Life After Ministry

Leadership Was Never My Calling (featuring Eric Reid)


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Many ministry leaders begin their journey with a genuine desire to serve. But somewhere along the way, leadership can quietly become something else. 

Platforms grow. Expectations rise. Applause becomes affirmation. And before long, influence begins to shape identity.

Eric Reid spent years traveling the world teaching leadership alongside John Maxwell. From the outside, it looked like success. But internally, Eric began to notice a troubling pattern. 

Leadership had become a performance, a way to earn approval rather than simply serve people.

In this conversation with Matt Davis, Eric reflects on the personal awakening that led him to write Leadership Was Never My Calling

Together they unpack the deep tensions many leaders carry: the pull toward platform, the pressure to perform, and the quiet invitation of Jesus to step down the ladder and serve with humility.

Key Takeaways
  • Leadership can easily become a hiding place for insecurity and identity wounds
  • • Applause and affirmation can become addictive forms of validation
    • Performance and presence are very different ways of leading
    • Many leaders carry unresolved father wounds that shape how they pursue influence
    • Small, unseen acts of faithfulness often carry the greatest kingdom impact
    • True Christlike leadership begins at the bottom of the ladder, not the top
    • Freedom comes when leaders shift from building influence to serving people
    Chapter Markers

    00:00 – Introducing Eric Reid and the question of calling

    02:00 – The origin of the book Leadership Was Never My Calling
    05:20 – Performance versus presence in ministry leadership
    08:30 – The addiction to applause and approval
    11:20 – Father wounds and identity in leadership
    16:00 – Navigating significance while remaining faithful
    19:50 – The power of small, unseen acts of service
    23:20 – Surrendering career outcomes to God
    26:40 – When leaders feel their best years are behind them
    28:30 – Why stepping down the ladder leads to freedom

    Learn More

    If you’re navigating a ministry transition or wrestling with what comes next, visit https://ministrytransitions.com to explore confidential coaching and support. You can also learn more about Eric Reid and his upcoming book at https://lwnc.net.

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