We brought the Unni onto the pod.

This episode we're getting into the questions that don't always get asked out loud — how did your sibling order shape the way you show up in friendships? How many siblings you had, where you landed in the lineup, what role you played — it all did something to you, especially if you grew up in an immigrant family.

We also reflect on how we can confront generational sin in an emotionally healthy way. Not to point fingers, but to name what was handed down so you can actually decide what continues and what stops with you. And the Enneagram? Present in all things as always.

This one's reflective but it's also a starting point. The real question is — have you ever actually sat with yours?

Pull up a chair. And maybe get ready to text your sibling after.

Asking Jadon and Evan a few questions about Matt on Father's Day! We love you, Appa :)

We're launching a new season of Koller Commentary — and I'm kicking it off with my girl Stephanie Kim, @tressuni. 🎙️ This episode? We went there.

🤍 Stepping into motherhood — the excitement, the nerves, all of it

🤍 Gender disappointment — and why it's okay to say that out loud to move forward

🤍 Sibling order and the impact it had on us

🤍 What we're bringing into parenting — and what stops here

🤍 The joy of growth waiting on the other side of all of it

This season of Koller Commentary is for the first, second, or even third gen kid who grew up translating — not just language, but feelings, expectations, and identity — and is finally doing the work. The healing. The parenthood. The marriage. The figuring out who you are when nobody handed you a roadmap.

We're going deep, but we're bringing joy with us. Late night feeds, long drives, laundry piles — pull up a chair. It's about to be a real conversation. 🎙️🤍

What happens when your story doesn’t follow the script?

In this episode, I sit down with Jane Yun—photographer, mom of two, and a woman of intimate faith—as she shares her vulnerable journey into unexpected motherhood.

If this is a sensitive topic for you, please feel the freedom to skip it. 🤍

From navigating the emotional wrestle of an unplanned pregnancy to finding strength in obedience—and slowly building a marriage and family with intention—Jane’s story is marked by grace, grit, and quiet redemption.

We talk about:

• The emotional weight of an unexpected pregnancy

• Cultural judgment and how her community responded

• Leaving a high-profile job to prioritize motherhood

• What it’s like being an Enneagram 3 married to a 4

• And the beauty of surrendering a life you didn’t expect

If you’ve ever questioned God’s timing, felt misunderstood, or struggled to find purpose in a path you didn’t choose—this one is for you. 🖤

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Matt and I sit down to talk about Court of Gold, the Netflix documentary following the 2024 USA Men’s Basketball Team’s journey to Olympic gold in Paris. From LeBron to Steph to KD, we relive the epic moments and share our favorite highlights.

Of course, we had to add our signature twist—breaking down some team and country dynamics through the lens of the Enneagram. What type is Jokic? How would we type each team's leadership style? It’s a blend of sports analysis, personality theory, and married couple banter you didn’t know you needed.

Whether you're a hoop head, Enneagram fan, or just here for our commentary, this episode is a peek into our living room conversations—recorded and ready to share.

We’re celebrating 7 years of marriage with a little reflection, some deep(ish) questions, and a lot of laughs. In this episode, we go down memory lane, share what’s surprised us most about each other, what’s shaped our relationship over the years, and how we hope to grow in the near future.

Marriage has its highs and lows, and we’re just grateful for the ways God has carried us through our valley seasons. If any of the questions resonate with you, we hope you'll take a moment to ask your spouse too—it might just spark a meaningful convo of your own.

If you’re a dear friend, thank you for being here with us through all the seasons. We’re thankful, hopeful, and still learning every day. 💛

Starting a business from the ground up is no small feat—but Dr. Grace Lee is doing it with a heart full of purpose. In this second part of our conversation, we talk about the launch of Karis Orthodontics, the vision behind her private practice, and how she’s bringing grace, kindness, and excellence into her work.

As an Enneagram 7, Grace thrives on adventure, creativity, and thinking outside the box—so how does she channel that energy into running a business? We explore the challenges and joys of entrepreneurship, how she balances being a first-time mom and a business owner, and her hopes for the future of Karis Orthodontics.

If you’re someone who dreams of starting your own venture, wants to hear about faith-driven business, or just loves a good success story, this episode is for you!

I sit down with friend and orthodontist, Dr. Grace Lee, who shares her story full of resilience, cultural richness, and deep purpose. Born and raised in Paris to Korean missionary parents, her journey has taken her across continents—shaping not only her identity but also her approach to life and career. In this first part of our conversation, we dive into her upbringing, how she navigated multiple cultural identities, what led her to the field of dentistry, and her transition to life in the U.S.

We also explore the unique challenges she’s faced as a woman in healthcare, how her faith has played a role in her career, and the moments that shaped her path. This episode is a testament to following your calling, even when the road is unexpected.

Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with wisdom, heart, and a whole lot of grace! And make sure you catch part 2 next week!

This episode is one I’ve been dreaming of since I started this podcast a few years ago—a conversation with my 5-year-old!

As a little “mom present” to myself, I sat down with him to capture his thoughts on life, family, and all the big (and silly) things in between. This 15 minute chat is full of joy, laughter, and those unexpectedly deep insights that only a 5-year-old can give.

Whether you're a parent, love heartwarming conversations, or just want a reason to smile today, this one’s for you. 💛

🎧 What’s the best piece of kid wisdom you’ve ever heard?

What happens when passion for Korean heritage, excellent leadership, and rooted friendship come together? In this case, it creates quite an amazing and impactful immersive Korean summer camp, Camp Hwarang, that’s shaping young minds beyond just one week.

I sit down with the camp’s leaders, Hanna Chang and Hajin Yoon, to explore how their unique partnership as an Enneagram 3 and an Enneagram 1 helps them balance vision with structure, the powerful ways campers connect with their Korean heritage, the impact this has on the child and the family, and what makes this camp truly one of a kind.

From navigating leadership dynamics to witnessing transformational moments, this conversation is full of inspiration for anyone passionate about culture, education, and personal growth. I left this time reflecting on how I can also do my part to bridge gaps and leave a mark to honor those who came before me and those who will remain after.

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