In this episode I share with you questions people used to ask me when I was manifesting my husband.

What if your future husband doesn't like the way you dress, what if he makes you choose between him and your cats, what if he makes you eat or cook meat even though you're vegetarian?

Now and even back then those questions seemed so weird to me, but it's only because I've done massive work and transformed the way I viewed and built relationships completely.

I still remember the times when those questions were hard for me to answer, I still remember that Dasha, that version of me, who struggled with this, and this episode is for her and for all of you who are going through this powerful transformation of learning how to love yourselves, set your standards high and not settle for less.

I love you!

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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Email - [email protected]

In this episode I answer questions I've found on insta that are supposed to help me find my soup, my magic, my teaching, something that helped me to transform my life and that's gonna help me bring transformation into the lives of my students, clients and listeners.

I talk about things that inspire me, things that helped me, principles I followed that pulled me through and changed my life. Honestly this episode has so much gold in it, I'm gonna have to get back to it every once in a while. Those principles I shared I so empowering and life changing!

I found the questions at Laina Caltagirone's page on Instagram and here's the link to her IGTV where she talked about those questions -

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CI8-mQXq7Cj/

Thank you for listening!

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

In this episode I share with you how I setting your standards and not settling for anything else helps you to trust the Universe in times of uncertainty.

You see, as Teal Swan says "fear makes us believe that the purpose of life is survival, but it's not. It's the quality of life", what's the point in coming into our physical bodies over and over again to just struggle and try to survive? There's no fun in doing that every time.

Our fear of uncertainty screws us up every time and when we feel we don't have control over the situation we just drown in fear. How you get your power, your sense of control back is through setting your bar high and filtering stuff out.

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

You guys, please welcome my very first podcast guest! I'm so excited to share with you my conversation with Petia Kolibova!

Petia is an incredible coach and an incredible woman, so open, so kind-hearted, so inspirational. We talked about the importance of being courageous enough to act on your inspiration and why people don't do that, being scared of the opinions of others, about the problems of being a multilingual blogger.

Petia just got married and she shared how she manifested love and what an important part her love for herself played in the process, how she taught herself to be unapologetically herself and what it lead to.

We talked about shifting limiting beliefs, difference in your energy when you do just what you're good at vs doing the things that light you up and how you're doing a disservice to yourself and others when you do something from the energy of "I have to".

We also touched on the topics of love, money, finding your purpose, the power of making a decision to be authentically and unapologetically yourself and not settling for less, mindset and the law of attraction.

Petia's instagram - https://www.instagram.com/petiakolibova/

And here's how you can work with Petia - http://attractyourabundance.com

Thank you for listening!

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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Link for donations - https://boosty.to/dashatalks/donate

All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

This is part 2 of my love story. In part one I shared with you my point A, the background I had when I just began dating, my failed attempts to build relationships from a place of neediness and feeling insecure.

In part 2 I share with you how I realized that I just didn't know how to build the relationship I dreamed about so I stopped. I decided to learn how to build different kind of relationships.

I bought a course for women looking for love which turned out to be a self-love course, and this is when my healing began, and I had A LOT to heal - trauma, insecurities, low self-esteem, a whole lot of limiting beliefs. I had to learn to stand up for myself, listen to myself, protect myself. I had to learn how to love myself.

And this is when things began to change, this is when my standards became up-leveling, this is when I began believing I deserved better.

And this is when I met my future husband, and I had to learn a lot about actually building the relationship that I wanted by honoring myself and putting myself first, and how beautifully in turned out!

Thank you for tuning in!

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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Link for donations - https://boosty.to/dashatalks/donate

All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

Let me tell you my love story from point A to B, from where I was and how I viewed relationship when I just started dating when I was 17 and how things were getting worse and led me to a low point where my self esteem was completely crushed.

Which led me then to the realization that I no longer wanted to build a single relationship because I just didn't know how. What I was able to build - I didn't want, I've had enough of that.

There were abuse, cheating, betrayal, alcohol and many other "fun" things I had to go through to finally ask the Universe to help me learn how to build the relationship I dreamed about from a very early age.

You know, back then, when I heard that I needed to become the person I wanted to attract, I thought it sounded like too much work. And really, there was no any other way, and thank God for that!

