What if the secret to mental freedom isn't fighting your emotions, but embracing them completely?

Join Andrew White as he sits down with mental fitness coach Carly Taylor, who's revolutionising how we approach emotional well-being by blending ancient Japanese psychology with cutting-edge therapeutic practices. In this transformative conversation, Carly reveals why our instinct to battle difficult emotions might be keeping us stuck, and how the timeless wisdom of Morita therapy offers a radically different path forward.

Discover how acceptance, not avoidance, becomes your greatest ally in managing anxiety, why connection to nature and community forms the foundation of mental resilience, and how Japanese philosophical principles can transform your relationship with uncomfortable feelings. Carly shares practical strategies from Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT) that you can implement immediately, while exploring the dangerous intersection of technology and mental health in our modern world.

From her personal journey navigating life's challenges to her professional insights as a certified coach in Japanese psychology, Carly offers a comprehensive roadmap for anyone seeking authentic emotional intelligence and lasting mental fitness. This isn't just another conversation about mindfulness—it's a masterclass in living with purpose, presence, and profound acceptance.

Whether you're struggling with overwhelming emotions, seeking deeper connection, or simply wanting to understand the ancient wisdom that's transforming modern psychology, this episode will shift how you view your mind's natural processes forever.

This is Part One of a Three Part Series this week on Leading Our own Way.

Carly Taylor

https://www.carlytaylorcoaching.com.au/

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Takeaways

- The key to mental fitness is accepting emotions, not fighting them.

- Japanese psychology emphasises acceptance and reorientation towards nature.

- Emotional intelligence is crucial for personal and professional growth.

- Connection and contribution are essential for a fulfilling life.

- Understanding the gremlin and sage can help manage negative thoughts.

- Technology, especially smartphones, can negatively impact mental health.

- Practical strategies can help manage anxiety and improve well-being.

- ACT provides a framework for accepting emotions and committing to values.

- Stoicism offers timeless wisdom relevant to modern challenges.

- Carly's personal journey informs her coaching approach.

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction and Background(07:46) Managing Emotions and Mental Fitness(10:34) Leading Your Own Way(13:37) The Importance of Connection and Contribution(16:26) Navigating Comfort Zones(19:21) The Impact of Technology on Well-being(22:25) Strategies for Reducing Phone Dependency(25:44) Creating Healthy Sleep Habits(28:35) Carly's Professional Life and Coaching(31:42) Understanding Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT)(40:22) Understanding Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)(41:16) Integrating Stoicism and Modern Psychology(43:37) The Relevance of Ancient Practices in Modern Life

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In this compelling final instalment of our three-part series, Leading Our Own Way concludes our profound conversation with Rae Bonney OAM, recipient of the Order of Australia Medal for her groundbreaking work in men's mental health advocacy.

Rae shares her remarkable professional evolution from recruitment specialist to becoming one of Australia's most respected mental health advocates. With rawness and wisdom, she reflects on the challenges and triumphs of single parenthood, revealing how these experiences shaped her approach to both life and advocacy work.

Listeners will gain valuable insights into Rae's methodology for creating supportive environments that foster growth and healing, as she emphasises the transformative power of curiosity and active listening in both personal and professional settings. Her upcoming book project promises to further extend her impact in the mental health space.

This conversation beautifully weaves together themes of family dynamics, personal resilience, and professional purpose, offering a holistic view of how individual journeys can create ripple effects of positive change. Rae's unwavering commitment to mental health advocacy, particularly for men, stands as an inspiring example of purpose-driven work.

Join host Andrew White for the conclusion of this enlightening series that challenges stigmas while offering practical wisdom for fostering healthier relationships and communities. Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and at leadingourownway.com.

Rae Bonney:

https://www.raebonney.au/

Takeaways

- Rae Bonney transitioned from recruitment to mental health advocacy.

- She emphasises the importance of curiosity and active listening.

- Rae's journey includes overcoming personal trauma and challenges.

