It is important to be aware of the etymological origins of these words. The roots of many hurtful words are in violence, anger, and contempt. This suggests that these words have been used for centuries to inflict pain and to dehumanize others.
We can all do our part to create a more empathetic and compassionate world by choosing our words carefully and avoiding hurtful and non-empathic language.
Tending to irritate or wear away
From Latin abradere, "to scrape away"
Unfeeling, insensitive, or hardened
From Latin callosus, "hardened, callous"
Distrustful of human nature or institutions
From Greek kynikos, "doglike"
Degrading, humiliating, or causing loss of self-respect
From Old English dēman, "to judge"
Disparaging or belittling
From Latin derogare, "to take away"
Feeling or showing contempt or scorn
From Old French desdain, "contempt"
Lacking the ability to feel or understand the feelings of others
From Latin insensatus, "unfeeling"
Ill-natured, spiteful, or unkind
From Old English mægen, "might, strength"
Having or showing a desire to do evil to others
Offensive, unpleasant, or disagreeable
From Old English nǣstig, "filthy"
Highly offensive or disagreeable
From Latin obnoxius, "exposed to danger"
Having or showing no pity or compassion
From Latin impius, "unholy"
Discourteous, impolite, or ill-mannered
From Old English rūþ, "rough, harsh"
Feeling or showing malice or ill will
From Old English spiþig, "sharp, piercing"
To mark or brand as disgraceful or taboo
From Greek stigma, "mark, brand"
Aggressively violent or harmful