SPOILERS: Christmas magic! This week we #spillthekofe on how we incorporate Elf On The Shelf into our military lifestyle.

Another PCS means another set of white walls. This week we #spillthekofe on overcoming the “why bother” mindset and why it’s important to make every house a home.

Shipping your first care package? Need new ideas? This episode is for you! This week we #spillthekofe on how to send them, what to add, and some of the favorite boxes we’ve sent.

We would LOVE to see you at the Pillar Deployment Retreat. It’s free, completely virtual and jammed packed with TONS of speakers & topics. This week we #spillthekofe on our topic Real Talk: Little Ones and Deployment as well as all the info you’ll need to get your free ticket!

Military family often travel home for leave. Yet, rarely are the visits reciprocated. This week, we #spillthekofe on the hard truth if they wanted to, they would.

Have you ever held your keys between your fingers because you were scared for your safety? Do you carry a “cute little pepper spray” for self defense? This week we #spillthekofe on how women have to keep their safety first mindset at all times and why it’s time to break that cycle.

If there’s one thing that is life demands of you, it’s to be independent. So we tend to sweep our feelings under the rug with “I’m fine.” But today, we #spillthekofe on why it’s time to normalize saying, “I’m NOT fine.”

This week we #spillthekofe on dating your spouse. This life can be crazy at times but prioritizing uninterrupted time together is important. So we’re sharing how we fit dates into our busy schedules and all the little moments in between.

Have your ever wanted to throw your hands up and walk away? Because you can. However, you can not quit on a bad day and this week we’re telling you why.

Often times this lifestyle can leave you feeling helpless. Because it complicates things when your spouse is gone and you're having to do it alone. Today, we’re talking about when we’ve felt it and how we pushed through.