Just John and April

In this episode John and April talk about April being an introvert and the hang-ups she has because of it. They go into why introverts feel that needing to get away and be alone can be seen as negative when really it is a way to recharge. They discuss feelings of guilt that may go along with introverted moms who feel bad because they need time even away from their families, which also brings a form of anxiety. They tend to worry about whether or not things will be done the way it should be if not present. John and April give some good tips on how to enjoy your introvertedness and to embrace the core you. #introvert #selfaware #justjohnandapril

In this episode John and April talk about anxiety within relationships. They point out reasons why people have anxiety and what couples may need from each other. They reveal their own anxiety and what they need from each other in order for it to be eased. John and April also note that there are those who think having anxiety means something is wrong with you when in reality it is a common emotion that most people get but some just may not realize it.

In this episode John and April define phubbing and how it can be a negative action within relationships. They go on to discuss other communication issues that might irritate or annoy couples because they happen so frequently. John and April explore their own problems dealing with phubbing and how it has effected their marriage. They realize it has caused some feelings of neglect and feeling ignored.  #phubbing #communicationfauxpas #justjohnandapril

In this episode John and April go back to the past to warn their younger selves about pitfalls that they will encounter if they don't change certain behaviors. Problem is, will their younger selves be self aware enough to listen.

In this episode John and April discuss how women really want their men to take charge. April was happy with the way John planned their 20th Anniversary weekend and she said she thinks most women really want their men to take charge in certain situations.

In this episode John and April discuss what couples should do when they have differing philosophies about spending money. This is especially important now that we're in the spending season of Christmas. Many couples struggle with this and their relationship could be in jeopardy because their spending habits are so divergent. But if the couple is intent on being balanced they can find that their personal differences in this area can become strengths in their relationship.

In this episode John and April discuss how a wife can influence her husband's behavior in positive and respectful ways that will build their relationship instead of undermining their positive progress. They discuss some specific things to help when the wife it tempted to be too controlling about the outcome of things, especially when the alternative won't gravely impact the relationship or home life.

In this episode John and April discuss the thing that may be keeping your man from being all that he can be in the home as protector, provider and priest.   To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss the idea of having balance in your relationship when it comes both work/life balance and duties in your home. John and April believe that you should strive for work/life balance but having equality in the home chores is not a reasonable expectation. At least not in homes where both partners work outside the home.

In this episode John and April talk about the effects of feeling unseen in your relationships. They share their experience with each other with feeling unseen from time to time. Feeling unseen can be a physical and emotion thing that can cause contempt if couples ignore that this is possible. Showing appreciation towards one another and fulfilling each other sexually are ways to show that you see your partner daily.