Joyfully Queer

In the last episode of season one of Joyfully Queer, host Bethany reflects on the importance of celebrating queer joy and expresses gratitude for the supportive guests and listeners throughout the podcast's journey. Bethany announces a break from the podcast as she prepares for the arrival of her first child and plans to write a joyfully queer book.

This episode features an interview with author and essayist Katrina Willis, who shares her memoir of coming out later in life and discusses the power of storytelling in helping others navigate their own queer journeys. Katrina also discusses the joy and freedom she found in living a smaller, RV-centered life on the road. The episode highlights the importance of finding joy in challenging circumstances and building queer communities.

You can find Katrina on her substack https://substack.com/@surrenderingtosappho and on her website katrinawrites.com

If you would like to support the Joyfully Queer book, check out more information on our GoFund Me page: https://gofund.me/494b37ab

This episode is a beautiful conversation with Trent Clifford, a theater maker and author. Trent opens up about his personal journey of reclaiming faith after experiencing spiritual abuse and domestic violence. He shares his insights on the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and others, and the need to be kind and forgiving in the face of adversity. The conversation focuses on the intersection of queerness, faith, and joy, highlighting the transformative power of theater in reclaiming identity and finding healing. Clifford also discusses his upcoming book, Reclaiming Faith, which offers a guide for those who have been hurt by organized religion and seek to find joy and resilience on their spiritual journey.

To learn more about Trent, visit https://www.reclaimingfaith.org

The journey to authenticity is a challenging but rewarding one. In this episode, Rebecca Wilson, a queer poet and storyteller, shares her personal story of coming out and embracing her true self. She talks about the struggles she faced in the United Methodist Church and the decision she made to surrender her credentials rather than continuing to conform to harmful systems. Rebecca also discusses the beauty and resilience of the queer experience, reminding listeners that their joy is powerful, worth celebrating, and not limited to the struggles they face. She shares her work with Ten Camels, a project that turns words into water for the thirsty, offering hope and inspiration to those who need it most. Through her poetry, preaching, teaching, and workshops, Rebecca spreads the message that even in the hardest times, there is always hope and a lot to celebrate. Join the conversation and be empowered to live your most authentic life.

To find out more about Rebecca, visit her website 10 Camels or order her book on Amazon!

In this episode of Joyfully Queer, Bethany reconnects with her friend Lannie Stabile, who she met in high school at theater camp. They discuss their shared experiences at theater camp and how it transformed their lives. Lannie shares her journey as a writer and poet, reflecting on her personal narratives and the different paths she has taken in publishing her seven books. Lannie also delves into her experience as a queer parent, discussing the challenges and joys of raising her daughter and navigating the legal complexities of adoption. Through their conversation, they explore the intersectionality of queerness, creativity, and personal growth.

To learn more about Lannie and her creative projects, visit lanniestabile.com!

In this episode of Joyfully Queer, host Bethany engages in a powerful conversation with Xavi, as they share their personal journey of finding joy in queerness. They discuss the challenges of growing up in a high-control religion and breaking free from its constraints, discovering their own authentic selves. Xavi shares how therapy and support groups have played a crucial role in their healing process. They also explore the intersection of religion and queerness, challenging societal misconceptions, and finding their own path to spirituality. The episode highlights the importance of community and chosen family in the process of self-discovery and celebrates the resilience and strength of the LGBTQ+ community.

Learn more about Xavi's projects at: xavibenjamin.com

In this episode Bethany is joined by her friend Naphtali who shares her personal experiences of coming out as demisexual and the importance of finding a word that accurately describes her feelings. They discuss the importance of language and how it empowers individuals to verbalize their unique experiences. They also discuss the role that TikTok has had in creating a sense of community and providing a platform for people to share their journeys! 

In this episode of the podcast, Kristen Jeffers meets with Bethany to discuss their work in black urbanism and finding queer joy while working for justice. 

Kristen Jeffers (she/they) was one of the first people to bring the concept of Black urbanism to the internet and social media in 2010 by purchasing the domain name and launching The Black Urbanist, which in its 13th year continues to be a resource for Black urbanism at the intersection of feminism and queer/trans life. In addition to this book, she is the author of the forthcoming A Black Urbanist Journey to a Queer Feminist Future, a memoir/manifesto for Black queer feminist accessible urbanism. She is the creator of the K. Jeffers Index for Black Queer Feminist Urbanism, a guide, measure, and data center to assess the thrivance of black queer feminist urbanist people globally, which this book teaches, and curator of the Black Queer Feminist Urbanist Book Cannon and School. Finally, under the banner of Kristpattern, she shares her own journey into sustainable fashion and invites others to do the same. A sought-after public speaker, workshop leader, and cultural critic, she makes her home with her partner in Southwest Washington, DC, and is a proud and concerned native of Greensboro, North Carolina. Keep in touch with Kristen via Instagram @blackurbanist, email at [email protected], or www.theblackurbanist.com

In this episode of Joyfully Queer, Bethany is joined by Charlie, the founder of Everywhere is Queer, a worldwide map connecting LGBTQ+ individuals with queer-owned businesses and resources in their communities. Charlie shares his journey of creating this invaluable resource and the impact it has had on the queer community. They discuss the importance of finding queer community and spaces where individuals can be their authentic selves. Together, they unpack the queer experience and highlight the significance of inclusive and supportive environments.

Through Everywhere is Queer, Charlie aims to empower LGBTQ+ individuals by providing them with a platform to discover and support queer-owned businesses. You can find out more at: www.everywhereisqueer.com

The Joyfully Queer podcast celebrates the vibrant colors of the LGBTQ+ community and the strength and resilience at its core.  This episode features a conversation with Calvin, who shares his experience of finding support and chosen family within community groups after coming out as a transgender man. They discuss the importance of acceptance, understanding, and collective resilience within the queer community.

Happy Holigays from Bethany and their wife Kelsee! In this bonus holigay episode, we discuss finding joy in the queer Christmas movie "Single All the Way."  

We hope you enjoy it!