparison fuel endless chasing after the next “fix,” which provides only temporary dopamine before the craving returns. The key is daily gratitude: say “thank you” to Hashem constantly, aim for the 100 blessings a day we are commanded to recite, and maintain a personal list of things you are grateful for.

He shares a powerful personal story of a wealthy student who transformed from misery to joy after being assigned to write and daily recite 50 things he was thankful for. Happiness is an attitude and a discipline, not a destination or external circumstance. Negative people and environments drag us down, while focusing on blessings creates confidence, optimism, and fulfillment. Ultimately, being content with our portion allows us to enjoy life’s gifts without being enslaved by endless desire.

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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio B on May 24,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on July 22, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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Listen, Subscribe & Share: 

• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783
• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! 

Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Support Our Mission:
Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.
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Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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In episode twenty-six of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches Ha'Makir Et Mekomo — “to know your place.” This is a foundational principle for a successful, meaningful life: understanding where we stand in every situation, especially in our relationship with Hashem. When you are in charge, know you are in charge. When you are not, know you are not. Knowing your place brings clarity, humility, and proper action.

Rabbi Wolbe stresses the importance of personal introspection — taking time alone to speak directly and unstructured with Hashem: thank Him, ask of Him, and share your hopes, dreams, and aspirations. In marriage, family, business, and community, everyone must know their responsibilities so harmony can exist. We must know ourselves before entering deep relationships, and we must know our unique purpose in this world — Hashem placed each of us here for a specific mission no one else can fulfill.

Key teachings include: we are only travelers passing through this world (like the Chofetz Chaim who saw himself as always traveling and therefore did not accumulate); write a personal and family mission statement and review it regularly; recognize that politicians and the honored in this world are often the lowest in the next, while the humble and trampled-upon are elevated; and understand that the world is “upside down” compared to how we perceive it. Knowing your place with your Creator gives direction, prevents arrogance, and allows you to fulfill your unique role with confidence and joy.

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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio B on May 24,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on July 17, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! 

Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Support Our Mission:
Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.
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Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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Keywords:
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In episode twenty-five of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches B’Kabbalat HaYisurim — “accepting pain” or “receiving suffering.” No pain, no gain is a fundamental principle of growth. Every truly valuable thing in life — children, marriage, Torah, Eretz Yisrael, Olam HaBa — comes with a price tag of effort and discomfort. According to the pain is the reward (“lefum tzara agra”).

Rabbi Wolbe explains that pain is an essential ingredient for real pleasure and achievement. We must learn to welcome it as a necessary byproduct of growth rather than running from it. Let children experience healthy failure so they develop resilience and the drive to fight harder next time. Pain is temporary, but the results and character it builds are permanent. Historical examples show that the Jewish people often rose to their greatest heights precisely during times of difficulty and exile — like an olive that yields its finest oil only when crushed.

Key teachings include: confront reality, find pleasure within the pain, and use suffering as fuel for growth; Moshe Rabbeinu was chosen because he felt the pain of others — we must do the same and not ignore suffering around us; make a list of things you fear and overcome them; and remember that toiling without immediate success is still valuable because the reward is pending. We should not seek unnecessary pain, but when it comes, accept and channel it toward greater merit and closeness to Hashem.

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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio B on May 24,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on July 14, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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Listen, Subscribe & Share: 

• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783
• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! 

Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Support Our Mission:
Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.
Your support makes a HUGE difference!
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Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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Keywords:
#JewishInspiration, #Omer, #Count, #48Ways, #SpiritualGrowth, #TorahWisdom, #PirkeiAvot, #WisdomDaily

In episode twenty-four of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches B’Emunat Chachamim — “with belief/faith in the wise” or valuing wisdom. Building on way #10 (serving the wise), this way emphasizes actively seeking, valuing, and believing in wisdom in every area of life — not only Torah, but also parenting, marriage, business, medicine, technology, and more.

Rabbi Wolbe explains that the world has always had distractions (even before smartphones and social media), yet King Solomon’s advice remains: seek wisdom like buried treasure. The first step is deciding you want truth and will not settle for less. Make for yourself teachers and experts in every field you need (“aseh lecha rav” applies broadly). Learn to think like a scholar by studying sources deeply, as his rebbe taught with source sheets before class.

He highlights the unbroken chain of Torah transmission from Moses at Sinai to today and the unique power of the Jewish people to derive all wisdom from Torah (even concepts like pi appear in the Talmud). The Chazon Ish’s precise surgical diagram drawn on a napkin is a striking example: deep Torah knowledge can illuminate modern fields when properly applied.

Practical guidance includes: listen to your parents and elders (white hair is an “information center”); be bothered by ignorance and time-wasting content so you are motivated to seek real wisdom; know what you are living (and willing to die) for; and recognize that Jews should look to Judaism as the ultimate source of wisdom. In our “Generation I” (self-centered, “me-first” culture), the greatest mistake is thinking we already know everything — instead, humbly seek those wiser than us and let their wisdom enter our souls.

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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio A on May 24,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on July 10, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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Listen, Subscribe & Share: 

• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783
• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! 

Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Support Our Mission:
Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.
Your support makes a HUGE difference!
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Listen More
Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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Keywords:
#JewishInspiration, #Omer, #Count, #48Ways, #SpiritualGrowth, #TorahWisdom, #PirkeiAvot, #WisdomDaily

In episode twenty-three of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches Tov Lev — “with a good heart.” This quality is the engine that drives all other positive traits and actions. The Shema’s command to love God “with all your heart” (b’chol levavcha) refers to the two inclinations battling within us: the yetzer tov (good inclination) and the yetzer hara (evil inclination). We must consciously choose the good heart every day.

