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Letting Go of the Past and Establishing a New Identity Part 2: Why Does My Wife Have So Many Complaints—And Why Does My Husband Keep Telling Me to Fix Myself?
Do you ever feel like no matter how much work you put into the marriage, your spouse just doesn’t get it? Wives wonder, “Why am I the only one trying to heal?” while husbands ask, “Why does she have so many pain points—and why does she expect me to fix myself?”
In this episode, we break down:
✔️ Why marriage repair starts with individual transformation—and why it feels so unfair.
✔️ How women can create safe boundaries without falling into resentment.
✔️ Why men feel exhausted trying to “get it right”—and how to move past frustration.
✔️ The hidden ways Satan sabotages your marriage right when things start improving.
✔️ Why verbal intimacy is the foundation for everything else—and how to do it without falling into old patterns.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a painful loop of conflict, disconnection, or frustration, this episode will give you the mindset shift and practical tools you need to move forward.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/reacting-to-toxic-people/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0eUp633jaA
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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By Maurice Harker
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Do you ever feel like no matter how much work you put into the marriage, your spouse just doesn’t get it? Wives wonder, “Why am I the only one trying to heal?” while husbands ask, “Why does she have so many pain points—and why does she expect me to fix myself?”
In this episode, we break down:
✔️ Why marriage repair starts with individual transformation—and why it feels so unfair.
✔️ How women can create safe boundaries without falling into resentment.
✔️ Why men feel exhausted trying to “get it right”—and how to move past frustration.
✔️ The hidden ways Satan sabotages your marriage right when things start improving.
✔️ Why verbal intimacy is the foundation for everything else—and how to do it without falling into old patterns.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a painful loop of conflict, disconnection, or frustration, this episode will give you the mindset shift and practical tools you need to move forward.
Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/reacting-to-toxic-people/
Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0eUp633jaA
Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
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