- She aims to create supportive environments for mental health.

- Rae is writing a book to share her insights and experiences.

- Family dynamics play a significant role in personal growth.

- She advocates for men's health and well-being.

- Rae believes in the power of validation and support.

- Her experiences as a single parent shaped her advocacy work.

- Rae encourages others to be curious and non-judgmental.

Chapters

(00:00) Becoming a Mother and Its Transformative Power(04:42) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth(06:09) Navigating Personal Challenges and Growth(10:42) Pursuing Education and Career Development(15:51) Advocacy and Mental Health Initiatives(18:54) Leadership and Workplace Mental Health(27:15) Final Reflections and Future Aspirations(37:24) Thank You Rae Bonney - We love you here at Leading Our Own Way

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In this powerful second instalment of our three-part series, Leading Our Own Way continues the enlightening conversation with Rae Bonney OAM, Australia's distinguished workplace mental health specialist and recipient of the Medal of the Order of Australia for her extraordinary contributions to men's mental health advocacy.

Rae delves deeper into the profound connection between childhood experiences and mental wellbeing, exploring how early trauma shapes our adult lives and perspectives. With remarkable insight, she discusses the critical importance of positive male role models in boys' development and unpacks the complexities of modern masculinity.

Drawing from her personal journey through trauma and healing, Rae shares how motherhood transformed her approach to self-care and personal growth. Her emphasis on fostering curiosity and independence in children offers listeners valuable perspectives on nurturing resilient future generations.

This conversation extends beyond individual experiences to examine family dynamics and the vital role that supportive relationships play in overcoming adversity. Rae's professional expertise combined with her lived experience creates a compelling narrative that resonates with anyone navigating their own path to wellbeing.

Join host Andrew White for this thought-provoking discussion that continues to challenge stigmas while offering practical wisdom for fostering healthier relationships and communities. Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and at leadingourownway.com.

New episodes in this special series release Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday.

Rae Bonney:

https://www.raebonney.au/

Takeaways

- The role of male role models is crucial in shaping boys' development.

- Childhood experiences have lasting impacts on mental health.

- Understanding masculinity can help address societal issues.

- Self-care practices are essential for managing trauma.

- Curiosity and independence are vital traits for children.

- Personal growth often stems from overcoming adversity.

- Motherhood can bring profound emotional experiences.

- Family dynamics play a significant role in personal development.

- Recognising trauma is key to healing and self-awareness.

- Supportive relationships can be life-saving.

Chapters:(00:00) Men's Health: Challenges and Opportunities

(05:45) The Future of Masculinity: Addressing Societal Issues

(07:22) Curiosity and Independence in Children

(12:32) Trauma and Its Physical Manifestations

(15:17) The Role of Alcohol in Coping

(16:13) Early Career Experiences and Growth

(26:51) Becoming a Mother and Its Transformative Power

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Leading Our Own Way proudly presents Rae Bonney OAM, distinguished recipient of the Order of Australia Medal for her extraordinary contributions to men's mental health advocacy. The Order of Australia Medal represents the highest recognition for outstanding service and achievements that benefit the nation, reflecting Rae's profound impact on addressing the mental health crisis among Australian men.

Rae Bonney serves as a valued Ambassador for Beyond Blue, one of Australia's most prominent mental health organisations. In this role, she contributes her expertise to Beyond Blue's mission of supporting those affected by anxiety, depression, and suicide. Through her work with the organisation, Rae helps promote evidence-based approaches to mental health support while advocating for systemic change in how Australia addresses mental health challenges, particularly for men in high-risk industries. Her involvement with Beyond Blue complements her broader advocacy work and reinforces her commitment to creating accessible mental health resources for all Australians.

In this inspiring first instalment of our three-part series, Rae shares her personal battle with anxiety and how childhood trauma shaped both her life and her mission to transform how we approach mental health support for men. With remarkable candor, she reveals her journey from recruitment professional to becoming one of Australia's most respected voices in mental health advocacy.

