Title of series
Letters from Quotidia 2025 Weekend Supplement 2. Quotidia exists as a safe place for ordinary people who sometimes get a glimpse of the extraordinary. As the original Letters roll out over the coming months, there will be occasions when the urge to create intrudes. These will take the form of weekend podcasts supplementing the regular Monday-Friday flow of the posts.
This supplementary podcast addresses one of the most timeworn genres- the love song. Four thousand years ago, in Mesopotamia, we find a text entitled The Love Song for Shu-Sin and according to the website http://www.albert.io, it was performed annually as part of a sacred fertility rite to ensure prosperity for the people.
In a loose translation, here are the first two stanzas by Michael R. Burch: Darling of my heart, my beloved/Your enticements are sweet, far sweeter than honey!/Darling of my heart, my beloved/Your enticements are sweet, far sweeter than honey!// You have captivated me; I stand trembling before you./Darling lead me swiftly into the bedroom!/You have captivated me; I stand trembling before you./ Darling lead me swiftly into the bedroom!
On no evidence whatsoever, I think that this genre is older still, predating writing because I cannot imagine our species, at the earliest stages of language and music, failing to mark, by song and verse, one of the deepest and most enduring emotions of the human heart. The stereotype (much admired in the manosphere)- you know the one- of the caveman clubbing and abducting his “love interest” would have found as little support then as now: well, I would certainly hope- otherwise how could humanity have survived.
On the poetry site allpoetry.com I came across a poem by Diane Crawford which tickled my fancy: entitled Alive in 2025 it goes: Things on me sag now/ and my knees kinda creak/my hair’s done turned grey,/teeth wobble when I speak.//Time’s just zipping by:/the year’s twenty-twenty-five,/but as long as I can laugh/I just love being alive!// Hear, hear, Diane!
As a 15-year-old aspiring songwriter, I tried to impress my girlfriend (who is now my wife of 54 years and counting) by debuting my first attempt at song- a parody using the genre of country music. [insert song]
Ah, if only I could re-capture the guileless, naïve energy I possessed sixty years ago! Much of my life has been taken up by folk music as will be attested by many of the Letters rolling out over the coming months. There are quite a few folk songs from various traditions I wish I had recorded for these posts. But as the old saying has it– If wishes were fishes, we’d all cast nets in the sea!
However, in this post I will make room for a song I’ve long admired- Black is the Colour. The song is of Scottish origin and, as Alan Lomax, renowned musicologist, remarks, it is an American re-make of British materials. It has been recorded by a variety of artists from the 1940’s to the present day: notable singers include Burl Ives, Pete Seeger, Nina Simone and Joan Baez. When I heard Christy Moore sing it some thirty years ago, I was struck by its innate quality. Since which time I’ve always had a notion to perform it, but just never got round to it. So, however belatedly, here now is my version: [insert song]
Which brings me to my latest attempt at a love song. It’s been sixty years since my first attempt you heard before, and I don’t know if there has been much development in my handling of the craft or if I’ve been just scurrying fruitlessly on the hamster wheel, as I seem to have been doing in so many other aspects of life.
Songwriters, when they are desperate for something approaching validation, sometimes like to trace their lineage back to the troubadours who flourished in the high Middle Ages where they travelled from place-to-place singing about chivalric themes and courtly love. They may, perhaps, touch base with sonneteers such as Petrarch or Shakespeare, citing works such as, say, Romeo and Juliet.
And let’s not forget that seminal mythological tale about the power of love where Orpheus descended into Hades to plead for the return of his wife, Eurydice. He played on his lyre a song so heartbreaking that the god of the dead agreed to release her on condition that Orpheus not look back as they ascended towards the light of the living world. I don’t need to tell you how this turned out, do I? Of course, many songwriters merely stumble through a labyrinth of words and music hoping for something that may serve. And, yes, I am talking about myself. [insert song] In conclusion, here is a corrective to all that flowery allusiveness about love: Merrill Glass wrote (and I’ve used this poem before, as a teacher, and in the Letters, but it will bear repetition) She wrote:
Remember the time you lent me your car and I dented it?/I thought you’d kill me…But you didn’t./Remember the time I forgot to tell you the dance was/formal, and you came in jeans?/I thought you’d hate me…But you didn’t./Remember the times I’d flirt with other boys just to make you jealous, and you were? I thought you’d drop me…But you didn’t/.There were plenty of things you did to put up with me, to keep me happy, to love me, and there are so many things I wanted to tell you when you returned from Vietnam…But you didn’t /
Future weekend supplements will be occurring from time to time as the spirit moves me- which is to say, they will be sporadic and dependent on the weather or which way the wind is blowing. So, please, do take care.
