Let's Talk Like Men

By Myles Harris & Rex Howard Jr.Society & Culture Relationships

Let's Talk Like Men episodes

July 10Why Men Don't Want to Get Married Anymore | What's Really Going Through Our Minds?
Why does it seem like so many men today are avoiding marriage?
It's one of the biggest questions in modern dating, and in this episode we tackle it from both sides. We explore why some men hesitate to commit, why others never intend to, and why many women feel confused trying to understand what's really happening in today's dating culture.
This isn't about blaming men or women. It's about understanding the mindset behind commitment, identifying the obstacles that prevent healthy marriages, and helping both men and women make wiser relationship decisions.
Whether you're a woman wondering why the men you're meeting won't commit or a man trying to understand your own fears and hesitations around marriage, this conversation is for you.

What You'll Learn
Why some men avoid marriage
How dating choices affect relationship outcomes
Why commitment requires maturity
The connection between purpose and marriage
How spiritual leadership shapes commitment
Why responsibility changes a man's priorities
The importance of patience and healthy development

Who This Episode Is For
Women seeking clarity about commitment
Men questioning their readiness for marriage
Couples preparing for lifelong commitment
Christians pursuing biblical relationships
Anyone interested in healthy dating and marriage
1 hr 1 min
July 03When A Man Is Dishonest | Can I Be Honest? Pt. 3
Every lie has a cost—and eventually, someone pays it.
In Part 3 of our Can I Be Honest? series, we discuss the devastating impact dishonesty has on a man's life. From broken relationships and damaged reputations to delayed purpose and spiritual distance, we unpack what happens when men continue believing and protecting lies.
We also explore how secrets become prisons, why people eventually stop trusting dishonest men, and how God's grace often leads us toward repentance before consequences become our greatest teacher.
Most importantly, we discuss why telling the truth isn't just for others to know the real you—it's so you can finally face the real you and begin the work of transformation.

What You'll Learn
Why dishonesty traps men emotionally and spiritually
How deception damages marriages, friendships, and families
Why lies eventually become part of your identity
The relationship between honesty and spiritual growth
How God's discipline leads to restoration
Why integrity is essential for purpose and leadership
How truth becomes the foundation for lasting change

Who This Episode Is For
Men pursuing personal development
Christian men seeking spiritual maturity
Men struggling with secret sin
Men rebuilding trust and integrity
Leaders wanting to grow in character
Anyone ready to stop living behind lies
dishonesty, honesty for men, integrity, men's personal development, Christian masculinity, accountability, truth and freedom, overcoming hidden sin, spiritual growth for men, rebuilding trust, biblical manhood, emotional maturity, purpose for men, men's discipleship, character development, becoming a better man, living with integrity, Christian men's podcast
1 hr 1 min
June 26When A Man Is Honest With Himself & His Boys
In Part 2 of the "Can I Be Honest?" series, we discuss the transformational power of truth and what happens when a man becomes honest with himself, his friends, and God.
We explore why honesty is the first step toward growth, why truth sometimes creates seasons of isolation, and why integrity prepares a man for greater responsibility and purpose.
Drawing from Scripture—including the example of Daniel—we discuss how honesty builds trust with God and why the life God is calling you into requires walking in the light instead of hiding in darkness.
If you're ready to stop pretending and start becoming the man God created you to be, this episode is for you.

What You'll Learn
Why honesty starts transformation
How lies keep men spiritually stuck
Why authentic friendships require truth
Why growth often feels lonely
The connection between integrity and purpose
Lessons from Daniel's faithfulness
How honesty builds trust with God
Why freedom begins with telling the truth

Who This Episode Is For
Men pursuing personal development
Christian men seeking spiritual maturity
Men struggling with hidden battles
Men seeking authentic brotherhood
Leaders wanting to grow in integrity
46 min
June 19When A Man Is Honest With His Woman- Can I Be Honest? Series Pt. 1
Can I be honest?
It's a simple question, but for many men, it's one of the hardest questions they'll ever ask.
In Part 1 of our new "Can I Be Honest?" series, we discuss what happens when a man chooses truth over comfort and transparency over secrecy. We explore the fears that keep men silent, the burden that dishonesty creates, and the freedom that honesty can unlock in both a man's life and his relationship.
From building trust and creating space for grace to becoming a man of stronger character, this conversation dives into the transformational power of honesty.
Because sometimes the thing you're most afraid to say is the very thing that can set you free.