Rae opens up about her experiences with vulnerability, resilience, and the critical importance of understanding our emotions as pathways to healing. Her insights into the role of family in personal growth offer listeners practical wisdom for navigating their own mental health challenges, while her discussion of coping mechanisms provides actionable strategies for wellbeing.

This conversation goes beyond personal stories to address the systemic issues surrounding men's health in Australia, highlighting the urgent need for comprehensive support systems that acknowledge men's unique experiences with vulnerability and help-seeking.

Join host Andrew White for this enlightening discussion that challenges stigmas and offers hope to anyone struggling with mental health challenges. Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and at leadingourownway.com.

New episodes in this special series release Monday, Part Two on Wednesday, and Part Three on Thursday.

Rae Bonney:

https://www.raebonney.au/

Takeaways

- Ray Bonney discusses her ongoing battle with anxiety.

- She emphasises the importance of self-care during anxiety episodes.

- Childhood trauma plays a significant role in mental health.

- Resilience is a key factor in managing mental health challenges.

- Empathy towards oneself is crucial during tough times.

- Ray advocates for men's health and the need for recognition.

- The trifecta of relationship breakdown, financial distress, and custody issues affects men's mental health.

- Mental health is not solely about illness; it encompasses wellness too.

- Ray's journey reflects the importance of understanding one's past.

- Rae highlights the need for better support systems for men's health.

Chapters

(00:00) Navigating Anxiety: Personal Experiences and Insights(11:04) Understanding the Roots of Anxiety and Trauma(20:56) Recognition and Advocacy: The Order of Australia Award(30:46) Men's Health: Challenges and Opportunities(37:12) Final Reflections and Future Aspirations

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The women who are taught to stay silent become the loudest voices for change.' In this gripping conclusion, Avrill Juriansz rips apart the rulebook on cultural conditioning and shows how martial arts became her weapon against generational trauma.

This raw and revolutionary episode takes you deeper into Avrill's metamorphosis, where vulnerability becomes a superpower and healing transforms into a battle cry for others. As a martial artist and hypnotherapist, Avrill doesn't just share her story - she provides a masterclass in turning personal pain into purpose.

Through unflinching honesty and hard-earned wisdom, Avrill reveals how she dismantled generations of cultural conditioning and domestic trauma to build an empire of empowerment. She shares the exact tools, mindset shifts, and unconventional methods that helped her transform from surviving to thriving.

This episode explores:• How martial arts becomes a metaphor for life's battles• The unexpected power of embracing vulnerability• Breaking generational cycles of trauma and limitation• Transforming rock bottom into a launching pad• The science behind hypnotherapy in trauma healing• Why your darkest moments can become your greatest teachers

Whether you're fighting invisible battles, seeking to break free from your past, or ready to turn your pain into power, Avrill's journey illuminates the path from victim to victor.

This is Part Two of our profound conversation with Avrill Juriansz. Catch Part One in our previous episode to experience the full depth of this transformative story.

Avrill Juriansz

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Takeaways

- Awareness is crucial for personal transformation.

- It's never too late to rewrite your story.

- Cultural identity can shape our experiences and challenges.

- Martial arts can be a powerful tool for empowerment.

- Family dynamics significantly impact our self-awareness.

- Relationships can influence our sense of self and worth.

- Surviving domestic abuse requires immense strength and resilience.

- Finding strength in vulnerability can lead to growth.

- Living limitlessly means pushing boundaries and embracing change.

- You are perfect as you are, and you don't need to be fixed.

