Ep 140 // What Does God’s Impartial Love Really Mean—and How Do We Live It Out? With Bible Teacher Oghosa Iyamu

In this powerful conversation, Megan Nilsen sits down with Bible teacher and author Oghosa Iyamu to unpack what Scripture means when it says God’s love is impartial. Together they explore why impartial love matters in a culture driven by comparison, comfort, and competition—and how embracing it can transform your faith, relationships, and daily obedience.

• God’s Impartial Love Defined – Oghosa explains the difference between God’s impartiality (He doesn’t judge by outward status) and His impartial love (His radical hospitality that welcomes the undeserving through Christ).
• Small Acts of Bold Faith – Faithfulness isn’t only about big leaps like moving across the country; it’s about everyday obedience, like posting a vulnerable message or showing up when it feels uncomfortable.
• Breaking Comparison Traps – Both Megan and Oghosa share their struggles with hiding behind others’ ministries and the courage to step forward in their own God-given calling.
• Comfort, Competencies, and Comparison – Oghosa challenges the church to evaluate how these three cultural values sometimes replace God’s impartial perspective.
• Audience of One – A reminder to anchor our worth in Christ, not likes, followers, or human approval.

Quotable Quotes:

• “Sometimes it’s harder to be faithful in the small moments than the big moments—because only God sees them.”
• “God’s impartial love is His radical and generous hospitality to welcome the undeserving.”
• “It can look spiritual to hide behind other people’s ministries, but often we’re really avoiding rejection.”
• “God is the one who empowers. He gives the gift and the wisdom to know how and when to use it.”

If you’ve ever wrestled with comparison, doubted God’s goodness in hard seasons, or longed to fully believe His love is for you, this episode will encourage and equip you.

Stay connected with Megan:

• Website:meganbnilsen.com
• Social:Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book:Untangled Faith+ Companion Journal
• Free Gift:30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
• Book a free discovery callto see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

📖 Learn more about Oghosa’s new Bible study Forever Welcomed and discover how God’s impartial love changes everything.

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Ep 139 // Chasing the Wrong Dream? How to Discern God’s True Call for You with Online Business Coach Stefanie Gass

What happens when everything you’ve built crumbles, your identity feels lost, and God asks you to surrender the very things you’ve clung to for success? In this episode, I sit down with Stefanie Gass—Christian business and podcast coach, mom of two boys, and seven-figure CEO—who shares her powerful journey from chasing worldly success in network marketing to radically aligning her life and business with God’s call.

You’ll hear how God spoke to her in a dream with the words “Start a podcast,” how she learned to recognize her “discernment alarms,” and how surrendering idols like alcohol and social media opened doors she never imagined. This conversation is a masterclass in letting go, tuning in to the Holy Spirit, and walking in bold obedience—even when you don’t know the outcome.

Key Takeaways:

• 🌱 Discernment alarms—how to recognize unrest in your spirit as God’s nudge to pivot.
• 🕊️ The role of surrender and prayer in uncovering your true calling.
• 🔑 Why social media can become an idol—and how stepping away can create space for God’s direction.
• 🎧 The story behind Stefanie’s God-given podcast dream and how obedience led to exponential growth.
• 🙌 Kingdom ROI vs. worldly ROI: why God’s results look different (and better).

Quotable Quotes:

“Earthly success is fleeting. It’s built on nothing—and it can be gone in an instant.”

“Your discernment alarms are the Holy Spirit saying, enough. Will you listen?”

“You only live one time. Borrow God’s confidence and take the shot.”

Reflection Questions:

1. What “discernment alarms” have been going off in your life lately?
2. Are there any areas where you may be rationalizing an idol rather than surrendering it?
3. What small, obedient step could you take today to make space for God’s direction?
4. How would your business, family, or faith shift if you trusted God’s Kingdom ROI over worldly results?

Connect with Stefanie Gass:

• Website: stefaniegass.com
• Podcast: Online Business for Christian Women
• Free 5-Day Bootcamp: The Profitable Podcast Bootcamp – use code MEGAN at checkout to join free!

Stay connected with Megan:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+ Companion Journal
• Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

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Ep 138 // Speaking the Truth in Love…and Learning to Hear It Too: Practicing Charitable Orthodoxy

What if speaking the truth in love is only half the equation? What if real spiritual maturity also requires us to hear the truth in love? In this episode, Megan unpacks the concept of charitable orthodoxy — holding tightly to the core truths of our faith while relating to one another with humility, grace, and respect.

