Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

The holidays can be a little intimidating, especially for queer people who may or may NOT feel safe in places or with people (family) they are going to visit. We’re gonna chat about how you can make the most out of this holiday season to keep your sanity!

1. "Lesbian relationships and being friends with an ex. I feel this is more common among lesbian relationships and it’s not really talked about."

2.  "I’ve been together with my girlfriend for 4/5 months, she’s met my family and friends, has been over to my home etc but I haven’t met any of her family yet nor friends. Seems like she’s waiting for the “right time”, I’m starting to feel like I’m being kept a secret for some strange reason."

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Thanksgiving/ Holiday Game Ideas:

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The coming out process isn’t always a positive experience for a lot of LGBTQ+ people. Not only do they struggle with the process of figuring themselves out but they also bear the weight of all the negativity they may face when sharing their truth with family and friends. So as an ally, how do you provide a safe space for those to disclose to you their sexuality/ gender identity without fear of judgment. 

Family Meeting Questions

1. “I caught my having sex with her coworker (a man) and he claimed he's her boyfriend”

2. "My wife and I had been married for two years but recently I found out she cheated on me a few months before we moved to another state".

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We have all experienced that hot and heavy sex in the beginning of a relationship. It’s fun, exciting, and spontaneous and you can’t keep your hands off each other. However, as time goes on, the sexual desires start to fade away or your sexual drive decreases simply because life starts getting in the way.

In EP: 85 we dive into

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Relationship breaks are perceived as a negative and selfish act. How can you claim to love your partner but want a break from your relationship? Most times one partner wants to take a break while the other partner doesn’t because it is viewed as one foot out the door to a break up. Taking a break in a relationship has a negative stigma because their purpose is never used in a positive way. In this episode we give reasons to why relationship breaks do not work, we share our personal experiences with breaks, and 5 rules to a healthy relationship break.

Family Meeting:

1. "How can I get past putting other people's sexual pleasure before my own? I just want someone who wants to please me as much as I want to please them."

2. "I'm in a relationship with an amazing man. However, I'm confused and struggling with my sexuality."

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We say that communication is the key to a successful relationship but what does that look like in practice? Dayra shares some questions that help practice monthly check-ins with your partner. Dayra also mentions the new found research behind lab grown babies and how IVG could transform reproduction.

Questions to ask your partner:

Family Meeting Questions:

1. "Is it normal to not have any serious romantic experiences at 21 years old?"

2. "What are your thoughts on being ghosted?"

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What is emotional safety? It basically means being able to be vulnerable with your partner. Jojo goes into 7 ways to create emotional safety in a relationship. Jojo & Dayra both discuss what it means to feel “emotionally safe” and they talk about a previous “discussion” they had where Dayra didn’t feel safe at the moment.

Read Article for more on emotional safety: https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-do-you-create-emotional-safety-in-your-relationships 

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We love to see LOVE on the big screen, especially WLW relationships. In this episode, Jojo shares some of her favorite TV lesbian relationships that she just can’t get enough of, as well as a list of other queer related TV shows for you to check out. To end on a juicy note, Dayra brings out the new couples question card game called pillow talk and let’s get naked from the “open up”.

Card game link: https://theopenup.com/  

List of WLW Tv shows: https://sesamebutdifferent.com/blogs/chia-poppys-corner/hottest-lesbianships-of-all-time-on-tv-plus-where-to-watch-them

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In this episode we go over The Top Mistakes Most Couples Make⁠ according to a lesbian relationship expert, Dr. Ruth L. Schwartz. We go over the following..

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Having non-negotiables allows you to set boundaries for people to respect the things that you value most in life. It’s like a promise you make to yourself to not let anyone bend the rules or change your mind on what you want most. You hold yourself and them accountable when it comes to those boundaries by sticking to your word. So let us share our personal non-negotiables that we set for dating/relationships as well as 10 general examples for all couples.

Family meeting:

1. How do i get my virgo girlfriend back?

2. I saw my girlfriends DM's with a guy she went on a date with but she doesn't know that I know. How do I bring it up to her?

Read more about non-negotiables:

https://hellorelish.com/articles/relationship-non-negotiables.html

https://goodthingsaregonnacome.com/why-are-non-negotiables-important-and-how-to-create-them/#:~:text=By%20setting%20non%2Dnegotiables%20and,live%20a%20more%20fulfilling%20life.&text=Non%2Dnegotiables%20are%20personal%20vows,what's%20important%20in%20your%20life.

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There’s a current trend going around where people are asking their parents hypothetical questions just to see how they would respond/react in situations that most strict parents would overreact. 

In episode 78, we’re now following this trend by asking each other how we would react in certain scenarios where most lesbian couples would probably OVERREACT! Dayra asks Jojo “What if I were to go out with my friends and I tell you that a guy was buying my friends and I drinks ALL night?”... And Jojo asked Dayra “What if I told you that I did not like your outfit and told you that you needed to change your outfit?”.

Family Meeting Questions 

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