Kingdom Life Coaching: Untangle the Noise, Hear God's Voice, Clarify Your Calling

Ep 166 // Feeling Spiritually Stuck? God's Invitation to Begin Again | Em Tyler

What do you do when you believe God is leading you—but His direction doesn’t make sense, feels uncomfortable, or takes you somewhere you never expected?

And what happens when disappointment leaves you wondering if you have the courage to hope again?

In this episode of the Kingdom Life Coaching Podcast, I’m joined by author, speaker, Bible teacher, and founder of Grow + Go, Em Tyler, for an honest conversation about hearing God’s voice, trusting His timing, surrendering our need for control, and continuing to follow Jesus through every season.

Em shares how Scripture has anchored some of the biggest decisions of her life—from ministry transitions and international moves to painful endings and unexpected new beginnings. We also talk about the tension between calling and striving, why we don’t need a title to live out our God-given purpose, and how to recognize when anxiety may be revealing that we’ve started gripping something God is asking us to surrender.

Em also shares the powerful story behind her new book, The Power of Again: Come as You Are, Grow Your Faith and Go the Distance with Jesus. After returning to England from New Zealand depleted and discouraged, Em sensed God inviting her to hope again. That invitation became a message for anyone who secretly wonders, Shouldn’t I be further along in my faith by now?

1. How to discern God’s voice when facing a major decision
2. Why knowing Scripture helps us recognize the voice of the Holy Spirit
3. The role of peace, Scripture, prayer, and godly counsel in discernment
4. Why obedience doesn’t always feel comfortable
5. How Em and her husband discerned major ministry moves from England to New Zealand and back again
6. What hidden seasons taught Em about identity, leadership, and calling
7. The difference between partnering with God and striving for God
8. Why anxiety can sometimes reveal where we’re trying to regain control
9. How to release comparison and trust God with your unique calling
10. What it means to return to Jesus again and again
11. How disappointment can make hope feel risky—and why God still invites us to hope
12. Why spiritual maturity isn’t about finally getting faith “right,” but continually returning to Jesus

Hearing God’s Voice: A Beautiful Exchange Journaling Experience for Everyday Discernment

Em and I are teaming up for a special 90-minute live masterclass on October 8!

If you’ve ever wondered, Was that God—or was that just me?, this experience is designed to help you grow in confidence as you discern the Holy Spirit’s leading while staying firmly anchored in Scripture.

I’ll also guide you through my Beautiful Exchange Journaling Method, a practical, Scripture-centered process for slowing down, listening, identifying what may be influencing your thoughts, and exchanging lies and fear for the truth of God.

October 8 | 90-minute live online experience

👉 REGISTER HERE

Website: emtyler.com

The Power of Again + Book Quiz: powerofagain.com

Substack: emtyler.substack.com

Instagram: @helloemtyler

YouTube: @helloemtyler

Podcast: Grow and Go with Em Tyler

The Power of Again: Come as You Are, Grow Your Faith and Go the Distance with Jesus releases November 13, 2026.

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If this conversation encouraged you, share it with a friend who may need the reminder that she isn’t behind, God isn’t finished, and there is always grace to come back to Jesus again.

Ep 165 // How to Deepen Your Relationship with God: Spiritual Disciplines That Actually Transform You | Monica Ritchie

What does it actually mean to “go deeper with God”?

Pray more. Read your Bible. Be still. Listen for God's voice. Practice Sabbath. Fast.

We hear these invitations all the time in the Christian life—but sometimes no one tells us how to actually live them out. And even good spiritual practices can quietly become another checklist of things we think we need to do to be a “good Christian.”

In this episode of the Kingdom Life Coaching Podcast, Megan welcomes back Monica Ritchie, author of the new book Fashioned by Faith: Spiritual Disciplines for Deepening Your Relationship with God, for a practical and honest conversation about what it looks like to create space for God to truly transform us.

Monica shares the powerful encounter with God that cracked open her understanding of faith—and why even a dramatic encounter with God isn't enough to sustain a lifetime of spiritual growth. Real formation happens as we continually turn our hearts toward God and allow Him to shape us in the ordinary rhythms of everyday life.

Megan and Monica explore prayer, fasting, Sabbath, Scripture, silence and solitude, lament, community, discernment, and hearing God's voice—but without turning spiritual formation into another exercise in Christian performance.

Because spiritual disciplines aren't about earning God's love.

You're already loved. They're an invitation to deeper relationship.

