Announcement! This unpopular belief is boldly brought to you by Mistress Alisa. If you ladies will recall, we have spoken extensively about the relationship that men have with their dicks. If a man is left to his own devices, he will usually choose whatever feels good for his aching cock. That mindset is especially problematic within the world of Dominant/submissive relationships (or FLRs). Let’s talk about why switching has no place in a space where the man is embracing true submission.

Men are conditioned to believe that orgasming will make things better. Of course, an earth-shattering sexual release can help a man to feel better; for a moment, but that moment will pass. There will be no true fulfillment, and the man will be left to face whatever emptiness or voids he was running from in the first place. Women who understand how empty orgasms work in men will find themselves empowered, and in a position to make healthier sexual decisions in their relationships.

Ladies, men have a much tougher time in life than they let on. Yes. Women are not the only ones under pressure to perform, and to meet certain standards. Men get beaten down and feel discouraged. They crack and break, and feel like they don’t want to go on. Women are the protectors of men. The influence that we have in men’s lives is incredible. Let me help you to use that influence for good; to build your guy up for the betterment of both of you, for your family, and for your community. Let’s talk

Ladies, don’t be fooled! Horniness is just a part of what is required for your guy to be a good submissive. Too many times, men express that they want to submit because submission turns them on. Such men are problematic. The truth is that if the guy is not submissive, then he is not submissive. Period. And a man who pretends to be submissive just so that he can get his dick off is doing nothing more than using you. Let’s talk.

Alright, ladies. Let’s talk. Men cheat. Not all men cheat, but many (perhaps, most) do. So, how should you handle the situation when your guy has cheated? Well, before we answer that question, we need to talk a couple of things out first. Is our goal to heal or is your goal retribution? Do you want to make him pay for hurting you, or do you want to restore the relationship that you have with him? Your answer to that question determines how you move forward.

What are the challenges of a younger woman dominating an older man? You, as the woman, will have to help to undue some of the societal conditioning that has taken place. You will also need to master self and ensure that you are able to stand in your truth. Let’s talk about it. ML is, once again, today’s special guest!

This is an age-old question that contemporary society has been revisiting lately. In this episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa and her special guest, ML, take on the topic. The conversation will be open, candid, and challenging. We will see you inside!

This episode is for the women who are curious getting started in a Dominant/submissive relationship, or in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR). Of course, there is a lot involved with being the person who is responsible for how you and your male partner will shape your relationship. However, there is only one way to get his attention and to keep it in these types of dynamics, and that is through his d*ck!

Since the beginning of time, women have been taught that their most effective bargaining tool with men is sex. Every woman knows how to leverage her man’s need for sex in order to get him to bend to your will, right? But is this something that women should be doing? In today’s episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa speaks about the detriments of cutting men off from sexual pleasure. Tune in ladies; this one is for you!

We cannot expect women to take the lead in their relationships, without first helping them to understand men’s sexual fantasies. Mistress Alisa is the woman for the job. She has been shaping and molding men, and wrapping them around her little finger for well over a decade. So, Mistress Alisa is here to help other women to understand how men tick, sexually, and to understand what certain sexual fetishes say about a man.