This week, I’m giving you a cute Sunday recap of my weekend in the city. Friday night was a whole vibe — the host let me into the party smooth as hell, and it set the tone for the evening. Saturday had me in Brooklyn all day, soaking up the energy, the people, the everything.

I also get into a topic that’s been on my mind: dating outside of your income level. Is it a problem? Is it messy? Is it realistic? I have some thoughts, and you know I’m going to say them.

And lastly… bathroom etiquette at the club. The girls need to tighten up. Some of y’all treat that bathroom like y’all were raised in the woods.

A light, fun, city-weekend episode with a little shade, a little truth, and some grown-folks questions.

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 🎶 Music: Big Ole Freak In Stilettos by DJChillWill

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This week, I’m in a great space — life’s moving in the right direction, and it feels good to say that out loud. I talk about no longer needing to work my part-time job, how freeing that’s been, and the importance of decluttering — not just my space, but my energy and the people around me.

I also get into why it’s weird when people act like they don’t see you out, but eventually, I’ll speak. And of course, I share some love from my mom’s birthday party — surrounded by my Jamaican people, music bumping, good food, and even better vibes.

It’s all about alignment, peace, and growth.

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 🎶 Music: Blow (Beyonce) x Sex Talk (Megan Thee Stallion) (Mix/Mashup) - Matt tha Villain

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This week, I had to get a few things off my chest — literally and figuratively. I talk about my recent experience going to a sex party and what really goes down at those events. From the atmosphere to the energy, I share what I liked, what I didn’t, and why I’d love to throw my own exclusive, high-level version — a space that’s sexy, safe, and way better than what’s out there now.

It’s candid, it’s bold, and it’s definitely not for the faint of heart.

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🎶 Music: Full Moon x Alright by LMBZ MASHUPS

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This week, I’m back after being down bad with the flu — and baby, it had me out. While I was recovering, a man decided to shoot his shot, and let’s just say… it reminded me why I keep my standards high. I get into what the bare minimum looks like to me when it comes to dating, and why showing up with effort will always be attractive.

It’s honesty, humor, and a little shade — all in one episode.

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🎶 Music: 02 Maenad + Heathens (Interlude) by LSDXOXO 

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This week, I cover it all — from the wild dream I had about someone’s best friend (is that good or bad? 👀) to finally getting my full-time offer. I discuss what it’s like being a big brother who sometimes feels more like a parent, and I even call my grandmother live on the show to wish her a Happy 89th Birthday.

Of course, I had to get into the topic of men and their insecurities — because, let’s be honest, insecure men always end up being fat or ugly (no shade, just facts). It’s giving unfiltered, it’s giving milestones, and it’s giving real life.

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🎶 Music: Shirt But It's 2011 LMBZ MASHUPS, SZA, Jill Scott

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This week, I’m sharing what my weekend was like — most of it spent going out by myself, and honestly? It’s been fun. There’s something freeing about getting dressed up, hitting the scene solo, and doing exactly what I want.

I also get into an interaction I had at the bar that reminded me why going out alone can be just as interesting as going out with a crew.

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🎶 Music: Chloe x Halle x Aaliyah - Forgive That Somebody (Mashup) by amorphous

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This week, I’m back from my Atlanta trip, and I have stories to tell. With a $500 budget, I thought I’d land a decent hotel, but Atlanta had other plans — and let’s just say the experience was not giving. I break down the highs and lows of my stay, the parties I hit while I was there, and why I had to cut the trip short and come back early.

From budgeting blues to nightlife adventures, this episode is all about lessons learned and memories made.

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🎶 Music: Chloe x Halle x KAYTRANADA & Teedra Moses - Ungodly Girl (Mashup) by amorphous extras

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This week, I’m getting ready for my trip to Atlanta, and the excitement is real! While I pack, I get into the very real struggle of sleeping next to snorers — because let’s be clear, I just can’t do it. I also share my experience at a TS Madison event and what it meant to see her doing her thing in the spotlight.

From travel plans to pet peeves to unforgettable moments, this episode has a little bit of everything.

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🎶 Music: Princess Going Nasty by Culture Unfiltered

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This week, I’m celebrating something big — I finally got my new car, and the excitement is real! But that’s not all I’m talking about. I get into a conversation I had on X about what it means to give up a little control in a relationship — especially in a gay relationship — and why it’s okay to admit you need a man.

I dive into the importance of men stepping up as providers, the balance between strength and surrender, and how wanting love and support doesn’t take away from your independence. Between new wheels and new insights, this episode is about standards, trust, and stepping into a fresh season with confidence.

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 🎶 Music: gotta move on (larce edit) - larce blake 

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This week, I’m talking about a smoke session that went all the way left when a friend came over… dirty. Hygiene is a must when you’re dealing with me, and I’m not shy about saying it. I also get into the high standards I keep for men who try to approach or flirt with me — because not everyone can sit at my table.

I share a little about my beach day, soaking up the summer sun, and give you the latest twists in my messy situationship. Plus, I’m reminding you why it’s so important to share your location with friends and family — safety is always cute.

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 🎶 Music: Shawty is da shhh flip by Sean Dream 

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