1. Why you can have a powerful encounter with God and still need the slow work of spiritual formation
2. How to pursue spiritual disciplines without falling into checklist Christianity or spiritual performance
3. Why Monica thinks of sanctification more like a circle than a ladder
4. How to recognize the everyday things that may be shaping you more than your faith
5. Why prayer isn't only about talking to God—but creating room to hear from Him
6. How “wandering prayer” can turn your distracted thoughts into an opportunity for connection with the Holy Spirit
7. How to discern God's voice while maintaining healthy wisdom and skepticism
8. Why fasting may involve much more than giving up food
9. How Monica's own “no-buy” fast exposed the role shopping had begun to play in her life
10. Why understanding biblical context can completely change how you experience Scripture and the character of God
11. The difference between reading the Bible for information and formation
12. Why lament, anger, questions and disappointment don't scare God
13. How to take your struggles “vertically” to God rather than only processing them horizontally with other people
14. The important difference between spiritual contentment and complacency
15. How to choose one simple spiritual practice that fits the season God has you in right now

What is fashioning you right now?

We are all being formed by something—our habits, relationships, schedules, social media feeds, fears, desires, culture, successes and disappointments.

The question isn't whether you're being formed. It's what is forming you—and who are you becoming as a result?

Rather than trying to manufacture spiritual transformation, consider what it might look like to make room for God.

Ask Him:

Lord, what are You inviting me into in this season? Is there a practice that could help me become more attentive to You and more receptive to what You're doing in me?

You don't have to master every spiritual discipline. Begin with the invitation God is placing in front of you today.

Pick up Monica's new book, Fashioned by Faith: Spiritual Disciplines for Deepening Your Relationship with God, wherever books are sold.

Follow Monica on Instagram and find her on Substack for more conversations about theology, faith and spiritual formation.

And if you enjoy Fashioned by Faith, consider leaving Monica a review on Amazon or Goodreads. Reviews are a simple but meaningful way to support an author and help more readers discover the book.

If this conversation stirred a desire to grow in hearing God's voice, spiritual discernment, and living more intentionally with God, continue exploring these themes through the Kingdom Life Coaching Podcast.

You can also find Megan's book and journal, Untangled Faith, and learn more about her resources and coaching designed to help you anchor your identity in Christ, align your life with God's voice, and take faith-filled action.

Listen to Megan's first conversation with Monica Ritchie:

Ep 142 // How to Understand Scripture (and Love It Again) with Seminarian Monica Ritchie

Connect with Monica:

1. Website: monicaritchie.com
2. Instagram: @itsmonicaritchie
3. Book: Fashioned by Faith: Spiritual Disciplines for Deepening Your Relationship with God

Connect with Megan:

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 164 // How to Hear God's Voice and Walk in Spiritual Authority | Rachel Faulkner Brown (Part Two)

How do you know when God is speaking?

What does spiritual authority actually look like?

And how can you walk in freedom instead of fear?

In Part Two of my conversation with Rachel Faulkner Brown, we move from her remarkable story of grief, loss, and widowhoood into the practical lessons God has taught her through years of healing, ministry, and walking closely with the Holy Spirit.

Rachel shares how she has learned to recognize God's voice, discern spiritual warfare with wisdom, walk in the authority of Christ, and experience deeper freedom through honesty, confession, and surrender.

We also talk about the birth of Never Alone Widows and the powerful ways God continues to redeem pain by bringing hope to thousands of women across the country.

In this episode, you'll learn:

1. How Rachel recognizes God's voice.
2. Different ways the Holy Spirit speaks.
3. What spiritual authority really means for believers.
4. How to discern spiritual warfare without living in fear.
5. Why confession and vulnerability lead to healing.
6. How unforgiveness and offense can keep us stuck.
7. Why embracing mystery can deepen your faith.
8. What it looks like to receive God's generosity—not just serve Him.

Whether you're longing to hear God more clearly, grow in discernment, or walk with greater confidence in Christ, this conversation is filled with practical, biblical encouragement you can begin applying today.

God is still speaking. The question is: Are we learning to recognize His voice?

1. Never Alone Widows
2. Frank Peretti's This Present Darkness
3. John Bevere's The Bait of Satan

Connect with Rachel:

1. Instagram: @rachelfaulkerbrown, @neveralonwidows
2. Website: rachelfaulknerbrown.com , Neveralonewidows.com

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 163 // Losing Two Husbands Changed Everything, But Not in the Way You Think | Rachel Faulkner Brown (Part One)

What happens when you've done everything "right"—and life still falls apart?