• What charitable orthodoxy is and why it matters for Christians today.
• The difference between truth without love (harshness) and love without truth (relativism).
• Why people often misinterpret what we say — but rarely misinterpret themselves.
• How Denver Seminary frames charitable orthodoxy as a posture of listening before speaking.
• The Grace & Truth Matrix from Gravity Leadership: Hang Out, Check Out, Call Out, Call In.
• Practical steps you can take to embody conviction and compassion in your relationships.

• “People don’t always hear what we meant to say. They only hear it through their own lens.”
• “Charitable orthodoxy isn’t weakness. Being charitable is Kingdom strength.”
• “Giving truth in love takes courage. Receiving truth in love takes humility.”
• “Let’s be kind people who don’t just defend the truth, but dignify the person across from us by listening well.”

1. When was the last time you spoke truth without much love? What happened?
2. When was the last time you avoided speaking truth in order to “keep the peace”? Why?
3. How do people experience you — more grace-heavy, truth-heavy, or balanced?
4. What assumptions or biases might be coloring the way you hear others?
5. In which relationships is God inviting you to move from “calling out” to “calling in”?

Stay connected with Megan:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
• Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 137 // Living with Legacy: Vision, Mission & Family Impact with Leadership CoachSharon Mankin (Part 2)

What kind of legacy are you leaving?

In Part Two of my conversation with life and leadership coach Sharon Mankin, we build on the foundation of core values and move into the bigger picture: living with vision, mission, and legacy. Sharon shares personal stories, practical coaching wisdom, and real tools her family uses—like their written vision and mission statements—to shape impact that lasts for generations. Whether you’re entering a new life season or simply longing for more intentional living, this episode will help you take the next step.

(*If you haven't listened to Ep 136 // Part One, Hearing God’s Voice & Discovering Your Core Values - go do that now!)

What You’ll Learn in Part Two:

• How to navigate life transitions like empty nesting with clarity and peace.
• Questions to help you discern your commitments in a new season.
• Why legacy is shaped by everyday choices, not just big milestones.
• How to create a family vision and mission statement that reflects your values.
• The “Three Vs” framework Sharon’s family lives by: Vision, Values, Verbiage.

Quotable Moment:

“Legacy isn’t only what’s written in your eulogy—it’s what people feel when you walk away.”

Stay connected with Megan:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
• Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Want to explore your dream? Grab this free resource! 5 Questions to Ask to Determine Your God-Sized Dream

Connect with Sharon:

Website: sharonmankin.com

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• creating a family vision
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• building a legacy of faith
• Christian women leadership
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• navigating life seasons
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• living with eternal perspective

Ep 136 // Hearing God’s Voice & Discovering Your Core Values with Leadership Coach Sharon Mankin (Part 1)

Do you ever wonder how to recognize God’s voice in your everyday life? In Part One of this powerful conversation, I sit down with life and leadership coach Sharon Mankin to explore her faith journey and how she’s learned to listen for God’s whisper. Sharon shares deeply practical tools—like journaling “wondrous things” in Scripture and embracing the awkward moments that lead to authentic connection. We also begin unpacking the importance of core values as the foundation for how we live, love, and lead.

What You’ll Learn in Part One:

• Sharon’s first unforgettable moment hearing God say, “Come, follow Me.”
• The practice of writing “WT” (wondrous things) in your Bible to mark God’s voice.
• How awkwardness often becomes the doorway to connection and growth.
• Why prayer “on the spot” can transform daily faith.
• A first look at core values—what they are and why they shape everything.

Quotable Moment:

“Maybe awkwardness is just the doorway God uses to show us a wondrous thing.”

Note: This is Part One of my conversation with Sharon. Don’t miss Part Two, where we go deeper into legacy, vision, and mission—and you’ll walk away with practical steps to create intentional impact in your family and community.

Stay connected with Megan:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
• Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Want to explore your dream? Grab this free resource! 5 Questions to Ask to Determine Your God-Sized Dream

Connect with Sharon:

Website: sharonmankin.com

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Ep 135 // Singing Through the Fire: Lara Silverman on Chronic Illness, Surrender, Love, and a Theology of Suffering

What happens when it seems God opens the door to your dream job…and then, the door slams shut?

Lara Silverman—a Stanford-educated lawyer, jazz singer, actress, and now author—was on the cusp of a thriving career when a rare neurological illness left her largely bedridden. In this raw and hope-filled conversation, Lara shares her powerful journey through suffering, surrender, and a breathtaking love story with her late husband, Matt.

