Episode #115 This Manipulative Mind-blowing Monday we talk about Manipulation. What is Manipulation? Manipulation is the exercise of harmful influence over others. People who manipulate others attack their mental and emotional sides to get what they want. The manipulator seeks to create an imbalance of power, and take advantage of a victim to get power, control, benefits, and/or privileges at the expense of the victim. They can happen in close or casual relationships but are more common in closely formed relationships. Manipulator sways someone’s emotion to get them to act or feel a certain way. They have common tricks they’ll use to make you feel irrational and more likely to give in to their requests. Here’s a few common examples: Guilt, Complaining, Comparing, Lying, Denying, Ignorance or innocence, Blame, Mind Games.
It can happen in meaning forms including kindness, depending on the intent. Whether manipulation has good or bad intentions, it is still an attempt to undermine your rational thinking. Here are some common traits:
- They know your weaknesses and how to exploit them.
They use your insecurities against you.They convince you to give up something important to you, to make you more dependent on them.If they are successful in their manipulation, they will continue to do so until you are able to get out of the situation.Manipulation of Facts - A manipulator will actively lie to you, make excuses, blame you or strategically share facts about them and withhold other truths. In doing this, they feel they are gaining power over you and gaining intellectual superiority.
Gaslighting - This tactic is used by the manipulator to confuse you and make you question your own reality. The manipulation happens when you confront the abuse or lies, and the manipulator tells you that it never happened.
Passive-Aggression - Chronic manipulators will use this tactic to make you feel guilty and give backhanded compliments. They are doing this to show anger without directly being angry, make you feel confused. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY? LINKS BELOW FOR: APPLE, GOOGLE, PANDORA, AND SPOTIFY.
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