Just Minhaz

The truth is, there is no such thing as the wrong person. Every potential partner is the exact person you need to uncover who you are beneath all the masks you had to create to cope with life's challenges.

“When the student is ready the teacher will appear. When the student is truly ready... the teacher will disappear.” - Lao Tzu.

In other words, every potential partner will be your perfect mirror - the Ying to your Yang. The light to your dark. You will be the light to their dark. Instead of looking at this as an opportunity to grow, most of us just avoid it because it is hella uncomfortable! We spend our whole life avoiding our darkness, so when it comes to the darkness within others, naturally it overwhelms us.

When you do embark on your inner journey of healing and self-discovery, you will notice that you are drawn to people who resemble aspects of you. Aspects of you that you love and hate, aspects of you that you have suppressed to cope with your past. But no more - with awareness, comes power.

People are your greatest gift and your greatest teacher, even those that are hard to love. Seek to understand them and have compassion for who they are and for who they are not. BUT if you struggle to do that, it simply shows you how you show up for your darkness, which is beautiful to even become aware of. Alhamdullilah!

Do the work on you and watch how your partner, your family, and your friends will either grow with you or grow apart from you.

Salamualaykum.

So many of us can feel like we lose ourselves when it comes to an intimate relationship. The truth is we have to lose ourselves to find ourselves! So if you are used to being alone then you are used to dealing with life's challenges on your own. However, the moment you decide to commit to a path with a partner, you are choosing to deal with life's challenges with them. In my opinion, this is the most transformational process anyone of us can go through. You have to learn and teach yourself how you can show up for your partner and how you can show up for yourself. In this episode, I share with you how you can choose yourself whilst choosing your partner.

To create a conscious relationship, we must first become conscious of why we are the way we are. Our childhood experiences continue to live on within us. If we do not seek to understand our past, we will constantly find ourselves a victim to it. 'Until you make the unconscious conscious it will control your life and you will call it fate,' Salamualaykum

It's time to let go of who I thought I was and embody who I always was. From now on we will be diving deep into conscious relationships and purification of the heart. Which means to heal your heart so you can manifest a conscious partner. YOU GET ME? I get you Minhaz. I know you do :D - Salamualaykum.

Fear can paralyse you from taking action. But, if you are waiting for the fear to go away - then you will be waiting till you get sick and tired of waiting. In this episode, I breakdown how you can show up even when you feel completely paralysed by fear. Watch the full video on my YouTube channel @ Just Minhaz.

Maeve Keenan shares her personal story on how she achieved social freedom in her life and how she is now working with others to do the same! Go and check out Maeve's Podcast Show, Mave's Moments - https://linktr.ee/Mave_Kee

Fear will always meet you at the end of your comfort zone. If you avoid fear you will avoid change! If you wish to change your life and create a life that you dream of, then you have to change the relationship you have with fear. How? Tune in to the full episode to find out. Salamualaykum.

I just turned 26, so I thought I'd create a video with 26 principles that have transformed my life. Be sure to tune in to the full episode. Salamualaykum.

Every person in your life is a mirror of all that you love and all that you hate. Your relationships are your greatest teacher! Making peace with those who are difficult will immediately impact the way you show up for those that you do care for and for those that you wish to help. So if you're a coach/healer then this episode is crucial for you to understand! Salamualaykum.

To end self-sabotage you must understand the self that is sabotaging. What do I mean? You can have the very opportunity or person you have been waiting for right in front of you, and catch yourself wanting to run away from them. Why? Your current reality consists of everything that you feel safe and familiar with. So, your whole life you have been used to being alone/single. Now that you have met someone who is serious and ready to commit to you, you will notice how that feels unfamiliar for you. This is where you either step in fully or you sabotage everything - unconsciously of course. In this episode, I share with you how you can step into those opportunities and commit to what it is that you do want even when you feel terrified to do so. Salamualaykum.