This used to be me and I finally got tired of my friends irritation at my being consistently late for whatever our plans were. One day I decided to surprise them by being 10 minutes early. I wasn't, and that's how I figured out the thing I had been doing wrong for years.

It feels like scolding because she's a grown up and really should know better, but our addiction to these devices is a tough nut to crack. And no one wants you to point out their bad behavior! It makes us feel defensive which doesn't mean you shouldn't say anything. You just need to tread lightly.

Most work weeks are so hectic, it's only logical that the to do list for the weekend gets bigger. So big, in fact, you'll never be able to tackle it completely which can leave you with a lingering feeling of disappointment. Being productive is important but so is rest and relaxation. And fun!

When time off is not abundant it can be difficult to see family and take a truly restful holiday in the same year. And there is nothing wrong with telling the people who love you what you need. Controlling their reactions to what you say, however, is a tall order.

Has anyone ever told you that looking for a full-time job actually IS a full-time job? It's true. So I understand the logic, but letting go of your income before having another offer in hand is not without risk.

Lots of couples disagree over money but they don't have to. It sounds odd to say, but in most cases these arguments aren't really about the money itself but what it represents. Once you uncover that, you can have a meaningful conversation that moves the needle.

Some people are naturally better at taking care of themselves and getting what they know they need. The rest of us could learn a lot from them. Taking all of your allotted vacation time is essential. We've got a limited amount of time on planet Earth and if you want to see some of it, there's only one way to make that happen.

Starting a new job is stressful enough even without any conflicts on the horizon. A challenge like this makes it double tough, but there is something very simple you can do that could make a big difference in how you work together.

If saving money was easy, everyone would have a ton of cash in the bank. We all have to learn how to do it and once you break it down into smaller pieces, it's really not as hard as it may seem.

It's easy to get caught up in the joy of the occasion and forget to ask questions about all the things she's going to expect of you. This kind of conversation can be stressful but it's also essential to make sure that you don't end up going into debt for a friend's wedding and then feeling resentful about it.