What You'll Learn in This Episode
Why men often avoid difficult truths
How dishonesty creates anxiety and emotional weight
Why honesty strengthens trust and connection
How transparency allows relationships to grow
Why honesty gives your partner the power to choose
How grace and forgiveness often begin with truth
The connection between honesty and character development

Who This Episode Is For
Men carrying secrets or unresolved truths
Men afraid of vulnerability and judgment
Men wanting stronger relationships and deeper trust
Couples working to improve communication
Anyone seeking personal growth through honesty
49 min
June 05The 3 Decisions Every Man Must Make In His Life- Pt. 2 (His Wife)
In this episode, we break down the three major decisions every man must make: who he submits his life to, what his purpose is, and who his wife will be. These choices determine a man’s direction, discipline, relationships, and legacy.
We explore each decision through three perspectives:
Why the decision matters
The cost of making the decision
What happens when a man refuses to decide
Because staying undecided often creates confusion, drift, and instability.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
This conversation is for men seeking clarity, purpose, faith, leadership, and intentional growth.
Why submission and spiritual foundation matter for men
How purpose shapes identity and discipline
Why choosing the right wife affects your future deeply
The cost that comes with meaningful decisions
The danger of drifting through life without direction
How intentional decisions shape a man’s legacy
Why growth requires sacrifice and commitment

Who This Episode Is For
Men searching for purpose and direction
Men focused on faith and spiritual growth
Men preparing for marriage and leadership
Men committed to self-improvement
Young men building identity and discipline
54 min
May 29The 3 Decisions Every Man Must Make In His Life Pt. 1
Every man eventually faces decisions that shape the rest of his life.
In this episode, we break down the three major decisions every man must make: who he submits his life to, what his purpose is, and who his wife will be. These choices determine a man’s direction, discipline, relationships, and legacy.
We explore each decision through three perspectives:
Why the decision matters
The cost of making the decision
What happens when a man refuses to decide
Because staying undecided often creates confusion, drift, and instability.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
This conversation is for men seeking clarity, purpose, faith, leadership, and intentional growth.
Why submission and spiritual foundation matter for men
How purpose shapes identity and discipline
Why choosing the right wife affects your future deeply
The cost that comes with meaningful decisions
The danger of drifting through life without direction
How intentional decisions shape a man’s legacy
Why growth requires sacrifice and commitment

Who This Episode Is For
Men searching for purpose and direction
Men focused on faith and spiritual growth
Men preparing for marriage and leadership
Men committed to self-improvement
Young men building identity and discipline
1 hr 4 min
May 22“You Don’t Live There Anymore” | Letting Go of the Old You & Stepping Into Your New Life
Some seasons of life require you to leave old spaces, old habits, and old versions of yourself behind.
In this episode, we explore what it really means to outgrow your past and fully step into a new season of life. From grieving old identities and environments to building new habits and relationships, we discuss the emotional and spiritual process of transformation.
We also talk about the temptation to revisit old lifestyles, why nostalgia can become dangerous, and how to establish boundaries that protect the new life you’re building.
Because growth often begins with accepting one simple truth:
You don’t live there anymore.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode
How to grieve your old life in a healthy way
Why growth requires leaving certain things behind
The emotional danger of constantly revisiting the past
How nostalgia can delay your transformation
Why people struggle to accept the new version of you
How to build habits and environments that support growth
What it means to truly step into a new season

Who This Episode Is For
People navigating major life changes
Men and women focused on personal growth
Individuals healing from past lifestyles or environments
People stepping into new spiritual or emotional seasons
Anyone struggling to let go of the past

letting go of the past, personal growth journey, identity transformation, healing and transformation, mindset transformation, spiritual growth, emotional healing, outgrowing old habits, moving into a new season, self improvement journey, becoming a new person, changing your environment, healing from your past, growth mindset, christian self improvement, transformation journey, emotional growth, leveling up mentally
1 hr 3 min
May 15You Are Not Protecting Your Relationship! Ways to Protect Your Marriage & Relationship From Harm
Healthy relationships don’t just happen — they have to be protected.
In this episode, we discuss the intentional ways couples can protect their relationship and marriage from unhealthy influences, spiritual attacks, poor boundaries, emotional division, and outside interference.
We break down the importance of boundaries with the opposite sex, protecting your partner publicly and privately, being careful who you allow access to your relationship, and why communication, prayer, and unity matter so much.
This conversation is for couples who want to build relationships that are strong internally and protected externally.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode
Why protecting your relationship requires intentional effort
How boundaries protect trust and unity
Why outside influences can slowly damage relationships
The importance of protecting your spouse publicly and privately
How spiritual warfare can affect marriages and relationships
Why communication and consideration matter deeply
How to build a relationship rooted in unity and protection

