What comes to mind when you hear “Wives, submit to your husbands” or “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church”? For many, this instruction from Ephesians can feel outdated or even uncomfortable in today’s culture. But what if we’re missing something crucial by viewing these words through a modern lens?

In this teaching, Francis and Lisa Chan show us how true biblical authority isn’t about control or power but about sacrificial love and humble service—modeled perfectly by Christ.