This episode addresses unsolicited marriage pressure and the entitlement behind questions and party expectations than genuine concern.

The conversation breaks down why employment is not a marriage requirement and why silence remains the most useful contribution when prayer, support, or introductions are absent.

The tone stays sarcastic, direct, and reflective, inviting laughter while forcing honest self checks. If marriage questions leave your mouth faster th

an help leaves your hands, this episode speaks directly to you.

I've always found it hard to say NO and mean it.

This is how far I've come in learning to have boundaries and stand my ground.

I hope you enjoy this episode, it's more of a mini rant really but Enjoy 😊 😍

9½ times out of 10, I feel lonely, like I don't fit into anywhere. I've gotten used to it, but I definitely wasn't prepared to be the weirdo I was.

Do I like it now? Absolutely. I'm originally me, but does it get tiring, mhmm mhmm...

This is me, sharing my thoughts on loneliness. I'm not an expert on life, just figuring it out, one day at a time

Many times, I find myself wishing I didn't grow up. Other times, I find myself wishing I could go back in time, to undo some actions and decisions I made.

I'm aware that the messy actions and decisions are parts of my current formation. They played a part in who I currently am. Am I proud of those actions and decisions? No! Hence, my wishing I could change them. However, messes are a core part of life.

I miss who I used to be, but she was a formation of who I am. Who I am, is a formation Of who I would become. It's a cycle of life .

So here's to those of us who life tried to break, we're not broken, just a little cracked. Cheers to healing, loving and finding the better parts of ourselves.

I look forward to a day when I can look back at my past self without grieving. We'll be fine.

With love,

Oluwatomisin.

I certainly recorded and had every intention to upload, because the goal is consistency this year, unfortunately, life happened and I was so focused on being an ADULT, that I couldn't get around to indulging in my "hobby". Oopsie.

I finally got around to doing it and decided my welcome back topic should be adulthood because let's be real, no one had hacked being an adult and if they have, they've not dropped the tea.

So, here goes nothing. Enjoy and maybe share with someone. Thankssss.

Have you ever felt like you're not good enough or what people say about you (the good part) is not who you are? Same here. Sometimes, it's our fears talking and many times, we let it determine who we are, how we behave and what we can do.

Here are my thoughts on this matter. 💭

Many a time, we struggle with being our authentic self because it doesn't fit into the aesthetics of society or social media (the two evils that causes us to struggle with being happy).

We've been made to believe that the standard is perfection and nothing else, however how can we be perfect if we are imperfect? 🤔

These are my thoughts 💭

I find it more comfortable to beat myself up for things I can change and those I can't. It's very easy for ne to tear myself down before anyone can. I struggled with accepting that mistakes are human and I can only be robotic to an extent. Hence, I had to teach myself to give myself grace. Are you in the same shoes? Then this is for you.

I grew up having different voices telling me who and how to be. I tried conforming to all the voices and eventually lost myself in the process. Getting to find ME has been a process. I hear those voices and opposed to obeying all but I'm open to being me.

I hope this episode resonates with you. Do let me know if it does.

Thank you for hanging out with me in my little corner of the world.

Love Always... Oluwatomisin

In this episode of Let's Talk with Avah, we’re digging into unrequited advice—that well-meaning but unsolicited wisdom we all love… to ignore.

Ever found yourself on the receiving end of advice you never asked for? Or maybe you’ve been the one dishing it out, only to realize it’s not as welcome as you thought.

Join me as we explore why some advice feels like a gift and other times like an intrusion, and how to handle both giving and receiving it with grace.

This one’s for anyone who’s ever thought, ‘Thanks, but no thanks!