March 26, 2025

Letting Go of the Past and Establishing a New Identity Part 1: Why Does My Wife Keep Changing—And Why Does My Husband Want Me to Stay the Same?

16 minutes

Wives often feel like they’re working tirelessly to heal, grow, and set healthy boundaries—only to feel like their husbands don’t understand or appreciate the effort. Meanwhile, husbands wonder why their wives seem so focused on personal development instead of “fixing” the marriage together.

In this episode, we explore:
✔️ Why a wife's personal growth isn't a threat to the marriage—it’s the foundation for real change.
✔️ How husbands can learn to embrace their wife’s transformation without feeling left behind.
✔️ Why women must understand and protect their "greenhouse" before inviting their husband back in.
✔️ How men can shift from resisting change to leveraging their wife’s growth for a stronger partnership.
✔️ The truth about why season one of marriage repair will hurt—but why it’s worth it.

If you’ve ever wondered "Why am I the only one doing the work in this relationship?" or "Why is my wife so different now, and where do I fit in?"—this episode will help both husbands and wives understand the real path forward.

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