Key Thinking (Aloud)

Key Thinking (Aloud)

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Key Thinking (Aloud) episodes

  • Life is Balance

    This is a stream-of-consciousness one, a little lighter, a little empathetic, and of course some politics, but also depth. Let's be one with the universe yall.

    54 min
  • Why I won't declare my pronouns

    Trans activism has been simmering for a while. I've been paying attention, wondering what my role is as a well-intentioned person who cares about progress and justice. I've decided that it does not include adding he/him to my bio, my by-line, my email signature or anything else. I have a few reasons for that. Does it make me a transphobe or bigot? You can tell me.

    52 min
  • Sex Crime

    A difficult and explicit look at abhorrent behavior, especially depicted in various films.

    • Why Irreversible is the most traumatic film I’ve ever seen
    • It’s important that we calibrate our moral intuitions
    • Victims and villains: what are the rules?
    • #metoo, Harvey Weinstein, _The Morning Show _and power dynamics
    • Understanding maturity and agency
    • The burden of male sexuality vs our higher ideals
    • Michael Jackson (Leaving Neverland), paedophile who courted boyfriends
    • R. Kelly (Surviving R. Kelly), Aaliya was 13-14, hebephile who imprisoned adolescents
    • Jeffrey Epstein (Filthy Rich), ephebophile who corrupted teens and the legal system
    • Chronophilia and age of consent, ppreciating differnces in physical maturity
    • What counts as mental illness?
    • What is trauma?
    • Codes of conduct
    • Systemic conspiracies might be worse than specific sex crimes
    • Spotlight and the Catholic Church
    • Male sexuality is messy at best, and too often vile
    • Victimhood culture must parse out differences in agency and responsibility
    • Sex acts themselves are fascinating. How do we separate kink shaming from policing actual abuse?
    • CONTEXT MATTERS.
    • 52 min
    • Libertarian Left

      I'm embracing contrarian thinking. I've never thought of myself as controversial, but people tell me I am. I just appreciate nuance, and despise groupthink. It's important to seriously consider facts and goals before forming opinions, and this podcast offers a space to do that.

      LibLefts get made fun of a lot on reddit.com/politicalcompassmemes, and maybe that's fair. But it's how I identify, despite my contrarian attitudes toward other leftists, and my appreciation for centrism and other ways of thinking. Still, this is where I land. In this episode, I take the political compass quiz and talk through my answers.

      1 hr 12 min
    • Fake News

      Topics covered in this one:

      • Podcasting as writing
      • What is real? What can we trust?
      • Covid news, election controversies
      • The Social Dilemma and our individual realities
      • Fake news masquerades generic ideas as facts
      • Privacy vs vulnerability
      • The Great Hack and weaponizing data
      • We must be better at discerning information
      • The psychology of conspiracy theories
      • Vigilance against corruption
      • Reality is satire
      • The continued drama of the presidential election
      • The current COVID lockdown
      • Failures in journalism
      • Psychology of isolation and online life
      • Sympathies and responsibilities
      • Russian hackers and the Mueller report
      • The psychology of belief
      • 9/11 as a meme
      • The Overton window
      • Big tech as nanny state
      • Jonathan Haidt and the Coddling of the American Mind
      • Black Lives Matter as a psy op
      • The difficulty of dialogue in this world
      • 1 hr
      • My Mental Health

        How are you feeling? I've been better, and I want to talk through it. Society doesn't really know how to address the topic of mental health - not intrapersonally, not interpersonally, not more broadly, regarding the least fortunate on our city streets. And we're not quite aware enough of our typical behaviors and socio-political attitudes, and how our mental health contributes to such topics. So let's reflect on all this.

        56 min
      • I Voted (for Myself)

        Some thoughts post election:

        I voted from Berlin, and I’m proud of that, even if my vote in New York doesn’t mean much.

        I really expected Biden to win easily, so again I have to eat my words, as the election remains too close to call. Too much deja vu, for sure.

        The Dems are pathetic. Regardless of what happens.

        I’m not too worried about Trump’s wild authoritarian LARPing.

        Leftists need to understand better why the’yre unappealing to average/swing voters. I wish we did more introspection and legit discourse about that, instead of demonizing our political opponents.

        36 min
      • The LA Dodgers are Baseball Champions

        I'm not a big sports fan. I think sports are an imperfect entertainment, an emotionally draining investment and a poor substitute for narrative fiction. But we love sports as a society for deep psychological reasons, and it IS satisfying when our team wins. The Los Angeles Dodgers are my favorite sports team, and they've (finally) won the world series. I'm especially happy for my dad, to whom this episode is dedicated. He's overjoyed. Me? I'm just relieved, happy that I'm not disappointed.

        59 min
      • Do I Really Have to Vote?

        Civic duty is important. But how much is voting a civic duty, really? Maybe it depends... Depending on your particular circumstances, voting can be really tricky, actually. One might wonder if it's even worth it... It probably depends on the urgency of the particular election, the details of your district, and the social pressure involved. Isn’t stigma a major factor in this decision? I'm personally having a tough time with all of it. There are quite few barriers for some, and apathy doesn't help. And whose fault is that?

        42 min
      • Am I Getting Canceled?

        I keep getting canceled. Not "officially" - I have no boss that can fire me. But I feel it all around, in so many of my social interactions and conversations. I feel the cold shoulder of prominent opinion turning on my provocative nature. Society doesn't seem to embrace contrarian thinking these days, and the room for challenging questions keep dwindling.

        1 hr

      About Key Thinking (Aloud)

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      Casual philosophy & cultural criticism with Keith Telfeyan. Keith is a writer and artist born in California, living in Berlin. He takes a contrarian perspective toward triggering topics, but with…