Finding the Throughline with Kate Hanley

[Laura Belgray, inner stuff]: When an editor gives you comments that make you want to cry and shut down all your creativity + crawling out of writer’s block Ep 1174


Listen Later

Welcome back to the second part of my conversation with guest Laura Belgray, author of “Tough Titties,” a hilarious, bestselling collection of NYC-flavored life lessons that Laura’s own husband calls a “loser Sex and the City.”

Today I’m talking with Laura about what I call inner stuff–the thoughts, ideas, and attitudes that affect your work, even if you’re not fully conscious of it

We covered:

• How writing a book was one of the hardest things she’s ever done professionally

• The tough feedback her editor initially gave her

• The aftermath of the criticism that led to crying, pacing, and writer’s block

• A friend’s metaphor of mountain climbing helped her to start working on her book

• The experience of dealing with anxiety and people pleasing tendencies when writing a memoir

• The dangers of self-comparison which can lead to despair and nonproductivity

• Learning to borrow from authors she loves without trying to be them or feel disappointed because she doesn’t have the exact same talents they have in the same way

Connect with Laura at talkingshrimp.com.

For full show notes with links to everything we discuss, plus bonus photos!, visit katehanley.substack.com.

Thank you for listening!

And thanks to this week’s sponsor, Air Doctor Pro. Visit airdoctorpro.com and use code KATE to save 30% off an amazing indoor air filter *and* receive a free three-year warranty (an $84 value).

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Finding the Throughline with Kate HanleyBy Kate Hanley

  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8
  • 4.8

4.8

105 ratings


More shows like Finding the Throughline with Kate Hanley

View all
Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me! by NPR

Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me!

38,649 Listeners

TED Radio Hour by NPR

TED Radio Hour

22,054 Listeners

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships by Multiamory | Pleasure Podcasts

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

888 Listeners

The Ben Shapiro Show by The Daily Wire

The Ben Shapiro Show

153,896 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,513 Listeners

The Lazy Genius Podcast by Kendra, The Lazy Genius

The Lazy Genius Podcast

6,507 Listeners

The Daily by The New York Times

The Daily

111,761 Listeners

Throughline by NPR

Throughline

15,977 Listeners

Life Kit by NPR

Life Kit

4,298 Listeners

What A Day by Crooked Media

What A Day

12,205 Listeners

The Weekly Show with Jon Stewart by Comedy Central

The Weekly Show with Jon Stewart

10,508 Listeners