In Part One of this powerful conversation, I sit down with Rachel Faulkner Brown, founder of Never Alone Widows, to hear the remarkable story behind her ministry and the faith that was forged through unimaginable loss.

Rachel shares what it was like to lose her first husband unexpectedly at just 23 years old, remarry, build a family, and then lose her second husband in a tragic Air Force plane crash before the age of 31.

But this conversation isn't just about grief.

It's about the unexpected transformation that happened beneath the surface. Rachel opens up about growing up in church, believing her worth came from performance, and how God used suffering, authentic community, vulnerability, and the Holy Spirit to reveal a deeper relationship with Him.

In this episode, we discuss:

1. Rachel's story of losing two husbands before age 31.
2. Why doing all the "right Christian things" isn't the same as knowing God's love.
3. The hidden burden of performing instead of grieving.
4. How shame keeps us from authentic freedom.
5. Why vulnerability became the turning point in Rachel's healing.
6. The difference between religion and relationship.
7. The powerful moment that changed how Rachel understood the Holy Spirit and spiritual authority.

If you've ever questioned God's goodness, struggled with grief, or wondered if there's more to the Christian life than simply trying harder, this conversation will encourage you.

Be sure to come back for Part Two, where Rachel shares practical wisdom on hearing God's voice, spiritual authority, healing, and living in the freedom Christ offers.

1. Never Alone Widows
2. Frank Peretti's This Present Darkness

Connect with Rachel:

1. Instagram: @rachelfaulkerbrown, @neveralonwidows
2. Website: rachelfaulknerbrown.com , Neveralonewidows.com

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 162 // Responding to Hurt Without Losing Yourself | Romans 12:14-21

Someone else’s hurtful behavior may wound you, but it does not have to determine who you become.

In the fifth and final installment of the Authentic Faith Summer Formation Series, we conclude Romans 12 with one of Paul’s most challenging invitations: bless those who hurt you, pursue peace, release revenge, and overcome evil with good.

This is not passive Christianity. It is not ignoring evil, abandoning boundaries, or staying in unsafe relationships. It is the Spirit-led decision to refuse to let another person’s sin shape your character.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. What it really means to bless those who hurt you
2. Why rejoicing with others interrupts comparison
3. How to mourn with people without trying to fix them
4. The difference between justice and revenge
5. What “as far as it depends on you” means for peace and reconciliation
6. Why boundaries and biblical love can coexist
7. How to leave justice in God’s hands
8. What it means to overcome evil with good

Paul reminds us that evil wins when it reproduces itself in us. But through the power of the Holy Spirit, we can respond with truth, wisdom, love, and integrity.

1. Where am I tempted to repay evil with evil—even subtly?
2. What offense am I repeatedly rehearsing in my mind?
3. What would it look like to bless this person without minimizing what happened?
4. Have I confused peacemaking with people-pleasing?
5. What is genuinely mine to do in this relationship?
6. Is God inviting me to apologize, set a boundary, have a conversation, or release the outcome?
7. What is one concrete way I can overcome evil with good this week?

If you’re just joining us, start with the previous episodes in the Authentic Faith Summer Formation Series:

1. Episode 1: (158) What does authentic faith really look like?
2. Episode 2: (159) How do we resist conformity and experience true transformation?
3. Episode 3: (160) How can we discern God’s will through the renewing of our minds?
4. Episode 4: (161) Where have you been measuring yourself against others instead of measuring your life by God’s grace?

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Romans 12, overcome evil with good, Christian forgiveness, biblical boundaries, healing from offense, justice versus revenge, Christian reconciliation, spiritual formation, renewing your mind, hearing God’s voice

Ep 161 // Stop Comparing Yourself to Others and Step into Authentic Community: Romans 12:3-13

Comparison has a way of stealing our peace. Whether we feel “less than” or quietly judge ourselves against others, the endless measuring keeps our focus fixed on ourselves instead of on Christ.

In this week’s episode of the Authentic Faith Summer Formation Series, we continue our journey through Romans 12 and discover that one of the clearest signs of a transformed mind is not simply what we believe about God—it’s how we see ourselves and how we love the people around us.

After exploring what it means to offer our lives as living sacrifices (Romans 12:1–2) and learning how to discern God’s will through the renewal of our minds, we now turn to Paul’s vision for authentic Christian community.

