Toxic positivity is the overgeneralization of happiness and optimism in all circumstances, which we define as being excessive and unhelpful. Denial, reduction, and invalidation of the genuine human emotional experience are the outcomes of toxic positivity.
When positivity is used to mask or stifle the human experience, it becomes toxic, just like anything done in excess. We enter a condition of denial and repressed emotions when we refuse to acknowledge the existence of certain emotions. The fact is that people have flaws. We experience jealousy, rage, resentment, and avarice. Sometimes, life can be utterly miserable. We undermine the legitimacy of a true human experience by acting as though we are "good vibes all day."
Toxic positivity manifests itself in a variety of ways, some of which are listed here to assist you identify it.
- concealing or masking your genuine emotions
- Stuffing or disregarding an emotion in an effort to "just get on with it" (s)
feeling guilty about how you're feeling
- Utilizing "feel good" words or sentiments to downplay other people's hardships
- Giving someone perspective (e.g., "It could be worse") rather than acknowledging their emotions
- Shaming or reprimanding people for showing annoyance or any other emotion other than gratitude
- putting things out of your mind by saying, "It is what it is"
Let's Break Up - Toxic Workplace Stories is Hosted by Gina and Nicola, both experienced in the corporate world and now deep diving in to the toxic workplace culture. Weekly interviews with people around the world, reflecting on their experiences and lessons learned to share with and support others potentially experiencing similar situations.Each week we include tips to identify and overcome some of the challenges associated with toxic workplaces.
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