Since You Walked Out of My Life (words and music by Quentin Bega)
Since you walked out of my life I’ve been crying all the time
I don’t know what I’ve done wrong I only know you’ve gone
And if some day you come back to see if I’m still missing you
Girl you’ll be surprised the tears that’re in my eyes will all be dry
Cause I’ll be having fun with someone new
We’ll laugh and drink and sing the whole night through
And I won’t think of you when I’m with her
Her kisses will provide the perfect cure
I toss and turn each night in restless agony
Dreaming of this kind of remedy
Yes I’ll be having fun with someone new
We’ll laugh and drink and sing the whole night through
And I won’t think of you when I’m with her
Her kisses will provide the perfect cure
I toss and turn each night in restless agony
Dreaming of this kind of remedy
Since you walked out of my life I’ve been crying all the time
I don’t know what I’ve done wrong I only know you’ve gone
And if some day you come back to see if I’m still missing you
Girl you’ll be surprised the tears that’re in my eyes will all be dry
Black is the Colour (Traditional) F G Am/F G E7/F G E7/F G Am/
Black is the colour, of my true love’s hair,
Her lips are like, some roses fair,
She has the sweetest smile, and the gentlest hands,
And I love the ground, whereon she stands.
I love my love, and well she knows,
I love the ground whereon she goes
I wish the day, it soon would come,
When she and I could be as one.
I go to the Clyde and I mourn and weep,
For satisfied, I ne’er can be,
Then I write her a note, just a few short lines,
And suffer death, a thousand times.
Black is the colour, of my true love’s hair,
Her lips are like, some roses fair,
She has the sweetest smile, and the gentlest hands,
I love the ground, whereon she stands.
[Instrumental] F G Am/F G E7/F G E7/F G Am/
Black is the colour, of my true love’s hair,
Her lips are like, some roses fair,
She has the sweetest smile, and the gentlest hands,
And I love the ground, whereon she stands.
Yes, I love the ground, whereon she stands.
The Sanctus Moment (words and music by Quentin Bega)
Would I were a troubadour or Petrarch with his lines
Could I draft an epic which romance itself refines
Diving deep to find the words that speak unto your soul
Then rising when I hear your loving call
Romeo and Juliet their story we relate
Oh may we feel their passion but avoid their fate
Like them we embrace each other all through the night
But may we still emerge into the light
Oh I am searching- will I ever find
The words to catch this moment- or will I be ever blind
And stumbling through a labyrinth- my fate already signed
By capricious gods who laugh at us no kindness here inclined
Orpheus sang his heart out for the lord of all the dead
Pleading that Eurydice be restored to life instead
Of languishing in Hades far from the sun’s warm light
But he glanced behind and lost her from his sight
The pages of our story are not so rarefied
But take the path of most of those who have lived and died
An ordinary life where passion still can burn as fierce
As any swain or nymph by Cupid’s arrow pierced
Oh I am searching- will I ever find
The words to catch this moment- or will I be ever blind
And stumbling through a labyrinth- my fate already signed
By capricious gods who laugh at us no kindness here inclined
Mm, yeah, baby you are the
Sanctus moment lifting my soul
You are the Sanctus moment lifting my- soul
Credits: All written text, song lyrics andmusic (including background music) written and composed by Quentin Bega unless otherwise specified in the credits section after individual posts. Illustrative excerpts from other texts identified clearly within each podcast. I donate to and use Wikipedia frequently as one of the saner sources of information on the web.
Technical Stuff: Microphone-songs Shure SM58; (for the podcast spoken content) Audio Technica AT 2020 front-facing with pop filter); Apogee 76K also used for songs and spoken text. For recording and mixing down: 64-bit N-Track Studio 10 Extended used; Rubix 22 also used for mixing of microphone(s) and instruments. I use the Band in a Box/RealBand 2023 combo for music composition.