Who This Episode Is For
Couples wanting stronger marriages and relationships
Men and women preparing for marriage
Couples working on communication and boundaries
Anyone seeking healthier, more intentional relationships

protect your relationship, marriage advice, relationship boundaries, healthy marriage habits, protecting your marriage, communication in relationships, spiritual warfare relationships, emotional intimacy, healthy relationships, relationship discipline, couples communication, god centered relationships, protecting your spouse, marriage self improvement, avoiding relationship problems, social media and relationships, building strong relationships, healthy couples habits
1 hr 4 min
May 08Men Are Crying For Help- How Can You Tell and What Can We Do About It?
Many men are silently carrying pain they don’t know how to express.
In this episode, we explore the signs that a man is crying out for help — even when he never says the words directly. From emotional shutdown and isolation to anger, burnout, and hopelessness, we break down how internal struggles often show up externally.
We also discuss practical ways men can begin healing themselves, as well as how friends, family, and loved ones can provide meaningful support during dark seasons.
This is a conversation about awareness, healing, and helping men realize they don’t have to suffer alone.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
The hidden signs a man is mentally or emotionally struggling
Why many men avoid asking for help
How stress and emotional pain show up in men differently
What men can do to begin healing and rebuilding
The role of purpose, discipline, and faith in recovery
How loved ones can support struggling men effectively
Why silence and isolation can become dangerous

Who This Episode Is For
Men battling emotional pain, burnout, or hopelessness
Men who feel isolated or mentally exhausted
Friends and family supporting struggling men
Women wanting to understand men’s emotional challenges
Anyone passionate about mental health and healing

men’s mental health, men are crying for help, depression in men, signs a man is struggling, helping struggling men, emotional health men, men suffering in silence, burnout in men, men and emotional pain, purpose and healing, mental health awareness, healing for men, masculine emotional health, emotional support for men, stress in men, men self improvement, supporting struggling men, how to help depressed men
1 hr 2 min
May 01Stop Wasting Her Time — The Ways We Waste Vital Years of A Woman's Life
Not every man is ready to date — but many do it anyway… and end up wasting a woman’s time.
In this episode, we break down the behaviors, patterns, and mindsets that lead men to enter relationships they’re not prepared for. From lack of purpose to emotional immaturity, empty promises, and misuse of time — we highlight the real ways time gets wasted and how to fix it.

stop wasting her time, signs he is wasting your time, dating advice for men, men not ready for relationship, relationship red flags, emotional maturity men, intentional dating, masculine development, men self improvement, unhealthy relationship patterns, commitment issues men, how to know if he is serious, relationship accountability, modern dating problems, choosing the right partner, dating mistakes men make, men growth mindset

This episode is about accountability, awareness, and growth — helping men become more intentional and helping women recognize when they need to walk away.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode
How to know if you’re not ready to date or marry
The most common ways men waste women’s time
Why lack of direction creates unhealthy relationships
How emotional immaturity shows up in dating
The role of discipline and self-control in relationships
How to become more intentional and accountable
How women can identify red flags earlier

Who This Episode Is For
Men who are dating or considering relationships
Men struggling with purpose or consistency
Women who feel drained or led on
Anyone seeking healthier, more intentional relationships

01:35 Introduction To Topic – Stop Wasting Her Time
05:25 Your Neediness Waste Her Time
12:32 Your Fleshly Desires Waste Her Time
18:54 Getting It Out Your System Waste Her Time
23:54 Your Empty Promises Waste Her Time
32:00 Your Irresponsibility Waste Her Time
38:40 Your Lack of Faith In God Waste Her Time
46:54 Your Money Waste Her Time
50:22 Your Lack of Purpose Waste Her Time
56:22 Your Brokenness Waste Her Time
1 hr 3 min

About Let's Talk Like Men

From the publisher's feed

The safe space FOR MEN by MEN. This is where we have brutally honest conversations about manhood. Everything from money, women, and life advice. We tell it ALL as real and uncut as possible!…