This episode explores:

1. What “sober judgment” really means—and why humility is different from both pride and insecurity.
2. How comparison keeps us from living out our unique calling.
3. Why God gives spiritual gifts to strengthen the whole body of Christ.
4. What it looks like to serve, encourage, lead, and love authentically.
5. How genuine Christian community is built through honor, generosity, hospitality, and prayer.
6. Why the church was designed for interdependence, not independence.
7. Practical ways to pursue authentic relationships and build up the people around you.

If you’ve ever wondered:

1. Am I enough?
2. Do I really belong?
3. Does what I have to offer matter?
4. How has God uniquely gifted me?

…this episode is for you.

1. Where have you been measuring yourself against others instead of measuring your life by God’s grace?
2. What gift or strength have you been minimizing, neglecting, or misusing?
3. Who might God be inviting you to encourage, honor, or serve this week?
4. What would authentic, sincere love look like in one of your closest relationships?
5. How is God inviting you to build up His body rather than simply asking what you can get from it?

If you’re just joining us, start with the previous episodes in the Authentic Faith Summer Formation Series:

1. Episode 1: What does authentic faith really look like?
2. Episode 2: How do we resist conformity and experience true transformation?
3. Episode 3: How can we discern God’s will through the renewing of our minds?

In our final episode on Romans 12, we’ll explore verses 14–21 and wrestle with one of the hardest parts of authentic faith: loving difficult people, responding to conflict, overcoming evil with good, and living out the upside-down values of God’s kingdom.

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 160 // How to Discern God's Will: 7 Questions to Find Clarity and Hear God's Voice

How do you know God's will when you're facing a major decision?

Should you stay or go? Start the business? Have the conversation? Take the opportunity?

Many of us spend our lives searching for certainty while God is inviting us into transformation.

In this episode, Megan explores Romans 12:2 and reveals why discernment isn't primarily about finding the perfect answer, but rather becoming the kind of person who can recognize God's voice. Through biblical teaching, practical coaching insights, and seven powerful discernment questions, you'll learn how authenticity, mind renewal, and honest conversations with God create the foundation for hearing His leading and walking confidently in His will.

1. Why transformation comes before discernment
2. What Romans 12:2 teaches about God's will
3. The meaning of "test and approve" in the original Greek
4. Why authenticity is essential to hearing God's voice
5. How fear, control, and pride can cloud discernment
6. The difference between God's voice and counterfeit motivations
7. Seven practical questions to help you make wise decisions
8. How to bring hidden struggles into the light so God can heal them
9. Why discernment is more about relationship than certainty

1. Discernment begins where honesty and transformation meet.
2. God cannot heal what we won't reveal.
3. Renewed minds learn to recognize God's voice.
4. God's will is less about finding a hidden blueprint and more about walking closely with Him.
5. Authentic faith requires honesty with God, yourself, and others.
6. Transformation leads to discernment—not the other way around.

1. What voice has been discipling me lately?
2. What truth am I avoiding?
3. Where am I seeking certainty more than relationship?
4. What keeps surfacing in prayer?
5. What fear needs to come into the light?
6. What invitation from God might I already know but have not acted on yet?

1. Untangled Faith: How Honest Conversations with God Lead to Deeper Connection, Clarity, and Peace by Megan Nilsen
2. Beautiful Exchange Journal
3. Romans 12:1-2

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 159 // Authentic Faith: Stop Overthinking and Renew Your Mind (Romans 12:1-2)

Have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking, comparison, anxiety, or people-pleasing?

In this first teaching episode of the Authentic Faith summer series, Megan explores one of the most transformative passages in the New Testament: Romans 12:1-2.

Paul reminds us that authentic faith is not about trying harder or performing better. It's about responding to God's mercies and allowing the Holy Spirit to renew our minds from the inside out.

In this episode you'll discover:

1. What Romans 12 really means by "be transformed"
2. The difference between conformity and spiritual formation
3. Why the Christian life begins with grace—not performance
4. How social media, culture, fear, and comparison quietly shape our thinking
5. The powerful Greek meaning behind "transformed" and "renewed"
6. The difference between rumination and renewal
7. Why you're not a captive to sin—but a conqueror in Christ
8. Reflection questions to help you identify what is forming you in this season

If you've ever felt trapped by repetitive thoughts, people-pleasing, anxiety, or the pressure to perform, this episode will encourage you to surrender your whole life to God and experience the transforming work of His Spirit.

1. What is shaping my thinking right now?
2. What thoughts do I repeatedly rehearse?
3. Where am I being squeezed into the world's mold?
4. Where am I living from performance instead of identity?
5. What would renewal look like in this season?

