An old joke about porcupines which ends in "very carefully" comes to mind. Being critical of someone's appearance even with the most excellent intentions is difficult at best, so before even thinking about attempting something like this make sure you're coming from a place of love.

In the heat of the moment it's easy to let something we wouldn't otherwise say just slip out. Every problem has a solution though, so let's not get so wrapped up in our angst that we forget that.

You've been dating less than a year and it feels a but too soon to share a passcode and she thinks it's totally normal. If you say no is she going to think you're cheating even though you're not?

You've been together for a couple of years and you feel ready for marriage while he would rather live together. What's going to work out best for you?

There are some people who seem like they don't take in any air while they're talking, it's just one long exhale. And you legitimately can't get a word in edgewise, which might make you wonder if you even need to be for this one way conversation.

You meet at the restaurant, you've been at the table for 15 minutes and it's already the longest night of your life. How do you get out of there and what can you say to soften the blow?

He's not someone you've had a crush on but you're impressed with his directness in saying he'd like to take you to dinner and may I have your phone number. And then after you say yes, you're wishing you hadn't. It doesn't feel right for some reason so do you go anyway, or just cancel?

You don't want him to feel bad but you definitely don't want go out with him. Is there a magic phrase that gives him the clear message to move on that will also make him feel like you just did him a favor?

Whether it's for work or pleasure, you want to know that he made it to his destination safely. Of course, you realize he may not have much time to talk but a quick check in to hear his voice is all you're really looking for.

What if in your house your parents never let you see them seriously disagree and your partner's house arguing was just another Wednesday. How do you handle it with your own kids?