Again, the word here for “women” in the Greek is 𝘨𝘶𝘯𝘦, meaning “wives”. Straightaway, we see that this is not a blanket ban on the female gender speaking in church. Paul was referring only to the married women, and not the single (unmarried) females. Within the biblical structure of a marriage, a wife must submit to her husband. Can a married woman serve in church as a spiritual leader? Absolutely! As long as she is submitted to her husband in the marriage, she is qualified to assume any position of leadership in the church, to which God has called her.
Why were the wives forbidden to speak here in 1 Cor 14? The word “speak” in the Greek is 𝘭𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘰. The Liddel & Scott’s Lexicon defines 𝘭𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘰 as "chatter" and "babble", which could mean talking continuously in an excited or incomprehensible way, while a service is underway. Paul was correcting these married women of Corinth for their inappropriate or disruptive behaviour in the services, which was distracting both speakers and hearers.
Was Paul disallowing the female gender from having a public ministry, or the spiritual authority to preach, teach, and lead? Absolutely not! The fact that he says in 1 Cor 11:5 that women could pray and prophesy, and in 1 Cor 14 that two or three could prophesy in worship, shows that women are allowed to minister publicly in a service.
In conclusion, both men and women are created in the image of God and are of the same value in God’s sight (Gal 3:28). Though the roles of men and women in a family unit is different, the Bible does not put the emphasis on gender as a requirement for spiritual leadership in the church. The emphasis is first on the character and lifestyle of the person who wants to lead, as well as evidence of a clear divine calling and gifting (Eph 4:7-8; 1 Cor 12:4-5).
In CHC and THN, we fully support women in spiritual leadership, whether they are home CGLs, pastors, preachers, or Bible teachers.