With honesty, humor, and deep faith, Lara invites us to wrestle with the hard questions: Why does a good God allow suffering? How do you keep hope alive when healing doesn’t come? Can beauty really rise from ashes?

Her new memoir, Singing Through the Fire, is not just a story—it’s a testimony of courage, intimacy with Jesus, and a love that even death cannot extinguish.

• Surrender in the Valley: What Lara learned when God asked her to release her dream job and later her health.
• Theology of Suffering: Why prosperity gospel clichés don’t hold up in the face of chronic illness—and what Scripture really says.
• A Holy Love Story: How God brought Matt into her life at the height of her illness, and the eternal hope their marriage continues to embody.
• Finding God’s Intimacy in Pain: How surrender opened space for Lara to experience God’s presence in powerful ways.
• Eternal Perspective: Why heaven reframes our questions about love, loss, and the goodness of God.

• Buy Lara’s Memoir → Singing Through the Fire (Available now on Amazon)
• Follow Lara Silverman on Instagram: @singingthroughfire_author

Stay connected with Megan:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion Journal
• Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.com for your free guide!
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

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Ep 134 // Brave Women, Mighty God: Saying Yes to the Holy Spirit with Author Laura L. Smith

What does it look like to follow the Holy Spirit’s nudge—especially when it’s risky, countercultural, or downright scary? Best-selling author Laura L. Smith joins me to share her journey of saying “yes” to God’s call—from corporate careers to seminary studies, from motherhood to ministry. Together, we unpack the lies women believe, the courage found in biblical women’s stories, and the everyday ways God nudges us toward Kingdom impact.

If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I know if it’s God’s voice?” or felt the tension between fear and faith, this episode will strengthen your courage and remind you that God equips you for every calling.

• “As far as ways to hear from the Lord, making time for Him is a great way to hear from Him.” – Laura L. Smith
• “God empowers and equips us to do crazy things that have huge ripple effects.” – Laura L. Smith
• “Sometimes hearing God isn’t an audible voice—it’s peace after prayer, a word from a friend, or even a poem on a chalkboard.” – Megan Nilsen
• “We so underestimate what we are capable of. We make ourselves much smaller than God ever intended us to be.” – Laura L. Smith

1. God’s voice is personal – He speaks uniquely to each of us through Scripture, prayer, community, journaling, and even unexpected signs.
2. Courage is cultivated – Like Esther, Mary, and Hannah, bravery grows through prayer, fasting, and trust in God’s promises.
3. Your yes matters – Whether it’s leaving a career, stepping into seminary, or sharing your faith with a neighbor, your obedience has ripple effects beyond what you can see.
4. Truth replaces lies – God’s Word calls us chosen, holy, and His masterpiece—no matter what lies we’ve believed about ourselves.
5. Faith is contagious – Living authentically and openly as a believer invites others to ask questions and see Jesus in you.

📖 Connect with Laura L. Smith:

• Instagram: @laurasmithauthor
• Website: www.laurasmithauthor.com
• Book: Brave Woman, Might God: 30 Things You Can Do
• Grab a FREE CHAPTER of Laura's book here!

✨ Stay connected with Megan:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion Journal
• Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.com for your free guide!
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

👉 If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend, leave a review, and subscribe so you don’t miss future conversations on hearing God’s voice and living with Kingdom courage.

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Ep 133 // Warfare Parenting: Praying for Your Prodigal Children with Author Laine Lawson Craft

What do you do when your children walk away from the faith you’ve worked so hard to instill? Today, Megan Nilsen sits down with Laine Lawson Craft—best-selling author, speaker, and host of the Warfare Parenting podcast—to talk about the power of prayer in the lives of prodigal children.

Laine shares her powerful journey of interceding for her three children through seasons of depression, addiction, and struggle, and how God miraculously brought each one back to Him. This heartfelt conversation will equip you with practical strategies, renewed hope, and spiritual encouragement to keep standing in the gap for your kids.

If you’ve ever felt weary, discouraged, or ready to give up, this episode is your reminder: the battle belongs to the Lord, and no child is too far from His reach.

• Why the real battle for our children is spiritual—not just behavioral.
• How to “plead the blood of Jesus” over your kids in prayer.
• Stories of God’s miraculous intervention in Laine’s family.
• How to persevere when the answers to your prayers don’t come quickly.
• Practical encouragement for parents of prodigal teens and young adults.