1. Romans 12:1-2
2. Romans 6-8
3. Conquerors Not Captives: Reframing Roman 7 for the Christian Life
4. N.T. Wright's commentary on Romans

How do you actually discern God's voice?

In Part 2, we'll unpack Romans 12:2 and explore practical, biblical discernment:

1. How to test and approve God's will
2. How to recognize God's leading
3. How to know when to move forward, wait, pivot, or trust
4. Practical tools for hearing God's voice in everyday life

Know someone who struggles with overthinking, comparison, anxiety, or people-pleasing? Send them this episode and invite them to walk through Romans 12 with you this summer.

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Ep 158 // The Exhaustion of Performing: A Journey Back to Authentic Faith

What happens when you look faithful on the outside, but quietly feel disconnected on the inside?

In this opening episode of the summer formation series, Megan invites listeners into a deeply personal and spiritually honest journey through Romans 12, a journey away from performance, people-pleasing, and subtle conformity and toward authentic, Spirit-led transformation. Drawing from her own experiences in motherhood, seminary, leadership, and spiritual formation, Megan explores the exhaustion that comes from constantly adapting, managing perceptions, and neglecting the condition of your own soul.

Together, we’ll wrestle with questions like:

1. Where have I confused peacekeeping with authenticity?
2. Where am I performing instead of living honestly before God?
3. How have I slowly conformed emotionally, relationally, or spiritually without even realizing it?

This series is not about becoming louder, harsher, or more self-focused. It’s about becoming rooted in Christ, honest before God, and awake to the life He is forming in you.

1. Why Romans 12 feels especially relevant right now
2. The subtle exhaustion of performance-based living
3. How conformity sneaks into our emotional and spiritual lives
4. Signs you may be disconnected from your own soul
5. Megan’s personal journey through motherhood, seminary, and spiritual formation
6. The historical and biblical context behind the book of Romans
7. Why transformation begins with the renewing of the mind
8. What listeners can expect throughout this summer series

1. How would you describe the current state of your soul?
2. Where are you managing perception instead of living authentically?
3. What patterns in your life might God be inviting you to notice?
4. What would a “fulfilling” summer look like for you spiritually?

1. The Apostle Paul’s letter to the Romans
2. Denver Seminary Women’s Leadership Cohort
3. Themes of attentiveness, authenticity, and spiritual formation
4. Megan’s interview with Lauren Watt (Ep 157)

1. Conformity vs. transformation
2. Authentic identity and calling
3. Emotional and relational honesty
4. Renewing the mind
5. Genuine love and courageous goodness
6. Living by the Spirit instead of performance

Grab your Bible, a journal, and a pen and come on this journey together. Read Romans 12 slowly. Take notes. Reflect deeply. Invite transformation.

And if this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend and invite her to walk through Romans 12 alongside you.

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

Episode 157 - From Bedridden to Rebuilding: Faith, Chronic Illness & Healing the Mind with Lauren Watt

What if your greatest limitation became the place God met you most deeply?

In this powerful episode of the Kingdom Life Coaching Podcast, Megan sits down with Lauren Watt, a Christian entrepreneur and writer who spent nearly a decade battling severe chronic illness, often confined to her bed with little hope for recovery.

Lauren shares her raw and honest journey through:

1. Sudden onset illness at age 14
2. Being dismissed and misdiagnosed by doctors
3. Years of debilitating symptoms, isolation, and exhaustion
4. The emotional and spiritual toll of long-term suffering
5. Wrestling with God when healing didn’t come
6. The surprising turning point that changed everything

After exhausting countless treatments and losing much of her physical independence, Lauren reached a breaking point—only to discover a new path forward that involved not just physical healing, but renewing her mind and retraining her brain.

Today, her life looks radically different. She’s rebuilding, working, creating, and helping others find hope after trauma and chronic illness.

This conversation is for anyone who:

1. Feels stuck in a season of suffering or limitation
2. Has struggled with chronic illness or unanswered prayers
3. Wants to understand the connection between faith, trauma, and the body
4. Is longing to hear God’s voice in the middle of pain
5. Needs hope that healing—of any kind—is still possible

1. Website: meganbnilsen.com
2. Social: Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
3. Grab the Book: Untangled Faith+Companion Journal
4. Free Gift: 30-Day Grace + Truth (Daily) Devotional
5. Book a free discovery call to see if Kingdom Life Coaching could help you unlock your next right step!

1. Website: laurenwatt.com
2. Substack: Lauren’s Pen (faith, trauma & chronic illness reflections)