In this episode of Keeping It Young, Dave and Bethlie dive into the important topic of keeping the bedroom alive and fresh in marriage. They discuss how seasons of life impact intimacy, the importance of thinking about each other in 'that way,' and how open communication can strengthen a couple’s connection. 

How do you keep the bedroom alive and fresh?

1.  Think about each other in “that way”

1. 1. “Seasons” affect us differently
      1. Young parents with small children
      2. Teens
      3. Pregnancy
   2. Start with positive thoughts
   3. Be aware that it is normal for each of us to think about the bedroom differently

 

2.  Talk to each other about needs, desires, and wants

1. How often
2. In what way
   1. Shower together?
   2. Fast?
   3. Gourmet?
3. When
   1. This can vary by job demands
   2. This can vary by schedule
   3. This can vary by the age of your children
4. What do you need? What do you want?
5. What do WE need?
6. What can we do to meet each other’s needs