Learn & Grow with Moe

People say a lot of mean things to each other during an impending break-up. They never miss what they had until it's gone. They huff themselves up with pride when they know full well that they are the weakest link in the relationship. They say hurtful things and like always they say it thinking that the grass is greener on the other side..Then they end up coming back to you with apologies when they find anyone to treat them as well as you did. Please, let these people go. These are the people we lower our standards for, and they get the audacity to cut with their words. It is what it is, keep forging ahead. Don't waste time on people like that. They can't go on without you? They should have thought about that before the fact.

Your thoughts are ruining your life. Stop thinking beloved and get out of your head. We waste way too much time way too often thinking, re-thinking and, overthinking situations in our lives that we start to let those thoughts overtake us and in some cases cause us to make the wrong decisions. Worrying about people specifically, especially those that bring you nothing more than discourse, or pain is a waste of time. Focus on doing better for yourself instead of worrying about what doesn't serve you. Focus on you. Love you, and you will stop overthinking. Meditation can help you reach the goal of getting in control of your thoughts.

Answer the call. There are times in our lives that we want something so bad that we will do almost anything to obtain it. It is in these times that our actions to obtain what we want can be considered reckless, deceptive, or shameful.  Since the beginning of time, mankind has been doing whatever it takes to get ahead. Listen to your conscious, when it comes to making decisions or you can possibly end up regretting it.  There is a calling over your life, answer it.

Don't beat yourself up or feel bad for doing what is best for you. Never torture yourself by staying in any relationship that you no longer feel good about. It's an inevitable situation and a part of the growth process of life to move on from people, places, and things that no longer serve us. So, you can sit there wallowing in your unhappiness and staying in a situation that does nothing for you mentally, physically, or spiritually until your person shows you that they can do what you couldn't (walk away from what no longer serves them (you). Or you can grow up and accept the fact that people are going to be hurt in this life, sometimes it will be your fault, and other times it will not.  One thing will always be true and that is that we can't have the JOY and the SUNSHINE without the PAIN and the RAIN. It's just not possible. Stop suffering in silence and do what's best for you in any situation in this life.

Do you know that you are really the only person you can trust? People make the horrible mistake of putting their faith and trust in man when every man is human and prone to making mistakes and bad judgments. People will choose themselves over you every time for a number of reasons without a second thought about you will be affected. Learn to read and assess the value of what is being offered to you to ensure your success. The world is full of bad people, and whether you see it or not, everyone gets what's coming to them in the end, so don't ever cower from people who try to misuse you...handle them the same way they handle you when they decide to pluck you out to fuck your life up! 

Often times we feel disappointed or disillusioned when we have a vision or a dream that does not materialize the way we anticipated. In those times, it is easy to get depressed, fall into a slump, or feel as though we don't have what it takes to be successful in our endeavors. It is in those times that we must pull ourselves together and muster up the strength to forge ahead to the next best thing. So what this didn't work out...learn from the experience and move on to the next best thing. At least your past experiences prepared you for some of what may lie ahead.


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Sometimes all we need to do is take a good hard look at ourselves to see what we need to change before we attempt to change others. As for myself, I am trying to be more accepting of others especially when they are different from me. I value all opinions and perspectives because that is what makes us all unique. I do not appreciate being made to feel as though I have to apologize for loving ME extensively.

Your ass is toxic too...Just know it and own up to it. That is all that I have to say. 😒

Some things are done just for the entertainment of others. Life is a stage, a game, a play to be acted out. Our favorite singers, rappers, pastors, etc are all on stage for our entertainment. Sometimes things come into our lives that are strictly for our entertainment, meaning that it is not meant to be shared with others and could come in the form of blessings or things that we have secretly prayed for. Then, there are those things in life that are for entertainment purposes only, but people tend to take them personally, attach themselves to them in error, or make them their own. We must start to pick and choose our battles by learning to discern whether something is being directed towards us negatively or if we should view it as something that is just for our entertainment only because we probably don't even have space for whatever it is in our lives anyway.

Wouldn't life be easier if people would just come out and say what they mean and mean what they say? When you lie to people to get what you want. Whether it be love, financial status, or other relationships we need to approach people with nothing but the truth so that in turn, they can make the best decision for them based on your truth.