Rabbi Wolbe explains that a good heart brings clarity and virtue to everything else we do. Before every decision, we should ask: What does my soul want versus what does my body want? The yetzer hara pushes for immediate comfort or pleasure (chocolate cake, procrastination, TV), while the soul yearns for growth, wisdom, and connection to God. In Pirkei Avot, when the students were asked for the best way a person should conduct himself, Rabbi Elazar ben Arach answered “a good heart,” and that was deemed the correct response because a good heart energizes and perfects all other traits.

Key teachings include: do not get caught up in the facade of the world (beautiful cars or walls hide twisted metal and wires underneath); resist the “I” generation’s self-centered culture that cannot tolerate differing opinions; learn to appreciate small steps forward and differences in others; let children experience healthy failure so they learn to push themselves; be proactive about filling life with good deeds and emulating God; and constantly evaluate priorities — money versus happiness, comfort versus growth.

Rabbi Wolbe reminds us that the heart inspires action while the body performs it. A good heart keeps us aligned with our true mission, helps us discern real from fake, and ensures that even when we fall (the righteous fall seven times and rise), we get back up with renewed direction. Ultimately, having a “tov lev” is the key to maximizing life and achieving true happiness.
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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio A on May 24,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on July 8, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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Listen, Subscribe & Share: 

• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783
• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! 

Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Support Our Mission:
Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.
Your support makes a HUGE difference!
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Listen More
Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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Keywords:
#JewishInspiration, #Omer, #Count, #48Ways, #SpiritualGrowth, #TorahWisdom, #PirkeiAvot, #WisdomDaily

In episode twenty-two of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches Erech Apayim — “slow to anger” or “control your anger” (patience and acceptance of frustration). This is the final “limited” way before shifting to positive character traits. We must accept that things do not always go our way, embrace differences, and learn to appreciate opinions that differ from our own.

Rabbi Wolbe identifies the core problem of our generation as the “I” culture — everything is about “me” (iPhone, iPad, etc.). This self-centeredness leads to intolerance: if I don’t like your opinion, I can hurt or damage you. As Jews, we are meant to be a light unto the nations by showing how to live with warmth and friendship despite deep differences in religious, political, or philosophical views.

Anger is likened to idol worship in the Talmud because it allows another power to take control. It often stems from a lack of bitachon (trust in Hashem). Everything comes from God, and challenges are tailor-made for us — only we can handle our specific tests. A person should habitually say, “The world was created for me” (bishvili nivra ha’olam), realizing their challenges were designed perfectly for their growth.

Practical teachings include making small adjustments like the trim on an airplane to stay on course amid changing winds; learning patience from Rav Preida, who explained a lesson 400 times (and then another 400 when the student was distracted); and recognizing that righteous people fall seven times and rise again — the ups and downs are the healthy rhythm of life (like a heartbeat). Anger causes us to lose wisdom (“if someone was smart, their wisdom leaves them when angry”). Even Rav Moshe Feinstein once appeared to yell sternly at a student, but it was deliberate acting — he himself remained calm.

Anger never helps; it destroys relationships, marriages, and personal growth. Instead, accept frustration, make small corrections, and use every situation — good, bad, or ugly — as an opportunity to grow and connect more deeply with Hashem.

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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio B on May 20,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on July 2, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

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#JewishInspiration, #Omer, #Count, #48Ways, #SpiritualGrowth, #TorahWisdom, #PirkeiAvot, #WisdomDaily

In episode twenty-one of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches B’Miut Tzchok — “with limited laughter.” This is the final “limited” way in the series, emphasizing balance rather than avoidance. Laughter is powerful and can be wonderful, but like business, intimacy, pleasure, sleep, and speech, it requires proper limits.

Rabbi Wolbe distinguishes between positive laughter and negative laughter. Positive laughter uplifts others — the two marketplace men who merited the World to Come simply made sad or struggling people laugh and lightened their spirits. Negative laughter mocks others, laughs at people’s misfortunes, or ridicules leaders and celebrities (as seen in many late-night shows). Excessive laughter risks sin, desensitizes us, wipes away inspiration (“one laughter can wipe away 60 inspirations”), and causes us to lose seriousness about what truly matters.

He shares the beautiful story of the great Maggid Rav Shalom Shvadron, who always began his Torah lectures with a joke. When asked why, he compared himself to a mother giving medicine to a child: she makes the child laugh first, then slips in the (sometimes bitter) medicine. Laughter can open hearts so that deeper, spiritual “medicine” can enter.

Key teachings include: life is a collection of opportunities, not problems; use laughter consciously to lighten difficult situations and keep troubles in proportion; it is better to visit a house of mourning than a wedding party because weddings can lead to excess and loss of boundaries, while mourning restores perspective. Laughter is “the best medicine,” but medicine is for healing, not daily consumption. Mockers are among those from whom God distances Himself.

Rabbi Wolbe notes his own grandfather was serious yet had a fabulous sense of humor — balance is essential. Too much laughter can damage spiritual growth and prevent us from maximizing true, eternal pleasure. The Mishnah teaches us to use laughter in measured, constructive amounts that elevate rather than degrade.
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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio B on May 20,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on June 21, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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Share your questions at [email protected] or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  
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About the Host:
Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: [email protected]

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Support Our Mission:
Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.
Your support makes a HUGE difference!
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Listen More
Other podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: 

• NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodes
• Prayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodes
• Jewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodes
• Parsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodes
• Living Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodes
• Thinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodes
• Unboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodes
• Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodes

For a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.org
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Keywords:
#JewishInspiration, #Omer, #Count, #48Ways, #SpiritualGrowth, #TorahWisdom, #PirkeiAvot, #WisdomDaily