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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Link for donations - https://boosty.to/dashatalks/donate

All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

This one is a chit-chat where I share my conversation with my client where I asked her what were three major lessons that I taught her that changed her life.

And they all were about self love, about how to set your standards, how to not lose yourself in a relationship and that everything you're looking for you already have within you.

And so I speak a little more about those three lessons.

I talk about how this idea of losing yourself in a relationship is not healthy and stops being attractive the moment you heal your codependency;

about that you need to take care of you first and put yourself first and that the way you treat yourself sets the standard of how other people treat you,

and that your self-love is the foundation, based on which people will build relationship with you, they never will go and rebuild your foundation for you (to make it better anyway), they'll take what you already have as a default.

So it's always your job to treat you right!

Link to Autumn Bensette's podcast (the episode with Natalie Brite) on Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/ru/podcast/liberation-with-autumn-bensette-the-podcast/id1416304896?l=en&i=1000450092086

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

Stop thinking!

As a person with OCD I tend to overthink everything, and you know, you don't have to have OCD to overthink, haha. We are raised to believe that we have all the answers to all the questions in our minds, the whole education system is built on that, and so what ends up happening is that we then try to kill every idea by overthinking it, expecting our brain to give us all the answers, and it can't.

And it can't.

Out brain can't give us the answers that it doesn't have, it just processes the information it already has, something it already experienced. And if we want to learn something new - our mind is not the place to go to look for answers.

This is where meditation is necessary. In this episode I will share with you my perspective on how to meditate and why, what we achieve by quieting our mind.

When we get out of our heads, connect with our bodies and focus on our breathing, we connect to the higher wisdom, our soul, our higher self and this is when we get to ask Her to come play with us, to be with us every step of the way.

Through meditation and the prayer that I'll share with you in this episode, we learn to build a deep beautiful relationship with our Higher self, and then suddenly we are never feel alone, we are always supported and cared for and life gets to be easy.

The videos I mentioned:

Lorie Ladd’s video about the technique of calling in your higher self - https://www.instagram.com/tv/CPOM04BnxPO/

Phil Good’s video about making way for your Higher self - https://www.instagram.com/tv/CPOOBd_HUXU/

The TED talk about brain scans - https://youtu.be/esPRsT-lmw8

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

What do you do when your family doesn't support you? I know it's hard and it's sad, I've been there. You want them to support you, you want them to help you, you want them to show interest, and you spend so much time trying to deserve their approval.

It's not fair. But trying so hard to make them support you is not fair either. Instead of focusing on your dream and on showing to yourself the love and support that you need, you waste precious energy on them.

Don't be like them. Choose you. You need you and, after all, the support and love and approval and appreciation you're seeking starts with you and within you.

Set your boundaries, learn to love and support yourself and prove them wrong.

You can.

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]

In this episode I want to talk about loving others, especially people who hurt us.

We all heard this idea that we need to love, return back to love and forgive those who have caused us pain. And yeah, I agree with this, love is the purest energy there is. But we can't really MAKE ourselves love someone when we are hurt.

Feeling hurt and at the same time telling yourself that you can't hate them because it's bad and you need to learn to love them is not loving YOURSELF and not showing yourself that what you feel MATTERS.

I believe that 1. yes, it's ego being hurt, but who says we need to get rid of our ego? We need it, that's why we have it, it's not all bad; 2. when you are hurt, first and foremost show love to yourself, start with self love and validating your feelings.

I'm speaking from experience here, I really tried loving those who hurt me and my oh my we are getting this message wrong! When we start from loving ourselves, we will come to loving others at some point, peacefully, naturally, without resistance.

And let me tell you what I believe is the right way.

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Dasha Borisova (TheDashaTalks), blogger, podcaster, channeler, law of attraction and manifestation coach.

Podcasts:

"Joyous to be" (conversations about LOA, manifestation, self-love and creating the life of your dreams)

"Love letters from your Higher Self" (pick-a-card tarot readings, channeling)

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Link for donations - https://boosty.to/dashatalks/donate

All the links - https://taplink.cc/thedashatalks

My youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DashaThinks

My instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedashatalks

Email - [email protected]