My 9-year-old daughter and I had to clean up the rumpus room (the children's recreation room). Rather than doing it myself, or nagging my daughter, or leaving it undone, I found a better way of doing it by breaking it down into tiny steps.
I think this is a valuable approach, especially for us now as a society, because we're seeing the importance of daily habits.
Another teachable moment I had was with another daughter - she's 12. She transplanted a lime tree on the weekend. I thought of this as a metaphor for what's happening to us.
Transplanting can put a lot of stress on a tree. A bit like what's just happened to us all.
We hope the tree will do well, but most of the improvement will be barely noticeable. In fact, most of the work is going to happen under the ground. Just like us.
Pulling a single leaf off the tree won't make much difference. A bit like a little habit that we miss for a day. Or a sharp word that gets said.
Each time it happens, it's pulling off just one leaf. No big deal, until so many leaves get pulled off that the tree starts to fight just to survive.
So, too, we don't see the improvements of tiny, daily improvements.
Little things.
😀 a smile.
✅ a refusal to stress about something we can't control.
📆 an appointment kept, even with ourselves.
⏳ a 15-minute "no-procrastination" date with yourself.
Step by step. Under the ground. Miss a day? That's just one leaf. It doesn't kill the whole tree. Limes are on the way.
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