L'chaim L'chaim

If someone tells you they have a hatred burning inside,

Try to calm them until their anger subsides.

Warn a victim of their oncoming plight,

But only if the victim won't pre-empt the fight!

It is a mitzvah to warn against an impending loss,

But don't exaggerate to get your message across.

To speak rechilut, there are five conditions,

To prevent others from falling into a compromised position!

Words can hurt, even if said in praise,

Don't tell Plony's wife that Plony gave you a raise.

Don't publicize that someone did you a favor,

Every word we say should be savored!

Rechilut is ussor, even if the original speaker is underage

Don't speak rechilut, especially if it is about a Torah sage.

Speaking rechilut will inevitably lead to strife,

It makes no difference if it was told to a victim or even to his wife.

Don't believe a rumor, even if it was widely known,

Most rumors are exaggerated and overblown.

Too often we believe rechilut if it was said by our fathers or mothers,

Rechilut should not be spread to others!

If you hear a report that you will be under attack,

Protect yourself while assuming the report was wack.

The speaker of rechilut should not be believed,

Because his story was probably misconceived!

If you hear a rumor, you can launch an investigation,

But only believe the most favorable explanation.

Rumors often contain exaggerated content,

If you believe the rumor, you should quickly repent!

Speaking rechilut can reopen old wounds,

Try to stop hatred before it balloons.

Repeating rechilut adds fuel to the fire,

To do teshuva, an apology is required!

Don't tell parents lashon hara about their kids,

There are many types of rechilut the Torah forbids.

Rabbi Yossi never said anything he had to retract,

Choose your words wisely and consider their impact!

Repeating a rumor is generally not allowed,

Rechilut is even worse if repeated to a crowd.

To avoid putting others to shame,

Be careful when speaking to those that like to blame!