• “You’re not battling your child—you’re battling the darkness that wants to steal, kill, and destroy.” – Laine Lawson Craft
• “God’s mercy runs deeper than any mess our kids can find themselves in.” – Laine Lawson Craft
• “Never underestimate the power of a praying parent.” – Megan Nilsen

• Reflection: Where have you felt weary in praying for your children or loved ones? How can you shift from striving to surrendering those battles to the Lord?
• Journal with God: “Lord, what do You want me to know about the way You are pursuing my child’s heart right now?”

• Connect with Laine Lawson Craft: lainelawsoncraft.com
• Books by Laine: The Parent’s Battle Plan and Warfare Parenting Devotional

Connect with Megan Nilsen:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion Journal
• Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

If this conversation encouraged you, share it with a friend who’s in the thick of parenting struggles. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode that equips you to live with clarity, courage, and Kingdom purpose.

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Ep 132 // The Spiritual Power of an Organized Life with Professional Organizer Tracy Hoth

What if decluttering your home or workspace could also declutter your soul? In this episode of the Kingdom Life Coaching podcast, Megan Nilsen sits down with certified life coach and professional organizer Tracy Hoth to explore how organization can be a deeply spiritual practice. Tracy shares her personal testimony, her journey from professional organizing to Kingdom-focused life coaching, and the practical ways she integrates faith into everyday systems.

Whether you’re looking to simplify your life, create a more peaceful home, or align your daily habits with your faith, this conversation offers both practical tools and spiritual encouragement. Learn how to see your possessions through a Kingdom lens, steward what you have with intentionality, and even use journaling to hear God’s voice more clearly.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How decluttering can deepen your connection with God
• Tracy’s faith journey and calling to help others live with intention
• Step-by-step tips for organizing your home, office, or digital life
• The power of Beautiful Exchange journaling to process life with God
• How to steward your possessions with a Kingdom mindset

Connect with Megan Nilsen:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith + Companion Journal
• Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go toholyspiritstoplight.comfor your free guide!
• Book a free discovery callto see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

About Tracy Hoth:

Tracy Hoth is a certified life coach and professional organizer with over 17 years of experience helping individuals and entrepreneurs create calm, organized environments. Through her business, Simply Squared Away, she equips people to clear the physical and mental clutter so they can focus on what truly matters. Learn more at simplysquaredaway.com.

Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:

• Visit simplysquaredaway.com for free resources and coaching
• Learn more about Beautiful Exchange journaling at meganbnilsen.com

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If you loved today’s episode, please subscribe to the Kingdom Life Coaching podcast and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your feedback helps more people discover how to live with clarity, peace, and Kingdom purpose.

Ep 131 // How to Pursue Goals God's Way with Kingdom Business Strategist Gabe Cox

"You can't manifest your way to a goal."

What does it really mean to chase a big dream God’s way—without burning out, striving, or placing your worth in the outcome?

In this inspiring conversation, I’m joined by Gabe Cox, host of Pursuing Goals God’s Way and creator of Red Hot Mindset. Gabe shares her incredible story of training for and running the Boston Marathon, raising a potential Olympic athlete, and navigating the tension between high-achieving goals and Spirit-led surrender.

We unpack what it looks like to align your ambitions with God’s heart—and how to discern when a goal is from Him or from our own striving. Gabe opens up about a powerful moment of obedience where she laid something down in faith…and what God did with it will leave you deeply encouraged.

If you’ve ever struggled to align your Christian goals with God's will, this episode will show you how to pursue faith-based dreams in a way that brings peace, purpose, and productivity.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• How to pursue ambitious goals without losing your soul
• What it means to surrender your dream and still stay hopeful
• A framework for discerning whether your goal is God-given or self-driven
• Why your identity must be rooted in Christ, not achievements
• What happened when Gabe took a radical step of obedience (and what it unlocked!)

Favorite Quote:

“There’s no goal that’s unworthy in God’s Kingdom—if He gave you the desire, He will make a way.”

Take a Next Step:

Feeling stirred to realign your goals with God's voice? Start by asking, “What is God asking me to surrender today, so He can bring the fruit only He can bring?”

Whether you're a dreamer, a doer, or someone trying to hear God’s voice in your next step—this episode is for you.

Connect with Megan Nilsen:

• Website: meganbnilsen.com
• Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
• Grab the Book: Untangled Faith + Journal
• Free Gift: Wanna learn how to make Holy Spirit-led decisions? Go to holyspiritstoplight.com for your free guide!
• Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Listen to Gabe's interview with Megan on the Pursuing Goal's God's Way podcast: Ep 309 | Stop Chasing the Algorithm and Start Hearing God in Your Business with Megan Nilsen

Learn more about Gabe: redhotmindset.com