Keepin' It Real!

What do you do when your child is hurting, and there’s nothing you can do to fix it? Whether they’re 7 or 70, watching your child suffer is one of the deepest heartaches a parent can face. 

In this Keepin’ It Real conversation, we talk about the ache of watching our kids struggle, the prayers we whisper (or cry) in the dark, and the truth that God sees both of you. If you’ve been asking God for a sign about your child, this is it. He has not forgotten you. He has not forgotten them. He holds you both in the palm of His hand.

We’ll unpack how to walk with our kids through hard seasons, even when we can't fix what’s broken. And we’ll remind each other that God still has a purpose and a plan for their lives and yours.

❓Keepin’ It Real Question: Was there a time when you saw your child struggling and knew there was nothing you could do to fix it… How did you handle it?
We want to hear your heart. Please share in the comments or message us.

💻 Behind the Microphones:

Kim Haar is a licensed therapist in Tulsa, OK, and her brand-new book Healing From Life’s Deepest Hurts is almost here! Preorder your copy or learn more at:
👉 https://kimberlyhaar.com/healing-from-lifes-deepest-hurts-book/

Kim Spence Mullen is all things storytelling — from ghostwriting and book coaching to legacy stories and podcasting. You can reach Kim at www.yourstoryspeaks.com. She also leads The Women’s Fellowship - Tulsa, a monthly gathering of powerhouse women leaders in NE Oklahoma.

Both Kims are available for speaking events — connect with them through their websites!

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

We’re diving into the rollercoaster of emotions that come when the kids leave the nest. From excitement and freedom to unexpected tears and identity shifts, we’re talking stages, struggles, and sweet surprises.

Our Keepin It Real Question: What does your journey of empty nesting look like?

We’re keepin’ it real about the highs and lows and reminding each other that it’s okay if some stages are harder than others. You’re not just saying goodbye to a chapter — you’re stepping into a new role and discovering new things to look forward to in your life. Whether you’re an empty nester already or it’s on the horizon, this one’s for you. 💛

Join us at our websites to learn more about what we do when we're not behind the microphones!

Kim Haar : https://kimberlyhaar.com/healing-from-lifes-deepest-hurts-book/

Kim Spence Mullen : https://www.yourstoryspeaks.com/

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

Why is it so hard to ask for help? Why do we struggle to receive it? And what does it truly mean to offer help in a way that honors God? In this episode of Keepin’ It Real, we dive into the challenges and blessings of help—whether it's asking for it, receiving it with grace, or offering it with love.

As Christian women, we often feel the pressure to be strong and self-sufficient, but God designed us for community. Join us as we unpack the biblical perspective on help, share personal experiences, and challenge each other to step into both giving and receiving with faith.

Keepin’ It Real Question: Which of the three—asking, receiving, or offering help—do you find the hardest, and why? Send us your thoughts!

Keep an eye out for Kim Haar's new book - Healing From Life's Deepest Hurts: Reclaiming Your Life After Grief, Loss or Trauma is now available for pre-order. Go to www.Kimberlyhaar.com 

If you're ready to start your book or podcast project, contact Kim Spence-Mullen at www.yourstoryspeaks.com

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

How many Facebook friends do you have? Now, how many of them are truly close friends? In this episode, we’re getting real about the illusion of connection in a world where social media makes it seem easier than ever to stay in touch—yet loneliness still creeps in.

We tackle two Keepin’ It Real questions:
 1️⃣ How many of your social media “friends” are actually close friends?
 2️⃣ When was a season of loneliness for you, and how did you handle it?

Loneliness can come through circumstances, life transitions, or simply realizing that your connections aren’t as deep as you thought. We’re sharing real-life ways to navigate those moments and build meaningful relationships that last.

Let’s leave loneliness behind—together. 💛

This episode features Kim Haar, LPC, LMFT, whose new book will be available soon, and Kim Spence-Mullen, a ghostwriter helping people like you bring stories to life through books and legacy projects.

Learn more at kimberlyhaar.com or yourstoryspeaks.com.

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

Ever catch yourself thinking, I shouldn’t have said that… That probably sounded weird… They must think I’m awkward…? Those sneaky ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts) creep in, feeding our fear of rejection and performance-based fear, keeping us stuck in self-doubt. But here’s the truth: We can never rise higher than our own self-worth.

In this episode of Keepin’ It Real, we dive into recognizing those self-sabotaging thoughts and replacing them with what God says about us. Because when our inner dialogue aligns with His truth, we step into the confidence and freedom He’s called us to.

🔹 Keepin’ It Real Question: When you recognize that you are doubting yourself, what does it sound like to you?

