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We have spoken time and time again about the importance of sex and sexual pleasure for men. Well, Mistress Alisa is back with a very special message for the ladies, today. Men want sex. They want orgasms, kinky play sessions, and almost anything else that will give them amazing orgasms. However, men don’t really understand themselves, sexually. They are always reaching for the short-term fix. Today’s message is “Don’t give him what he wants; give him what he needs.”

We would like to welcome ML back to today’s show. This is a special episode that includes a conversation around something that many women have questions about in the Dominant/submissive lifestyle: Financial Domination. Women who focus on this are called FinDoms. Is Financial Domination right for you? Let’s talk about.

Women are hurting, and we are hurting for a number of reasons. What are the implications of having generation after generation of women who do not heal, and who pass their brokenness down to one generation, after another? In today’s episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa discusses some of the top reasons that women are hurting and what we can do, as individuals (and as a unified force) to address these issues. Let’s talk, ladies.

In today’s episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa is taking a stroll through Reddit, answering people’s kink-friendly relationship questions.

In today’s episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa shines a light on the secret plight of men. If women are going to be Dominant to submissive men, or lead men in Female-Led Relationships, then we have to understand the struggles that men face. Men cry, too, ladies. Even if you happen to have a guy who lets you see him cry, he is probably shedding many more tears behind closed doors. Let’s talk about what’s actually happening when a man cries behind closed doors.

This question is somewhat loaded, I have to admit; and there is no clear ”yes” or ”no” answer to the question. Instead, my intention here is to present the question so that the topic can be explored deeper. Let’s talk about it.

One of my former clients inspired today’s episode. He went from being a porn and masturbation addict, and never having dated; from living for the moment and seeking the next sexual high every chance that he got…to healing and learning how to see women as human beings. He learned how to date and contribute to another person’s happiness. He is now with a woman who loves and respects him as much as he loves and respects her. They are engaged to be married. This is a tale of what mature love looks like.

What does it mean when a woman says that she loves hard? Can a woman love hard and be Dominant, at the same time? For women who want to embrace true Female Dominance, a shift has to take place in the way that they think about love and relationships. If you are going to lead in your relationship, you cannot simultaneously be the vanilla woman who passively sits by and waits for the guy to get a clue, show up, and engage with you the way that you want. Let’s talk!

Many women are led to believe (by men, of course) that being Dominant is about wearing the right clothes; that being Dominant is about having a vast repertoire of kinks within your arsenal; that being Dominant is about using creative safe words. Today, ML graces us with her presence, again. She is going to help give women the rundown on how to get started as Dommes.

Ladies, let’s talk about my favorite sex toys and how I use them to train my submissive guys. Keep in mind that there is more to wrapping a man around your finger than offering sexual pleasure. So, I want you to listen, not only for the types of toys that can be used, but also listen to how the items can be used to advance submissive training. See you inside!