Just Chatting

In this episode, Jaclyn breaks down what she means by the “ego” and “ego work” that she often references in episodes. Jaclyn & Chantel vulnerably share how their ego can impact friendships, relationships, and even motherhood. Jaclyn leaves you with some solid advice to start your own ego work! Mantras: “That has nothing to do with me.” and “That’s none of my business.”

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Jaclyn & Chantel share juicy details about their recent dating experiences, including some cringe-worthy moments (didn’t these boys listen to our episode about dick pics?!)...but quickly dive into the purpose in staying single. Chantel gives Jaclyn some tough love, and, together, we talk about healthy boundaries and approaches to being single/dating.

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In lieu of an episode this week, we would like to elevate the voices of Black people that are needed right now. We highly encourage you to listen to, click on, read, follow, and learn from Black people sharing their experiences, as well as advice. #blacklivesmatter 

Listen: 

NPR Code Switch - A Decade of Watching Black People Die 

We Talk Different - What Does it Mean to be White 

The Breakdown with Shaun King - Are You Racist? 

The Breakdown with Shaun King - Knowing How It’s Built, So That We Can Tear it Down 

Speaking of Racism - Living Into the Work with Myisha T 

Follow: 

@shaunking 

@laylafsaad 

@rachel.cargle 

@ijeomaoluo 

@mspackyetti 

Read: 

Mapping Police Violence (website) 

Dear White Women, A letter reminding modern white feminist of their relationship with black women throughout history (website) 

This Book Is Anti-Racist: 20 Lessons on How to Wake Up, Take Action, and Do The Work (book) 

Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor (book) 

So You Want to Talk About Race (book) 

White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism (book) 

Take action: 

Sign the Grassroots Law Project petition to get Justice for George Floyd 

Sign the Color of Change petitions to get Justice for George Floyd and Breonna Taylor 

75 things white people can do for racial justice

In this episode Jaclyn and Chantel are just chatting about why they left the Christian faith, and do not subscribe to any particular religion anymore. They share their respective experiences within the Christian faith specifically, and explain why they decided to leave. They dive into how they are raising their sons to be open-minded to all religions and walks of life.

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Jaclyn is “just chatting” about the juicy details leading to the end of her 3 year relationship. She shares the red flags they both ignored, as well as how she came to this hard decision to basically break her own heart. Jaclyn & Chantel both share noteworthy relationship advice, so grab a pen!

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Jaclyn and Chantel talk about the man versus the fuck boy in this episode that dives deep into what you can look for in order to find a great partner. Hint: You'll never have to wonder how a man feels about you!

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Jaclyn and Chantel tackle the subject of red flags in the initial stages of starting to develop a romantic relationship, as well as pet peeves they both have. While they dive into the matter with their typical sense of humor and witty banter, they recognize the importance of setting your own personal boundaries -- red flags are something to be taken seriously, and they can even save you from entering into an abusive relationship. Trust your intuition when you start talking to someone new... it's usually always right! Slide into @justchattingpod's DMs with your cringey red flags and biggest pet peeves!

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