Keep Them Coming with Kristen Thomas

In this episode, host Kristen Thomas interviews Pamela Merritt, the Executive Director of Medical Students for Choice, discussing the critical role of reproductive health education and access in the current political landscape. Pamela explains the organization's efforts to provide comprehensive reproductive healthcare education and training for medical students, the impact of recent legal and political shifts on abortion access, and the broader implications for healthcare and social justice. Pamela shares insights into the challenges faced by reproductive health providers and delves into the interconnectedness of reproductive rights and workers' rights. They wrap up the conversation by highlighting ways individuals can take action and support efforts to safeguard reproductive healthcare access and the need for awareness regarding digital privacy.

Medical Students For Choice website: https://msfc.org/donate

IG: https://www.instagram.com/msfchoice 

Twitter: https://twitter.com/MSFC 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MSFChoice/ 

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Mentioned in the episode:

Search the internet AFTER you've secured your search history: https://activistchecklist.org/ 

Euki period planner app: https://eukiapp.org/ 

Plan C Pills: https://www.plancpills.org/ 

Palema's Substack post after the Dobbs decision: https://pamelamerrittsharkfu.substack.com/p/postmortem?r=1ih6l8&triedRedirect=true

Thanks for listening! XOXO Kristen

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Waking up one day and wondering if you're upholding Christian Nationalism is not an easy position to find oneself. 

April Ajoy shares her transformative journey from a fundamentalist Christian upbringing to questioning how her faith could include embracing a more inclusive worldview. They discuss the intersections of faith, politics, and sexuality, particularly in the context of Christian nationalism and purity culture.

April reflects on her journey from away right wing extremism via the impact of a a deep personal loss, a few loved one's coming out stories, and the challenges of navigating relationships and sexuality as an adult. Their conversation highlights the importance of self-discovery, the dangers of religion seeking power, and the need for open discussions about sexuality and consent, especially for practicing Christians.

TW: brief discussion of sexual assault - see the chapters for the timing. 

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00:00 Introduction to April Ajoy and Her Journey

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Having trouble navigating the gray abyss of a mediocre relationship? Worried you've fallen into a tolerable level of permanent unhappiness?

In this episode of 'Keep Them Coming', Kristen shares and analyzes Reddit posts about long-term relationships stuck in mediocrity, offering strategies and advice on how to navigate tough decisions. Kristen introduces the 'three doors' option for dealing with relationship dissatisfaction.

Through reflective examples and practical tips, she emphasizes the importance of direct communication, setting boundaries, and prioritizing personal growth post-breakup. The episode wraps up with actionable advice on moving forward and finding happiness after a split.

00:00 Introduction to Keep Them Coming

01:21 Navigating Mediocre Relationships

03:56 The Three Doors Decision-Making Tool

06:26 Reddit Relationship Dilemmas

11:43 Breaking Up with Respect and Clarity

14:51 Moving On and Personal Growth

17:54 Conclusion and Support

Thanks for listening! XOXO Kristen

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In this episode of Keep Them Coming, host Kristen Thomas discusses the film Babygirl with The Pitch Magazine's Film Editor Abby Olcese.

*SPOILERS AHEAD!*

Kristen and Abby discussed the themes of sexuality, relationships, and the complexities of female desire, particularly in the context of a woman's awakening to her needs and wants. It explores the portrayal of dom-sub relationships and the generational differences in expectations and standards for men and women in power. 

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Keep Them Coming

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Summary

In this episode, Kristen Thomas explores the phenomenon of 'divorce season' in January, discussing the reasons behind the spike in divorce filings during this month. She delves into the emotional and societal factors contributing to this trend, including the impact of the political climate on relationships. Kristen also addresses common myths surrounding divorce, such as the misconception that it comes as a surprise to those involved. Finally, she offers practical advice for those considering divorce, emphasizing the importance of emotional support and legal guidance.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Keep Them Coming

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Would you believe that most people are not wearing the right bra for them? Coach Kristen interviews Emily Elizabeth, the owner of Circadian Intimates, a lingerie shop in KC. They discuss Emily's journey into the lingerie industry, the importance of proper bra fitting, and the impact of well-fitted lingerie on confidence. Emily shares insights on the evolving lingerie industry, including size and fit inclusivity, and offers practical shopping tips for partners.

RSVP for their Holiday Fashion Show: https://circadianintimates.com/blogs/about-circadian-intimates/youre-invited-circadian-intimates-holiday-lingerie-fashion-show

Topics include:

Emily’s Journey into the lingerie industry

The importance of proper bra fitting

Inclusivity in the industry

Exploring kinks and fetishes through lingerie

And advice for partners shopping for the holidays or special occasions

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to my guest, info on upcoming events

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Do you wish you had more confidence when it comes to role play? Worry that you’re not creative enough to have an exciting and easy experience? Coaches Julia and Kristen are going to set your mind at ease. 

Topics include:

Role play preparedness

Key elements of negotiation

Use media or tools like Faithful Fling to help you

Read "Familiar Stranger", this month's Keep Them Coming column via The Pitch. 

Julia Satterlee is a Clinical Sexologist dedicated to kicking shame out of the bedroom and sparking joyful intimacy. Since 2019, she has been coaching couples, men, and women, championing pleasure and connection as essential, not optional. Julia’s work revolves around exploring and expressing needs, desires, and boundaries in a judgment-free environment. Her approach combines self-love strategies, effective communication techniques, and myth-busting insights into sex and intimacy—all with a dose of fun.

Find her here:

https://pleasure-wise.com/

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@sexistentialcoach Facebook

Email me at [email protected] for questions, topic suggestions for future episodes, or to book your first session. 

Amanda Vee is the creator of Sex Talks With Amanda and Embodied Sexual Power. She brings over a decade of experience and expertise as an accredited fitness professional and Behavioral Change Specialist. She’s a Certified Sex Coach and Clinical Sexologist, Certified Life Coach, and faculty at Sex Coach U. After leaving a twenty-year relationship and moving across the country during the pandemic, Amanda pivoted her career to fully embrace her passion for helping people create the sex lives that they really want. 

She identifies as polyamorous and heteroflexible and she discussed what apps she’s had success with while dating as a nonmonogamous person. Amanda lived a fantastic slut era but also spent time with celibacy to understand more about herself. 

Topics discussed:

Sexual health month and positive relationships 

Sexual and romantic spectrums in honor of National Bisexuality Day.

Exploration and labels

The relationship escalator

Dating as a couple and unicorn hunting

When and where to be open - small towns vs cities, safety and stigma considerations

The Ask Coach Kristen Anything got pretty spicy 🌶️🥵 

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Have you ever wanted to get more sex education but have no interest in talking to a coach directly? 

Did you have a belief that your sex life should be amazing always, only to find that it's a really difficult expectation to live up to?

This episode is dedicated to everyone who would like more sex education but could not imagine themselves reaching out to work with a coach personally. I get it... It's awkward! Maybe it's just not for you, maybe there's an accessibility issue.  

That is why you'll enjoy this conversation with my guest Mariah Freya. She is the founder of Beducated. She's making a global impact by making sex education accessible. 

In this episode:

What should your kids know from you about sexual health? You are their first teacher!

What is the sexual lifeline?

Our thoughts on people who try to discourage sexual health education.

Listen until the end for a discount code on a Beducated subscription!

Also - Happy Sexual Health Month! XOXO Kristen