In this episode, I sit down with Kris to talk about her journey from a conventional life as an architect to becoming a professional dominatrix, shibari practitioner, educator, and one of the most authentic people I know.

We talk about discovering kink later in life, the mistakes she made in the beginning, why education and consent matter so much, and how shame, guilt, and fear of judgment can keep us disconnected from ourselves. Kris shares how she navigated her own doubts, learned to communicate more honestly, and gradually accepted desires she once thought were wrong.

This conversation isn’t just about BDSM. It’s about curiosity, courage, self-discovery, and what can happen when you stop living according to other people’s expectations and start building a life that actually feels like your own.

If you would like to get to know Kris better - visit her website krisatskvereli.com or sign up to her juicy IG account @ropes.and.curves

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Why do we judge things before we understand them?

In this opening episode, I talk about the curiosity that led me to create this podcast and why conversations about sex, kink, BDSM, desire, shame, and relationships are often much harder than they should be.

If you’ve ever questioned your desires, felt uncomfortable talking about them, or simply wondered why certain topics still provoke so much fear and judgment, this episode is a good place to begin.

Welcome to Kink Me Slow!