We get a lot of questions about what to do when you are a person with an ABDL kink who is dating / married to a non-kinky person. Since neither of us *is* married to a 'Nilla, we thought it best to bring in some experts... a wonderful ABDL + Nilla married couple, @paddedtogether (IG). This is part 1 where we learn about their relationship and get some really straightforward advice about how to find, engage, and work together with that Nilla partner to meet each others' needs.