(00:00) Part Two - continued from Part One - If missed please go listen to Part One

(01:01) The Impact of COVID-19: A Turning Point

(01:01) Building a Community: The Power of Connection

(01:58) Cultural Identity and Overcoming Racism

(09:06) Martial Arts: A Path to Self-Discovery

(13:30) Family Dynamics: Understanding Relationships and Expectations

(18:20) Navigating Challenges as a Single Parent

(20:33) Confronting Domestic Violence

(22:46) The Impact of Trauma on Family

(25:50) Resilience and the Journey to Healing

(28:43) Breaking Free from Toxic Relationships

(31:54) Finding Purpose and Limitless Potential

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The day I realised my culture had become my cage was the day I found my freedom.' In this raw and riveting episode, Avrill Juriansz shatters the silence around domestic violence and cultural conditioning, revealing how she transformed her deepest wounds into a mission that's liberating others.

As an NLP practitioner and hypnotherapist, Avrill's story isn't just about survival - it's a masterclass in radical self-liberation and the courage to question everything we've been conditioned to accept.

Through raw and unfiltered conversation, Avrill reveals how cultural expectations became the invisible bars of her mental prison, and how the journey to breaking free led her to her true calling. She shares profound insights about the weight of generational trauma, the silent struggles of cultural conditioning, and the revolutionary act of choosing yourself when everything around you says otherwise.

This episode dives deep into:• The hidden impact of cultural conditioning on our life choices• How trauma can become a catalyst for transformation• The power of NLP and hypnotherapy in breaking mental barriers• Why community support is crucial for personal evolution• The courage required to rewrite your own story

Whether you're wrestling with cultural expectations, healing from trauma, or searching for your authentic voice in a world that tries to silence it, Avrill's journey will show you that transformation isn't just possible - it's your birthright.

Don't miss Part Two dropping Wednesday at 6am AEST, where Avril shares the practical tools and mindset shifts that helped her break free and now empowers others to do the same.

Avrill Juriansz

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Takeaways

- Awareness is the first step to personal growth.

- Cultural expectations can hinder self-discovery.

- Childhood experiences shape our adult lives.

- It's never too late to rewrite your story.

- Self-acceptance is crucial for empowerment.

- Helping others can be a path to healing.

- NLP and hypnotherapy can transform lives.

- Community support is vital in overcoming adversity.

- Personal growth often comes from adversity.

- Embracing differences can lead to self-acceptance.

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction and Setup

(02:24) Awareness Holds the Key

(04:42) The Impact of Information Overload

(07:40) Cultural Expectations and Self-Validation

(10:36) Personal Journey and Transformation

(13:32) Overcoming Societal Pressures

(16:46) Helping Others Through Adversity

(19:33) The Role of Hypnotherapy and NLP

(22:46) Client Success Stories and Transformations

(25:42) Emotional Healing and Growth

(31:14) From Bakery to Real Estate: A Journey of Discovery

(33:35) Navigating Life's Challenges: A Personal Transformation

(36:24) Rediscovering Self-Worth Through Education

(40:47) The Impact of COVID-19: A Turning Point

(44:09) Building a Community: The Power of Connection

(45:07) Cultural Identity and Overcoming Racism

(45:49) Finding Purpose and Limitless Potential

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What transforms personal tragedy into a lifeline for thousands of men across the UK? In this soul-stirring second part, Luke Ambler dives deeper into the heart of what makes Andy's Man Club a beacon of hope for men everywhere.

Listen as Luke opens up about the raw reality of loss, the power of emotional awareness, and how being unapologetically yourself can create ripples of change through an entire community. Through candid conversation and hard-earned wisdom, he reveals the building blocks of resilience and the transformative power of genuine human connection.

Pull up a chair and join a conversation that cuts through the noise. From childhood experiences that shape us to the moments that break and remake us, Luke's insights will challenge you to think differently about what it means to be strong. Whether you're on your own journey of healing or supporting someone who is, this episode offers hope, understanding, and practical wisdom.

Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Because every conversation has the power to change a life.

Part 2 of an unforgettable series that proves when men talk, lives change. 🎧

Luke Ambler:

https://lukeambler.co.uk/

https://andysmanclub.co.uk/

Takeaways

- Life is short; enjoy every moment.

- Community support is vital for mental health.

- Tragedy can lead to personal growth and resilience.

- Childhood experiences shape our perspectives.