Let’s rewrite the script and start seeing ourselves through His eyes—valued, loved, and enough. 💛✨

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

Let’s be real—talking about body image can be tricky. Whether it’s weight, height, skin, hair, or something else entirely, most of us have felt the sting of body shaming at some point. And honestly? It stays with us.

In this episode of Keepin’ It Real, we’re diving into the tension between body shaming and body positivity—how our culture, past experiences, and even our self-talk shape how we see ourselves. But here’s the good news: healing is possible.

We’re keeping it real (and primarily pain-free 😉) as we unpack how body shame is often tied to deeper wounds, why a mirror can’t measure our worth, and how we can shift the conversation—not just for ourselves but for the next generation.

In this episode, we ask the Keepin’ It Real question: Do you remember how old you were the first time you experienced any kind of body shaming?

It’s time to step into real confidence—the kind that comes from knowing who we are in Christ. 💙

Join us for this honest, encouraging, and maybe even fun discussion. You’re more than your body—you’re His.

Our worth isn’t found in the mirror—it’s found in Christ. Let’s start the conversation that helps us—and those coming behind us—find true confidence in who God says we are.

Join us for this real, raw, and redemptive discussion. 💙 #KeepinItRealPodcast #YourWorthInChrist

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

Welcome back to an all-new year of Keepin It Real! We’re kicking off the year with awesome topics, heartfelt conversations, and plenty of encouragement.

In this episode, Kim Haar and Kim Spence Mullen dive into a deeply personal and powerful discussion: Where is God When Bad Things Happen?

They share intimate stories of walking through tough times and how their faith in God became their anchor in the midst of life’s storms. It’s a conversation about struggle, faith, and finding hope when things seem at their darkest.

Our Keepin It Real question is: "Can you recall a time when you felt alone and maybe wondered, 'God, where are You?'" We’d love to hear your stories and thoughts—connect with us on our Facebook page to join the conversation! Let’s encourage one another as we step into this new year together. 💬❤️

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

✨ In this episode: Wonderful Words of Life ✨

Have you ever experienced the life-changing power of kind and loving words? 🌟 This week, we’re sharing stories of moments when someone’s words breathed life into us—encouraging, uplifting, and reminding us of the beautiful impact our words can have.

Inspired by the timeless hymn lyrics:
🎵 “Sing them over again to me, wonderful words of life...beautiful words, wonderful words, wonderful words of life…” 🎵

🌟 Keepin It Real Question: What’s a time when someone’s words have breathed life into you?

 A few simple words can make all the difference. Let’s inspire each other to speak life into those around us! 💬💖

🎧 Don’t forget to follow, share, and tag a friend who needs to hear this episode!

#KeepinItRealPodcast #WonderfulWordsOfLife #SpeakLife #KindWordsMatter #LifeChangingMoments

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

In this heartfelt episode of the Keepin' It Real Podcast, we explore the incredible power of a mother’s prayers. As moms, we often feel what our kids feel, carrying their joys and burdens in ways that only a mother can. It’s the hardest yet most rewarding job of all, and through it all, we have the unique authority to pray God’s promises over our children—whether they’re little, grown adults, or somewhere in between.

Keepin' It Real Question: Why did we feel this was such an important topic to discuss?

We share our personal reflections on why a mother’s prayers matter so deeply and how trusting the Lord with our children brings peace and hope.

This episode is for every mom who needs encouragement to keep praying, keep trusting, and keep believing in the power of God’s promises. Join us as we keep it real about motherhood, faith, and the journey of surrendering our children into God’s hands.

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]

Pull up a chair and join us, ladies, as we dive into the world of imposter syndrome! Have you ever felt like you don’t belong or that you’re not qualified enough? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re getting real about those moments when the inner critic takes over, making us question our worth and feel like a fraud.

The Keepin It Real question of the day is, "Have you ever felt unqualified and allowed that inner critic to rise up and put you down?" 

Together, we’ll unpack the realities of these thoughts and share ways to overcome them, showing ourselves a little more kindness along the way.

Be sure to follow the podcast so you never miss an episode, and share it with your friends who could use a reminder to be kind to themselves, too!

Bring Keepin’ It Real to Your Community

If you’re looking for a speaker for your women’s group, event, or gathering, we would be honored to come alongside you. Whether it’s a small, intimate circle or a larger room filled with women at every stage of life, our heart is the same—to connect, to uplift, and to spark something lasting. These aren’t just talks… they’re moments that stay with you, conversations that continue long after the event ends, and gentle reminders that God is at work in every story represented in the room.

If that resonates with you, we invite you to reach out. We’d be honored to learn more about your group and explore what it could look like to come alongside you.

Connect with us and let's talk! [email protected] or [email protected]