- Emotional awareness is crucial for decision-making.

- It's important to be unapologetically yourself.

- Not all negative experiences are detrimental.

- You owe it to yourself to find joy in life.

- Building a supportive community can change lives.

- Your story matters; sharing it can help others.

Chapters

(00:00) Embracing Struggles: The Path to Resilience

(02:10) Reflecting on Childhood: The Foundation of Resilience

(04:22) Reflections on Upbringing and Resilience

(09:33) The Impact of Sports on Personal Development

(13:46) Navigating Life's Challenges and Emotional Control

(18:15) Remembering Andy: Lessons from Loss

(22:54) Pivotal Moments and Personal Accountability

(25:41) Finding Purpose and Embracing Life's Fragility

(30:49) Thank you to Luke Ambler and the Andys Man Club for everything. Until next year where we will film another episode - Thank You Luke.

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What happens when a former rugby star trades his cleats for a mission that's saving thousands of lives? In this gripping conversation, Luke Ambler, founder of @AndysManClub and the man behind #ITSOKAYTOTALK, sits down with Andrew White to share the story that sparked a global mental health revolution.

Listen as Luke opens up about the personal tragedy that led him to create a safe space for men to speak their truth. Through laughter, vulnerability, and authentic chat, this episode dives deep into the power of community, the importance of male mental health, and how asking better questions can change lives.

Pull up a chair and join a conversation that's changing the game. Luke's "What's Next? Theory" will challenge you to rethink how you approach life's toughest moments. Whether you're struggling, supporting someone who is, or simply want to be part of the change, this episode is your invitation to join a movement that's saving lives.

Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. Because sometimes, the bravest thing we can do is start a conversation.

Part 1 of an unforgettable series that proves when men talk, lives change. 🎧

Luke Ambler:

https://lukeambler.co.uk/

https://andysmanclub.co.uk/

Takeaways

- It's okay to talk about mental health.

- Community support is vital for men's well-being.

- Laughter can be a powerful tool for healing.

- Personal experiences shape our perspectives on life.

- Creating safe spaces encourages open conversations.

- Leadership involves leading by example and humor.

- Children need to learn resilience through challenges.

- It's important to engage with schools on mental health.

- The future of Andy's Man Club looks promising with growth.

- Emotional well-being is essential for a fulfilling life.

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction and Connection

(03:24) The Importance of Sleep and Wellbeing

(04:53) Living Life to the Fullest

(09:41) Pivotal Moments and Personal Growth

(14:10) Leading by Example in Professional Life

(23:31) The Growth of Andy's Man Club

(27:07) The Importance of Hope in Mental Health

(28:25) Andy's Man Club: Structure and Support

(29:42) Engaging Conversations: The Power of Questions

(31:33) Personal Treasures: What Matters Most

(34:11) Cultural Shifts: From Pubs to Health Consciousness

(37:06) Community Engagement: Workshops and Outreach

(40:10) Building Confidence in Youth

(42:42) Embracing Struggles: The Path to Resilience

(45:12) Finding Purpose and Embracing Life's Fragility

(46:18) End of Part One - Part Two '#ITSOKAYTOTALK to Andy's Man Club: How Luke Ambler Built UK's Largest Mental Health Community' will drop Wednesday

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In this profound conclusion of our two-part series, Ashley Hillstead opens her heart about the ripple effects of workplace bullying and how it intertwined with generational trauma. As your host who walked a similar path through workplace bullying to transformation, I witnessed Ashley's raw vulnerability as she shared how betrayal became her greatest teacher.

From navigating complex parent relationships to discovering the power of community support, Ashley's story reminds us that our deepest wounds often become our most powerful healing tools. As co-founder of Present Time Integration Lab, she now guides others through somatic healing and energy work, proving that our darkest moments can lead to our soul's purpose.

This episode isn't just about survival—it's about alchemizing pain into purpose. If you've ever questioned whether your struggles could become your strength, Ashley's journey will show you what's possible when you choose to heal not just yourself, but generations to come.

Ashley Hillstead

https://www.ashhillstead.com/

Takeaways

- Betrayal played a significant role in Ashley's journey.

- Healing is a personal journey that requires integration into daily life.

- Community support is crucial during difficult times.

- Workplace bullying can have profound effects on mental health.

- Understanding trauma is essential for personal growth.

- Relationships with family can influence healing processes.

- It's important to speak your truth, even when uncomfortable.

- Finding purpose can stem from pain and adversity.

- Self-discovery is a continuous journey that evolves over time.

- Apologies can provide closure and validation in healing.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Conversation

00:52 Understanding Trauma and Its Impact

07:55 Healing Relationships with Parents

17:18 The Move to New York and Its Challenges

23:47 Experiencing Workplace Bullying

30:03 Navigating Workplace Bullying

34:07 The Impact of Gaslighting

39:18 Friendship vs. Professionalism

41:11 Healing and Moving Forward

48:14 Finding Purpose and Community

58:39 Thank You to Ashley Hillstead. Please Come Back Next Week for Another Amazing Guest!

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🎧 Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube

#LeadingOurOwnWay #GenerationalHealing #WorkplaceBullying #TraumaHealing #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #SomaticHealing #EnergyWork #CommunityHealing #Resilience #WellnessJourney #MentalWellness #TransformationalStories #HealingJourney #WorkplaceTrauma

When workplace trauma meets spiritual awakening, magic happens. In this powerful opening episode, join Andrew White and trauma-informed somatic facilitator Ashley Hillstead as they dive deep into the raw reality of workplace trauma and the extraordinary path to healing. As a former teacher who faced workplace bullying himself, Andrew connects deeply with Ashley's journey, creating a safe space for this vulnerable exploration of transformation.

From the depths of professional trauma to the discovery of energy work and somatic healing, Ashley's story mirrors the journey many of us face in the corporate world. As co-founder of Integration Lab, she now guides others through their own healing using Kundalini activation and Reiki – proving that our deepest wounds can become our greatest teaching tools.

This episode is a great conversation but it's also a permission slip to acknowledge your own struggles and explore unconventional paths to healing. If you've ever felt alone in your workplace challenges or questioned whether transformation is possible, this story will resonate deeply with your soul.

Stay tuned for Part 2 – this is just the beginning of an incredible journey of resilience and rebirth.

Ashley Hillstead

https://www.ashhillstead.com/

Takeaways

- Ashley shares her journey through workplace trauma.

- The impact of early experiences shapes responses to trauma.

- Healing modalities can transform lives.

- Energy work helps release emotional blockages.

- Understanding trauma is essential for healing.

- Meditation and self-care are vital practices.

- There is no ranking on trauma; everyone's experience is valid.

- The womb is a sacred space for emotional healing.

- Personal growth often comes from facing difficult truths.

- Connecting with others can aid in the healing process.

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction and Purpose of the Conversation

(02:53) Journey Through Betrayal and Healing

(05:54) Transformation Through Adversity

(08:53) The Role of Trauma in Personal Growth

(11:50) Energy Work and Healing Modalities(15:06) Leading Our Own Way: Empowering Others

(17:49) Connecting with the Body and Emotions

(20:49) Releasing Trauma and Finding Freedom

(23:52) Client Stories and Transformations

(26:48) Navigating Workplace Bullying and Toxic Environments

(34:12) Daily Habits for Well-Being

(37:58) Understanding Trauma and Its Impact

(38:51) End of Part One - Come Back for Part Two with Ashley and Andrew

Everything Leading Our Own Way

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#LeadingOurOwnWay #WorkplaceWellness #TraumaHealing #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #WorkplaceCulture #SomaticHealing #ProfessionalDevelopment #Resilience #WellnessJourney #MentalWellness #LeadershipDevelopment #EnergyHealing #PersonalTransformation #WorkplaceTrauma